I want to be taken anally but I seem to be to tight. I have had providers put their fingers in my anal and it felt good but I really want to be taken that way and know that my lover is enjoying being inside me. Is there a special lube that makes it really easy, is there something I can do to practice? Can anyone suggest a Chicago provider that would be gentle and patient with me?

Seriously, you'll need a vibrator or dildo and practice OFTEN.  Those butt muscles have memory, so if they're not used to sizeable, uh, objects, they will contract from lack of use.

Graduate up in size.  It's a very rare person that can take a massive member for their first time!

Also, please remember to do an enema before going to see a gal.

www.puckerup.com and www.enematips.com

I send many of the clients to this site if they seem to be naive about anal sex, cleanliness and preparation...these sites are great because they are mostly written from the straight male and female point of view...which totally debunks the theory that anal sex is gay sex

both parties will be more relaxed and confident sexually and makes the anal sex more fun...dfk, Rachel

Hi Rachel,

Thanks for the referral.  I wish I had known about those sites a long time ago.

I am taking this suggestion seriously. Does anyone have a suggestion for a provider in Chicago to guide me through my first anal experience.