Lets say I see a hot TS on Eros. I want to know if BBBJ is on the menu (that is giving her the BBBJ).

If there is an email address given I will just ask straight out in the email as this saves an awkward phone call although I don't always get a response, so no deal. Sometimes there is no email listed and there add says " no explicit questions over the phone". Now if there's no BBBJ then there's no deal. I'm not going to make a date, hand over my donation and then find out the rules.

Any suggestions on how to handle this. TS Alma is in town (Vegas) and I really want to see her ever since I saw her pictures on a paysite but I need to know her rules ahead of time.

One other question. Is it rude to ask the provider if she is cut or uncut? This usually isn't a deal breaker but I really prefer uncut.

This is becoming a more diffucult situation.  E-mail  are being used as evidence in some places, as are phone conversations, which don't need to be recorded, mearly witnessed, so there's no wiretap needed.

So providers are more reluctant to discuss anything - or to post anything on their web site which in turn causes misunderstandings.

You might try just saying something like, "this isn't a question, but I really like (whatever)." or possibly, "I'm looking for a girlfriend."  This allows the girl to reply if she wants.

This whole situation is probably going to get worse before it gets better.

Sigh,
TS Jamie

and it has far less to do with delicacy as much as legalities but in either case you don't know. some will answer, some will decline to answer and some will hang up.

Its a tough thing. We are spending money and as such it is fair to understand what we are getting. Some of them are are worried about being set up and others are just being cagey.

Try using obtuse phrasing on the phone. If they respond properly or you feel its worth a trip save more pointed conversation until you get there. Even then some want you to hand over the dough before they respond, that would definitely prompt me to walk.

She's not doing you a favor by taking the call, you are doing her the favor by paying her for her time.  If she can't handle hearing your legitimate question on the phone she should probably write a better, more concise ad or a web site FAQ, or look for another line of work.  Perhaps you can word the question in a vague way like, "What are your limitations?".

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Being in the Biz-there are ways to ask such as do you speak French/Greek without a translator needed.