As the link below describes, this is like blaming the liquor stores in our country for some people getting drunk and doing stupid things with what they purchased from those stores.
Please stand up. Stand out. Do whatever it takes to push back this tide of venomous and totally hypocritical assault on our freedoms to exist, and the absolute ignorance which still surrounds the lives of many, if not most, involved in our lines of work and our art, for those that consider it as such.
i have spent a *quarter* of my entire life now in upscale erotic arts, companionships, and escorting. It became one of the greatest, lasting, committed, almost entirely positive, and passionate loves of my life, and a very important part of my being fully self-actualized as a real mainstream society woman, in what is still a very hostile and far too ignorant society, especially where TSs' are concerned, much less all sexworkers.... and all of this, in a still virulently puritanical and theologically hypocritical sociology and mythos, surrounding the nature of sex, procreation, and gender expression of any kind that falls outside of the supposed "morality" of the Adam & Eve model.
This will affect the lives of tens of thousands of women in the art, both TS and GG, and many that have no other way to even afford to advertise on the more expensive sites, nor the wherewithal to create their own websites if you're living on the street level or just above it.
Many times my listings as a sponsor advertiser with BP saved my week, or month, or year, and even once or twice my life (another interesting story).... i have met more truly good people, made life-changing and lasting connections with shy and wary newcomers and the most experienced seekers alike, and at least 40 to 60% of all my contacts in the last 12 years via BP.... I published in any city **THE*** single most clean, mature, well written, and distinctively forthright and honest pages out of literally thousands of listings, and have been rewarded for it *countless* times by good, kind, and sincerely seeking people that may not even know of the TER, or EROS, much less the other sites like P411 and date-check and etc etc etc....
BP has also become known for honorably assisting LE in breaking down child sex trafficking networks and willingly assisting in the apprehension of dozens of criminal pimps, abusers, and traffickers, and working directly with Orgs like Children of the Night to save lives and reduce harm, and so much more.... and Yes, - it also became a hotbed for more fakes, flakes, and ripoffs than anyone could count, and i am sure if they (BP) had ever had the idea or ability to do any verification of posters, maybe some of this would have been delayed or stopped....
...But in the larger scheme of our society and now, once again, in the legislative dictation of "proper moral and ethical values", This is even more criminal. Insane. ill-conceived, and shallowly dictated for reasons so hypocritical and far from the reality of our lives and struggles that it literally begs to be questioned at every social and legislative level possible. This and other actions like this over time will place thousands more struggling and vulnerable people at even higher risk due to the removal of such prominent and well known venues.
Just raging. Venting. Crying in sheer frustration. Disgusted. In shock. Breathless. Feeling exasperated, and wondering how in the world to help overcome yet another social and legislative obstacle to those of us (including myself at one time) that may have nothing more than their bodies and minds and a few dollars in their pockets to survive by, if they are lucky enough to even keep those basic items intact, and free of drugs, psychos, abusers, pimps, traffickers, abusive or cold-hearted LE, and worse.
wow. just wow.
with deep sadness, and a burning hope for change of hearts and minds that in this society cannot come fast enough,
i am, most respectfully,
TheAngelaGirl
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