Has anyone ever had a relationship with a TS girl? If so, how did you go about it? Where would you meet them? There are one or two that I think are stunning and would really like to know socially. Any thoughts?

It's not easy to have a TS as a girl friend or at least it isn't for myself. So I'll say that I have had ongoing relationships w/ a few in Chicago. I can't say names but a there's a couple that have or are currently listed on Eros "Super Hot". First thing you have to do is make sure you are where they are... parties, after partyies, get together's etc. You have to not go all horndog'ish when you get to meet her friends. If you land the one you want, make sure you show her the 1 on 1 attention that she deserves. It's not all about partying & hanging out.  Try your best not to be over aggressive nor over affectionate. Sometimes you'll get caught in the allure and that only will let you down.

They are a lot like gen. women besides the fact that they will not watch sports with you. lol Similar insecurities, problems, bills, wanting to feel beautiful the whole 9. When you meet the one you want don't be afraid to introduce yourself, give 1 or two complements and that's it... Too much flattery is over kill. That only alone may not get the attention that you want from her off top, that's why I say show up where she might show just incase you bump into her. Then reintroduce yourself but this time let her know what you have on your mind if the opening presents itself. If she thinks you're hot then she may just give you a shot. All you need is one night, you have to play it right though don't be pushy but don't fall back either. A TS can absolutely make you feel like a piece of meat they can sleep w/ you and act like it never happened. That helps TS keep other TS out of their business. After the 1st night with her barring a poor performance you "Should" be able to get her again. The 2nd, 3rd, 4th, times being in a non club environment will give you the time to get to know her. That's when you see if there's any real chemistry.

BTW, paying for it is really not the way if you want her to be your GF. If you'll pay for her time you'll pay for someone else's time.

Table the persons gender, you can't develop a relationship (girlfriend, wife, etc) if that person is an active provider.  You would drive yourself bonkers if you fell in love.  In addition, depending on their age, many younger ts/tg peeps are in the adult industry to pay for their transition.  I myself have had a hard time even keeping friendships with providers where we have a lengthy history.  I can count on one hand the good TS friends I have today who are actively working.  You will not find a girfriend here or on any adult site...they are here for work and financial gain.  The only time I have ever met a TS outside of an adult site was on craigslist (belive it or not) years ago. It was an asian ts girl who was more than passable and never in the industry but she also had rich parents who supported her.  

My feeling is this is going to be a hard thing to accomplish....but thats only my experience from my encounters.

Maybe find a nice church?  ha ha..good luck.

Very true, It's a totally different situation if she working.

kinda in same boat, i like passable t girls but dont want a customer relationship, guess you have to hit the t girl club nights and hope for some luck and good timing, went to hamburger marys last night and spoke to teighjiana last night, maybe ill get lucky and run into her again at a place that a little more mellow. as far as the working girl aspect, as long as she is practicing safe fun, get over it, its no big deal, could even be a turn on

A t/s that is post op-all female now-(1)can she have an orgasim(2)her female parts-are they cartilige-or made out of what(3)will female hormones reduce further some of "male" parts-arms, legs, thighs or is that just a matter of working out in gyms