Besides the frying pan episode, I had one episode that kind freaked me out. I posted the story here awhile back.  I call this girl from CL, drive over, park. I was told to walk up to a gate, the gate opens (rod iron gate to a condo complex). She obviously could see me.  I go to the first condo, door cracked, I open it....This very very overweight person (could not tell if it was a guy, ts, or woman) is watching porn and says cum in. I said hell no.  She said, you can't get out, the gate is closed.  I did the quickest, fastest run, jump, and flip over the fence move. I did not know I had it in me but the last thing I want to do is go visit someone who is a fraud.  

But, every situation is different.  Some stay, some go, some are in a very bad situation and shit happens.  

Regardless, always be ready to bail.