What does GFE mean and what does it entale?

I don't have a clue either.

GFE=Girl Friend Experience.  This has been posted before but the Board's been a little too "ISO 411" oriented recently, so I'll get a thread going.

Websters defines "girlfriend" as a high maintenance emotional basket-case in constant need of patronizing compliments about how her ass isn't huge and inane conversation about these curious concepts she calls "our relationship" and "the future," not to mention financial security and an occasional thing from Tiffany.  Ironically, its these attitudes that often drive us to see providers.  Oh, yea, did I mention it also means no blowjobs after the first year?

But, thankfully, it actually means the provider acts like she actually likes you.  As a buddy of mine once reported in a Rio terma, "I don't want them to love me as long as they can pretend."  That means different things to different people but generally includes conversation, no rush, kissing and intimacy.  Some guys also consider BBBJ and DATY essential to GFE.  

The source of GFE is part provider, part chemistry.  Some are incapable due to bad attitude, cockiness, general unhappiness, or plain distaste for kissing strangers.  Others are just natural social animals and somehow manage to enjoy themselves with just about anyone.  Others are YMMV and the GFE is based on attitude, chemistry, and perhaps even money (the only thing girls respect less than a cheap-ass is a total lay up).

The true GFE is the provider that will spend quality time off the clock, either because they enjoy it or feel like its a relatively innocuous way to do business development.  Then of course, there are providers that really do escort with the hopes of potentially meeting a mate.  I've encountered I select few here in the states but they are very prevalent in any third world country.

My Tgirl experiences (spanning 2 yrs) have varied far more widely in terms of GFE than my GG ones (spanning 10 yrs), despite the fact that tgirls are the vast minority of my lifetime number.  Several of my absolute worst escort experiences have been with Tgirls yet I've had more way-off-the-clock time with tgirls.  Any opinions as to why?

GFE = Girl Friend Experience = Lots of kissing and affection

Also see...

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=5889&boardID=33&page=1

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    The Answer; Hormones!  LOL  Seems to be the standard answer for all we don't understand about TGs'.  Enjoyed reading your post!

to our esteemed moderator, and other posters:

GFE is the subject of constant debate. there is no standard for what it means, very little agreement among hobbyists and providers, and absolutely no guarantee that a "promised" GFE experience will be delivered.

the (in)famous St. Bart attempted to put forth a very specific scale by which "GFE" would be measured, to no avail. i don't even know it all by heart, but i'm quite sure that it included DFK (deep french kissing), BBBJ (as opposed to covered BJ), multiple cups and unlimited positions. does it include greek style intercourse? does your girlfriend let you do that without some very expensive jewelery involved?

my points are these:
1. if a provider advertises a GFE, it means NOTHING. many rip-off providers advertise GFE.
2. if a hobbyist states GFE in his review, it means NOTHING, unless he qualifies it by stating what it means to HIM, or what specific acts were offered.
3. everybody who is answering your question is stating what GFE means to THEM - which will do you no good whatsoever if you are searching for a provider. better to read her reviews and get a sense of what she offers, and not depend on the "GFE" tag.

Very well put, Beeevis.

After all, we (providers and hobbyists) are all human beings.  You can't just expect a large check list to be brought out and then check things off as they get done.  Even though a service is offered, it can vary day by day, week by week and even hour by hour.  As always... YMMV

Think of it this way.  If you go to a restaurant and order the same thing on a different day, it will still be a bit different even though the basics are the same.  Portions may be bigger or smaller, might take longer to make, better than/or not as good as last time.  Hotter or colder.  All these little variables.

And it's true that every girlfriend is different, so should you expect a "GFE" to be different from person to person.

Let me ask you this TS Star.  

Is the "GFE" the result of the inexplicable attraction between two people who have serendipitously (I love that word) come together (pun not intended), just like in real life?  

Or is it a performance by a professional who must remember to guard against emotional land mines?  Even through multiple sessions with someone attractive to them.

I agree with your restaurant analogy, but how much does the diner influence the chef's ability to create a sparkling culinary experience?  And does the chef look forward to the return of that diner to his restaurant as much as the diner looks forward to his next meal with that chef?

Silly me. Here I thought "GFE" stood for a provider who was a wiz at darning socks and ironing shirts. No ?













...I guess one's mileage really does vary.

In answer to your first two questions... Yes and yes.

A person can do their best to be a professional and provide a great service, but as we are all human beings, it's only natural that when two people click, things could only be better.

Put it this way:  If you were paid the exact same to kiss two different women, wouldn't you just automatically get into it more and enjoy it with (insert your favorite model/actress/singer here) than you would with someone like Rosanne Arnold?  It's just human nature.  Even though you would try to give equal pleasure to both.  Now it's true that some people are better at faking it or acting than others, but I'm sure that somehow, that extra spark would shine through with the person you had great chemestry with.  

As far as the food comparison goes, I think you can answer that for yourself.  If you were the chef, who's food would you take the most care with?  The diner that was polite, showed excellent manners, enjoyed the food, had interesting conversation, dressed nice and tipped well?  Or the borish, dirty, rude, arrogant, cheap diner?   Of course, you being a professional, you have certain standards that YOU feel you have to meet, so you go ahead and serve good food to the guy as best as you can.   But with your favorite diner, you might take a little more time and care to make sure the sauce is just perfect, the portion just a bit bigger, and the garnish & trimmings are just right.  

Star

Thank you Star.

That was as succinct an explanation as I could imagine.  You are a very clear thinking person.

There is little else better than having a meal prepared for you by a chef such as you describe, when you are the respectful diner. Bon Apetit.