I live in the San Diego area and have had one TS experience-a bad one.  I've done the strap-on thing with a couple of local Doms and enjoyed it.I'm new to this site and would like some recommendationsfor a good TS experience-I'm not sure I'm ready for 10" though. I get to LA and the bay area quite a bit but would like something local too. I've seen great reviews of Mila and Samantha Del Valle-where are they? Also, any other TS web sites worth visiting?

Mila is in the Bay Area and Samantha Da Ville in LA (I believe).  You can find Mila on Eros.  She also has a website.  I think it is www.milabeauty.com.  She is great for beginners and hobbyists alike.  You can't go wrong with her.

Have you tried SER at the included link?
They have by-city reviews of  TS girls only.