if a t wants to get a real long hard fuck she may think a cock ring will keep you up and loaded, if you have experience with it then it may be the ticket. The rubber or strechable ones are easy to start with, metal is cool but sizing can be troublesome. adult stores and internet suppliers are the place to shop. Get several as one can easily break when putting in on if too tight, but if not tight enough it will slip off. Most guys put them on when they think they will have trouble keeping it up, but they always look cool, especially the ones that trap your balls in an iron ring, but practice first to no miss the fun