Transsexual
Most all the guys who i know who are into t-girls are seeking the perfect girl. The perfect t-girl is passable as a woman. Is a GFE (girl friend experience) meaning she will cuddle with you and french kiss with you just like a girl friend would. She is a PSE (porn star experience) Meaning she can fuck like a porn star. An acrobat who is into many positions and prides herself in her performance ability. IMO, Rare is the t-girl who posesses all of these abilities. Most definitely 9 out of 10 t-girls who take hormones will always come short of her peak ability to be the best GFE / PSE escort she can be. No matter how many t-girl escorts I hook up with who take hormones, and they say hormones has not affected their cocks performance ability, I have yet to meet EVEN ONE who did not have "cock problems". Since most of us guys who see t-girls also see genetic escorts, I find myself lately seeing more GG's and less TS's because the TS's have been disapointing. When I can get a half hour rub and tug from a pretty GG for $60 to $80, why would I chance it and be disapointed again paying a TS escort 100, 150 and some seek 200, 250 and more and they can't get it up?
There was a local t-girl who was 5' 4" 120 or so lbs, GFE / PSE, top, bottom, 5" hard as a rock cock that cums once every hour. A $100 date. She never posted an ad. Via word of mouth EVERY guy who was into t-girls saw her. She was a dream t-girl. Problem is some of the TS's who were not up to her par, ratted on her and she got into a little trouble with the law. Anyway, the t-girl described in this paragraph is an idealistic perfect t-girl in every measurable way. MOST t-girls lack her abilities and price. This is why I have been seeing GG's lately.
Jamie, there is another variable, age. Keeping in mind where the "chassis" of a t-girl came from, it brings back memories of when I was 20 to 22 years old. I could have sex and cum 6 times in 6 hours and build up for the 7th in the seventh hour if need be. Those were the days!! 
I think the reason why guys might have a preferance for young t-girls who are in their 20's, is for the hypothesis that her cock might be more apt to "work".
Reviews on review boards are of utmost importance. It saves a guy a ton of money and a lot of disapointing dates. Reviews of t-girls are even more important than reviews of GG's, because as you say, a GG can just lay there. more is expected of a TS escort.
Most TS escorts lie. Same as a man will lie and say he is taller than he is, a TS escort will lie and say her cock is larger than it really is and that she is fully functional. TS's say this because they know this is what men want to hear.
Personally, I would prefer to hook up with a passable CD who is skinny and pretty and has never touched hormones. This CD is much more likely to be a satisfactory hook up for me than most Eros TS's who live 24/7 as a woman and take hormones.
Yes, the man who complained about t-girls not getting hard has a point. He IS paying for service and expects to get what he is paying for. That is why reviews are important, so a guy can seek a t-girl who can perform.
I have had opportunities for free hook ups. I prefer to pass on them and see a girl I am paying for. When I am paying, it is about ME. When I am not paying, I have to be concerned with satisfying her desires too. I prefer to pay so the focus of attention is making sure I get my rocks off. If you happen to get your rocks off in the process of satisfying me, cool, but that is not my interest or objective. JH
Ok - I happened to be browsing CL in OC to check out the competition... giggle.
So I see this post from some guy complaining about girls not getting hard. His point was that it's our "job" to get it hard since we are the one's being paid for a service.
Pleeeaze...
I think a little lesson in passion is due. Nobody, boy, girl, t-girl is going to get very sexually aroused when there is no passion or personal connection with the other party. GG's fortunately can fake it. T-girls can't.
Most adults can't just walk into a room, get naked and expect things to pop right up unless you are a 16 year old on a first date.
Often on first casual encounters with someone new there are performance issues (on both sides) due to a lack of connection os simple nerves. And for escorts who maybe experience a lot of sex, reaching a passionate level sometimes takes more effort.
Then there is the guy who is like, "Well I stroked it twice - why isn't it rock hard?" Dude - try sucking on it and kissing and touching us gently for like 10 minutes...
My feeling is it's YOUR job to turn us on.
Let's hear from the boys and girls and see if Mars and Venus really are different planets.
Be nice!
Giggle,
TS Jamie
Most all the guys who i know who are into t-girls are seeking the perfect girl. The perfect t-girl is passable as a woman. Is a GFE (girl friend experience) meaning she will cuddle with you and french kiss with you just like a girl friend would. She is a PSE (porn star experience) Meaning she can fuck like a porn star. An acrobat who is into many positions and prides herself in her performance ability. IMO, Rare is the t-girl who posesses all of these abilities. Most definitely 9 out of 10 t-girls who take hormones will always come short of her peak ability to be the best GFE / PSE escort she can be. No matter how many t-girl escorts I hook up with who take hormones, and they say hormones has not affected their cocks performance ability, I have yet to meet EVEN ONE who did not have "cock problems". Since most of us guys who see t-girls also see genetic escorts, I find myself lately seeing more GG's and less TS's because the TS's have been disapointing. When I can get a half hour rub and tug from a pretty GG for $60 to $80, why would I chance it and be disapointed again paying a TS escort 100, 150 and some seek 200, 250 and more and they can't get it up?
There was a local t-girl who was 5' 4" 120 or so lbs, GFE / PSE, top, bottom, 5" hard as a rock cock that cums once every hour. A $100 date. She never posted an ad. Via word of mouth EVERY guy who was into t-girls saw her. She was a dream t-girl. Problem is some of the TS's who were not up to her par, ratted on her and she got into a little trouble with the law. Anyway, the t-girl described in this paragraph is an idealistic perfect t-girl in every measurable way. MOST t-girls lack her abilities and price. This is why I have been seeing GG's lately.
Jamie, there is another variable, age. Keeping in mind where the "chassis" of a t-girl came from, it brings back memories of when I was 20 to 22 years old. I could have sex and cum 6 times in 6 hours and build up for the 7th in the seventh hour if need be. Those were the days!! I think the reason why guys might have a preferance for young t-girls who are in their 20's, is for the hypothesis that her cock might be more apt to "work".
Reviews on review boards are of utmost importance. It saves a guy a ton of money and a lot of disapointing dates. Reviews of t-girls are even more important than reviews of GG's, because as you say, a GG can just lay there. more is expected of a TS escort.
Most TS escorts lie. Same as a man will lie and say he is taller than he is, a TS escort will lie and say her cock is larger than it really is and that she is fully functional. TS's say this because they know this is what men want to hear.
Personally, I would prefer to hook up with a passable CD who is skinny and pretty and has never touched hormones. This CD is much more likely to be a satisfactory hook up for me than most Eros TS's who live 24/7 as a woman and take hormones.
Yes, the man who complained about t-girls not getting hard has a point. He IS paying for service and expects to get what he is paying for. That is why reviews are important, so a guy can seek a t-girl who can perform.
I have had opportunities for free hook ups. I prefer to pass on them and see a girl I am paying for. When I am paying, it is about ME. When I am not paying, I have to be concerned with satisfying her desires too. I prefer to pay so the focus of attention is making sure I get my rocks off. If you happen to get your rocks off in the process of satisfying me, cool, but that is not my interest or objective. JH
Ah the famous GG+S chimes in!
Oh NO, I didn't mean to imply it was his "job" to turn me on, well yes, maybe I did.
It IS his job - I mean I can supply the passion, but it still needs somethign in return, a connection.
Like I've noticed sometimes guys are really hard at the beginning of a date, then - especially if they are bottoming, they lose it and have trouble getting it hard later withouth a LOT of work by both parties. I attribute it to nervousness or not being in a passionate relationship with the other party.
For example. I can be with someone who for whatever reason the boytoy just doesn't work for - but 20 minutes after he leaves I can get rock hard with my lover. So what's up with that?
Gosh, now I've confused myself.
Let's all just go have sex!
And PS - GG+S you missed chat tonight, this could have been a fun topic.
Giggle,
TS Jamie
A hard cock on either a t-girl or the John can be a subjective thing many of times due to the human element of each person. However, there ARE t-girls who are known for being tops. In Miami, FL is a TS by the name of Kate. Every local John knows for sure if he wants to be topped by the best, see Kate. Ten years ago Kate was the best top and today Kate is the best top. Does not matter what the client looks like, Kate can and will top him. This is her trade mark. I do not know if she uses Viagra or some thing else, but if she sees 3 or 5 guys in a day, they will all be topped.
There is a skinny and cute little thing by the name of TS Misty. 5' 2" and all of 90 lbs. She has a hard as a rock cut solid 8" + cock that on my date with her shot a cum load and got hard again and 15 minutes later shot another cum load. I was on a half hour date with her and i was concerned for her shooting so many loads in such a short period of time. She said, not a problem, I can shoot another one for you!!
Kate and Misty are NOT typical. How they do what they do, I do not know. With Misty, IMO, it is youth. She's maybe 19 years old. With Kate, it might be Viagra??
When I was in my late teens and early 20's, I too could get it up for any one and often. Those were the days!!
Most guys who seek the TS fantasy, seek the whole package. Meaning they desire a TS who is as pretty as a GG and has a rock hard cock too. There are exceptions to every thing though.
There are 2 classes of 'TOP' providers who book several sessions daily. Those who can command a boner at will (these mental magicians have my deepest admiration) and those that utilize Viagra or other stimulants to raise the flag.
Both classes understand it is their "duty" to perform.
What you're talking about is "dating" and on that premise your are correct, but Hon...this ain't dating. It's BONER RENTAL. 
That's funny CuddleM. Can I use that in my advertising?
I go with Laraah - I'm a girl, if I wanted to plow guys I'd have stayed in the Army... giggle
So treat me like the very naughty girl I am, and I'll give you the passion of a lifetime!
Face down, ass up, you know that's how I like it!
Giggle,
TS Jamie
On readback I see where ya'll thought I meant top (as position)...... I actually meant the top or leading providers.
Yes.. JATG you can use "Boner Rental"
There's a real good reason why they are not honest. The truth is a hook up killer!!!
Similar to a guy who's 5' 4" and partly balding seeking love and romance via personal ads. He finds out pretty quickly that most women who are seeking a man for love and romance, are not seeking a 5' 4" balding man!! So what must this man do? He must conceal the facts about himself and hope a girl falls in love with his personality.
Similarly, a modern day t-girl escort knows she will lose 50% or more of her market potential if she tells the truth that she can't become fully erect and can't cum. (the fantasy is a chick with a dick..... not a chick with a limp worm!!! )
A buddy was just on a date with a visiting TS. He said she is a fox. I looked at her ad and it say she is 8" and fully functional. She goes on to say "most guys can't handle it all". My friend tells me, she absolutely 100% could not even get semi-firm, never mind hard as a rock. She would be incapable of topping, yet you can see what she writes in her ads.
IMO, if it were not for TER reviews and local review boards, these scams would happen a lot more. The only real way for guys who see TS escorts to protect themselves is via sharing info on the good and hard ones and also sharing info on the TS's who can't get it up or cum.
Personally, I am back to seeing GG's untill reviews reveal that for sure a t-girl is capable of being hard as a rock for a looong time and cumming.
Ever notice when people make out, they close their eyes? You ask "what is the girl supposed to do for stimulation?". I say: if you are being paid 100, 200, 300 or what ever amount of $$$ for your time, close your eyes and make believe your penis is riding Brad Pitt, Tom Selek or who ever is the current hottest man alive.
Men for years have been fucking "road kill" and still get it up and get his rocks off. For the $$$ you are getting.... perform!
Locally, there are two hot babe GG escorts. one is known for her Asian abilities (licking strange mens ass holes for half an hour) The other is known for her passionate DFK (deep french kiss) abilities with every man she hooks up with. I have been with both of these hot babes and i watch what they do. They both close their eyes and go to another zone. The DFK hot babe darts her tongue in your mouth like she's on a paid mission to Iraq, doing her duty. The ass hole licking girl (who's in her young 30's and has an MBA degree in business and marketing) would rather lick strange mens hemerroids than work in the corporate world.
So when you have that 350 lb dead fish laying on your bed, close your eyes and make believe you are fucking Brad Pitt!!! ha ha ha Pull you cock out and shoot that cum load all over Brad Pitt's face!! No one ever said being an escort was gonna be like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman.