If you read alot of ads, many say they love first timers or have no issues.   I'd either find a provider who has reviewed meeting first timers and being patient or state that in their ad.  Also, if you call them first and tell them you are a first timer and want to enjoy your time and take things slow, judge your selection based on their answer.  Get my drift?  Also, I think if  you find a well reviewed provider who has a solid track record and has been around awhile, you should also not go wrong because first timer or experienced, a provider like that is interested in making sure you have a good time, new to this or not.  Good luck.

I still haven't had my first yet, but I think you are likely over analyzing it. Like the all knowing Dog said look for someone well reviewed...folks here give solid advice. If you make a smart choice I don't see you having a problem...once the sex starts rolling I'm sure Mr Happy will be cooperative. Anyway you said you want to bottom...you don't need a stiffy for that!! So just have fun and let it happen...good luck.

Almost everyone that participates in this hobby has a favorite. What one person likes another does not. For me the sex is just a small part of what I look for in a lady. Don't get me wrong. I do like the sex but I want to also make a connection or at least feel like I have made a connection with a lady. I still get nervous when I go see a lady. Even one I have seen before. I think that is natural. Pick some that is well reviewed. Become a VIP for a month or longer. It can save you a lot of money in the long run. When you go see a lady write a review. It helps us all.
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Since you are already down with being the bottom, would say that you don't need to be worried about her, but you, if you get stage fright. I've been told that role is a lot less fun when you are not at full attention and really into it.

Good luck.