I am probably going to meet a prep-op transsexual in the near future for the first time.  I've been doing a lot of reading and research (and masturbating) on my own, but I thought I would ask the veterans out there what your best advice is for dating these sweeties.  What is your approach?  Do you do anything to prep?  Got any favorite reviews?  

Thanks in advance!

Fair_Use, welcome to the board.  I am sure there are many members who are willing to assist.  Might I recommend you share some of your research and then possibly narrow down your questions a bit?  For example, many people have their favorites.  Who do you like based on your research?  Also, where are you located?  That is huge considering someone may give you a good recommendation that may not even be close to your city.  

Also, if you start to frequent this board, you will find that there is a group of good providers who comment here quite frequently.  Good luck.

No kidding, when I first got into this, I did the whole review search thing, and came up with a long list. Took me awhile to get off the computer and make some calls. By the time I started going out on dates, and I mean visiting other cities then mine, more then a few of the girls on my list had already retired.

As far as the approach? Call early, and call again if they don't return your call, because someone else will get that limited time only deal if you don't. Some prefer email, some the phone, some like text messages, a lot, Remain a gentleman, try to explain without getting too embarrassed what it is you are looking for in your dates. You'd besurprised what asking nicely can do.

Have fun, & Good luck.

Thanks for your hospitality.

Location is not huge for me, as I travel a lot and it appears so do the TS providers.  I will be in Chicago for a while.  As for favorite types, I like skinny ones.  Narrow hips and small breasts or just plain flat-chested.  I am not into the fat hipped and implanted chests, so much, but who knows?  Which this preference happens to be the kind of genetic women I like too — skinny with a set of a cups.  

I happen to have my maiden voyage plan with a particular TS provider and I have been in contact with her about arranging a meeting in the near future.

My biggest concern is taking anal.  Having never done that myself, I have been on the giving end with a woman, and I've heard it often involves some "prep."  Though I don't know exactly what that is, I'm guessing an enema?  Or maybe something more exotic, like an inflatable dildo for conditioning the anus.  I have also heard a little powdered sugar down there is nice for rimming.  The imagination runs wild, as the GGs that offer this sometimes require hours of advance notice.  Who knows what they are doing, if anything, but losing one's ass cherry is no casual matter and my inquiring mind wants to be boy scout prepared.

How about cologne?  The scent market is geared for men and women, but what fragrance is best for attracting and impressing transexuals?  I spent the day at a Macy's cologne counter trying different kinds.  I thought maybe Angel for men had a nice compromise of male cologne that has nice hints of perfume crossover.  Smelled like T-girl gold to me, or so I like to think!

Fair Use... you really make me more excited to come to Chicago  now LOL.
Welcome on board, and follow the advice of the veterans here!

Tia

well the first thing you're doing is researching.  i admit, i did none.  jumped in.  i swear my first one was a casual hookup on CL.  to this day i still think she was just a fat guy with man boobs.  but i pushed through.

make sure you read the reviews and ask the questions.  look to see if they say they will work with first timers.  ask them if you will be rushed and express that you don't want to be.  if you get one with killer reviews she probably won't rush.

and above all remember they are woman and want to be treated as so.  i have had the pleasure of hanging out with some after the date.  i have taken them for dinner/lunch.  i was not paying them for their time, but i did pay for the meal. (not all will do this)  like any first date i would try to impress them.  buy the meal, get the door, ask them about themselves..... yadda yadda....

good luck and for god sake let us know how it goes.....

yes take an enema, give it 5-6 hours before you actually hook up. forget the powdered sugar (or were you kidding?). fresh and clean is better than scented. let her get perfumed for you, not the other way around. otherwise be polite and treat them like a lady...