Right this is my first post and it is a strong one !. I seem to always get bad luck and I had a bad experience with the first t-girl I saw and she caused me no end of trouble.
Basically I saw an ad off eros where this cute t-girl was advertising. Made an appointment and told her I wanted to try it both ways active/passive etc. She seemed nice and not mad in anyway. She asked me if I wanted a massage first. I agreed and she started giving me a rub down.
While doing this she started rubbing her dick on my ass. She had no rubber on but I just thought it was part of the massage. The she suddenly lay on me and tried to enter me if you know w hat Iam saying. Because she was so fast she did manage too. And because she was quite big (she was over six foot and athletic) it took me a few secs to throw her off.I put my clothes back while not turning my back to her again and left.
It doesn't end there as I had a bit of bleeding and had to go to the docs. Iam in the army so you can imagine the embarrassment. And no the MO wasn't very understanding.I had to wait six months for an HIV test (which was negative). I'll be honest and say for a while I felt very angry towards this person but to be honest what's done is done and how would it help matters if I went and kicked her head in?
Despite this, I would really like to see another transexual escort as Iam attracted to them.But Iam worried about going back to one because of what happened.Does anyone know any t-girls (London based) who have good reps and wouldn't pull a nasty trick like that?AS I can't seem to find anything on the review section.Maybe I'm not using it right ...dunno. I was looking at Mistress Suzannah in London anyone been to her?
Kind of sounds like you wanted to be topped. At least that's what you told her. You have to be very clear with what you want with escorts. Can't help with the London thing, but good that you got back on the horse so to speak.
Yeah I I told her I wanted to try it both ways. I just kind of assumed though that she would put a rubber on before topping me.What with all the std risks out there.Plus she knew I had never done it before and slammed it in when I was face down.I certainly didn't ask for bareback which is why I threw her off.
Iam going to have to be a bit more cautious next time I reckon.
hypo666:
Very sorry to hear about your bad experience but glad you are okay and not letting one bad apple ruin the bunch. Please write a review so that we may all be aware of this poor behavior from a provider.
Najwa’s reputation needs no embellishment but you might keep in mind that she is pretty much a bottom only and it seems you are still looking for someone a little more versatile. I haven’t prepared an extensive list on London just yet so my advice for next time will have to be limited to the suggestion that you should study the “London” TER Profiles by accessing them through the Search Reviews function. There are 196 TS Profiles with London listed as the primary city. Of those, 109 have performance rankings of above average. The break down is as follows:
37 6 - Nice Time
33 7 - Hot Time
23 8 - Went The Extra Mile
15 9 - Forgot It Was a Service
01 10 - Once In A Lifetime
The 10 rating is from a profile with only a single review. Yes, you guessed it, the review is from a one hit wonder reviewer so take it with a liberal amount of salt - photo and link below.
Study this forum too – there is much good advice available here for your next first time experience.
Best of luck,
TS Tempted
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I'd gladly post review but this was six months ago and I have checked eros/birchplace where she also advertised and she is no longer advertising. Not surprised really. The best I can give is a physical description (I'll think I will remember her for quite sometime),what she called herself and some of the stuff she told me about herself (which could all be lies) before what happened happened..If you want me to post it I will up to you.As I don't want it to happen to anyone else.
Thanks for the help btw.
hypo666:
We had a similar situation last month – read that thread for reference please:
Question - Posted by likelatin, 6/12/2007
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=24310&boardID=19&page=
Since you won’t get a review accepted (no current ad) you should probably let the forum know who it was that engaged in this unacceptable behavior.
Some time ago we had a discussion about first timers. Three TS were recommended in London – see this post:
First Timer List - Posted by TS Tempted, 12/7/2006
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=20925&boardID=19&page=
You may be a bit beyond that first time experience at this point but you could probably still benefit from meeting someone who is good with first timers. I’ll take a look at my London list and see if I can make any additional recommendations. It won’t be comprehensive but it might give you some more direction – it may be a day or two before I can get back to you, stay tuned but keep doing that research!
BTW what’s with the 666 in your handle anyway?
Take care,
TS Tempted
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My current favourite, a lovely girl who tops and bottoms, is TS Magdalene, +44 7960 098 538. Real girlfriend experience, with a little extra. Charming, passionate, beautiful. Can't find her advert on Eros today, so perhaps she's away, but here is her personal site.
Hey Sweetie - sorry to hear of your experience. I cannot imagine any kind of professional girl topping you bareback (and with no lube? or no mention anyway)
It may have been a miscommunication BUT again a professional should ASK, are you ready? And for a first time experience you need to go VERY slow.
I do know of TS's who get off on really slamming it to a guy - maybe it's supressed hatred of men or something?
When Jessica and I date a first timer we start with lots of lube and some finger play, working the outside and slowly expanding things. Maybe a small dildoe gently inserted and left awhile for the person to get used to. Sometimes that's as far as things go - and it's our guests party, sometimes people find anal just isn't for them.
Eventually Jessica (she's our virgin slayer - just the right size for it - go to our video store for reference...) will take "top" and enter slowly, building as it's comfortable for both.
And I just might take the other end and make our "victim" do really naughty things right in front of our wall of mirrors... giggle.
Myself, while I am functional I am really thick (and I'm not 23 either...) so while I will occasionally top someone who's not too tight it's usually just too tight for me to do first timers without pain for both parties.
I don't know about London girls but just be sure to communicate clearly what you do and don't expect.
PS - we are going to have a "How To" video coming out soon expecially for guys dating trans girls for the first time!
Hugs,
TS Jamie
hypo666:
We haven’t heard from you in about a week now so I hope you’re still out there. Sorry it’s taken a while for me to get back to you (and with so little too…). I belatedly realized I have more incompletely researched ladies in the London/U.K. area than researched but for what its worth here’s what I’ve got. They’re ranked in three tiers which should be self-explanatory but the tiers are clearly biased for a number of subjective and highly personal factors. Najwa being ‘third tier’ should tell you that I think highly of what I’ve learned about all of these ladies but she just fell into my third tier for subjective reasons. I’ve provided links to their TER Profiles, when available, and have only provided additional links if they are not included in their profile.
Top Tier:
Anna Rose
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=73403
http://www.erostranssexuals.com/london-files/lo-anna13-anna1.htm
Becky
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=85943
Emily Grace - also still has a listing on epicdreams.com but may be retired?
Second Tier:
Jennifer Thompson
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=52941
Natasha
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=95034
Stephanie
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=52269
Third Tier:
Cherry Lopez
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=26437
Jasmine
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=85720
Najwa – based in London but currently traveling in the U.S.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=24721
Best of luck,
TS Temtped
P.S. My number one (but alas she may no longer be available):
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