owards your fellow hobbyists while you have a cock in your mouth and finger in your ass.
When you see a provider, instead of worrying of how others have sex with one & another, bareback or not.
Just say in upfront to every provider you gonna have sex with:
"I WANT EVERYTHING COVERED" -
if needed, with further explanation, cock covered and hands use gloves, just incase of germs. And no kissing, just put a barrier between the mouths.
Now those are the magic words, I can assure you a lot of girls will be more than happy to oblige.
So you don't need to worry for your anxiety or well, more like, obsession, and your unbearable horniness after the hot oblivion sex ( lost in the moment), DFK, licking asses. fingering asses, changing salivas.
And when your dirty deed is done. You look at the girl, you act like so surprised and look at her with accusing eyes & say,
"OMG! You sucked my cock bareback and you allowed me to do that too! I can't believe it! And you cum'd in my mouth and you fingered my ass so good. Oh crap! You so not safe!" And on your way out, you asked her, " do you still have some pee pee left?"
Easy right? Problem solved. You don't even need to feel unsafe and blame people having sex anyway they do anymore. And you can stop thinking how they have bareback sex without letting you know first with all the creampies that drive you nuts etc.
Well you do know right, This is the meat market where everyone has their own fetishes and preferences, and they basically pay for it using their own money.
So, please next time when you see a girl, tell them in advance " I WANT EVERYTHING COVERED'. Just like that, problem solved.
So no more, blah blah blah of your 'the same ole shit different day' bareback obsession. that you need to repeat it every 2 or 3 weeks and on and on and on.

. Be well, Mellow yellow