I think you are being a bit paranoid. To be honest, I always ask for a pic for several reasons. (And I know for a fact some of my friends do too.)
First of all, I feel more confidant when the guy outside my door is the same person as in the pic. I don't know why, but I just do. Just as they feel better when I am the same person as in my pics.
Also, money is not my *only* reason for doing this. I like to feel phyically attracted to someone when we make love. I know a lot of the other girls don't care what a guy looks like, and that's fine, I respect them, but I do. I also like to have some conversation with guys before I see them. I see if they are polite, have some class, some intellect, a sense of humor and an overall good outlook on life. I'm sure it sounds strange coming from someone like me, but I just don't like the "wham, bam, thank you Ma'am" stuff. I like to set the mood like a date. I ask if they want me to wear something special (or want to be surprised), light candles, have soft music, offer a drink, have romantic lighting and make a nice time out of it.
What can I say? I don't advertise on EROS. I don't see that many guys, so I like to be a bit more discriminating with my men.
And let me say just a couple more things... I know my way is not for everyone. I never expect it to be. It's just my way. Some like it, some don't. And that's cool.
Also, if a guy is very nice, sweet, polite, funny, honest, etc... it's amazing how much better he phyically looks. Funny how human nature works that way.
Peace & Love
what do you think of s provider requesting a picture of a potential client? i have never had this happen in my many years of this hobby. Since, i like to keep my escort dates discreet, i'm little skeptical about giving this provider a pic of myself. what do others think? am i being paranoid?
You aren't being a bit paranoid. If the provider is really that
hung up on appearance, you probably don't want her anyhow; you might suggest a public meeting with some means of recognition so she can keep going if she doesn't like what she sees, but I wouldn't bother. . .
This just happened to me yesterday. I declined for two reasons. One, I am paranoid, who knows if this picture is going to be used or distributed against your will. Second, this is business, what does it matter what I look like, do you want my business or not.
thanks for the replies. i'm going to pass on this provider.
I think you are being a bit paranoid. To be honest, I always ask for a pic for several reasons. (And I know for a fact some of my friends do too.)
First of all, I feel more confidant when the guy outside my door is the same person as in the pic. I don't know why, but I just do. Just as they feel better when I am the same person as in my pics.
Also, money is not my *only* reason for doing this. I like to feel phyically attracted to someone when we make love. I know a lot of the other girls don't care what a guy looks like, and that's fine, I respect them, but I do. I also like to have some conversation with guys before I see them. I see if they are polite, have some class, some intellect, a sense of humor and an overall good outlook on life. I'm sure it sounds strange coming from someone like me, but I just don't like the "wham, bam, thank you Ma'am" stuff. I like to set the mood like a date. I ask if they want me to wear something special (or want to be surprised), light candles, have soft music, offer a drink, have romantic lighting and make a nice time out of it.
What can I say? I don't advertise on EROS. I don't see that many guys, so I like to be a bit more discriminating with my men.
And let me say just a couple more things... I know my way is not for everyone. I never expect it to be. It's just my way. Some like it, some don't. And that's cool.
Also, if a guy is very nice, sweet, polite, funny, honest, etc... it's amazing how much better he phyically looks. Funny how human nature works that way.
Peace & Love
TS Star,
I love and agree with your outlook. Love it! It's that type of attitude I will be looking for when I finally take the plunge one day (soon I hope).
As I included in my response to the poster asking us in here recently who we would like to see in his upcoming video, I would think the erotica (work up to the moment:conversation,role playing,modeling,etc.) preceding the sex is not only more important, but possibly make the WHOLE experience much more fullfilling, memorable, and worthwhile."Wham, bam, Thank you, Mam", is definitely out with moi. Are you and I the only ones to think this way I wonder ? Do you advertise, and if so, where ?
... By the way, may I compliment you on how easy it is to read your postings. Your writing flows so effortlessly. I simply give up when I encounter posts that are nothing short of 21st century hieroglyphics. There are some in here that I always have a hard time of deciphering. They're brutal.
Hi Piqued,
That was so sweet! They say the greatest (and most important) sex organ is the brain. I think people miss out on a lot when they focus only on "the act" itself. I hope you and I are not the only ones who think this way!!! But sometimes I wonder... it seems most guys are just interested in the old "how big is she?" question. And while that is a legitimate need for some, I myself, don't care how big someone is. All the other things I mentioned before are far more important to me.
your points are well taken. however, why not just agree to meet somewhere first (like a bar) to see if there is a mutual attraction. i know i've turned down a provider because i wasn't attracted. i wouldn't take offense if a provider turned me down for the same reason. in fact, i'd appreciate her not wasting my money.
i just don't like sending a pic of myself to a stranger (who could post it anywhere on the net). yes, maybe i'm a bit paranoid, but i do like keeping my hobby private and discreet. lots of providers don't require pics and i guess i'll stick with them.
i respect your opinion, however, you are going to miss out on a lots of sweet, polite and funny guys (like me). but as you say that's your way and that is cool.
take care.
Hi Dicky,
I suppose I could meet someone at a bar or some other place, but then, that takes a fair amount of time when they could just send their pic to me. And besides, they already would have my pic and know what I look like so I figure fair is fair.
As far as someone posting your pic on the internet, I guess anything is possible, but I've never heard of a provider ever doing this. But I do understand that some people are more private than others.
It makes me sad to think that I might miss out on some great guys because they don't want to send a pic, but then, they miss out on a great girl too!
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