I totally agree with Melissa, India, and the Doggie!
I decided to sit back and "watch" how this thread developed and glad I did, too. My first response was to hang that jerk by his balls--oops, he has none, so by the ball sack.
I applaud Melissa for posting this--we pervs can get lost in our little naive world of la-la sex, never giving a first or second thought that we are seeing a REAL person.
To be fair, yeah, there are providers who are scammers and cheats, too. But, when we're dealing with world class providers like Melissa and India, it's whole new echelon of expertise, dignity, trust, and respect.
Our girls risk their lives period. They get beat up, their money stolen, stalked, and get criticized for not having a big dick or a gallon of cum. Yes, even the world class providers. I am astonished that they are able to maintain a loving nature. And, I am grateful.
Yep, it's now time for that box of Kleenex!! 
We at TER have an opportunity to help shape the behaviors--in a positive way--of our fellow pervs. Treat her like a goddess. The sex will be mind-blowing unfuckingly amazing. Take a moment to recognize the person you are with. You don't have to share a cry together--LOL! 
And, yeah, when you're seeing someone for the first time--who has no reviews--be alert. Don't let yourself be taken advantage of. If she's not the girl in the pictures, is mean in a bad way, and looks like a train wreck that's happened twice, why the hell would you throw away your money on that? How dare you blame her for your own stupidity?
Finally, here's some really good advice: check out The Erotic Highway board. Yep, that's a link to the left of your screen. The Erotic Highway (TEH) board is an amazing board where a trained psychologist answers questions--and she's good at it, too! Don't be shy. I've posted there and have always been treated well. A good head check is worth a thousand nights of sex (well, ok, maybe just 10 nights). Hee-hee! 
O.k., are we all ready for that group hug now? Hmmmm, ya know, I've always wanted to try a gang bang--oops, now the Cat is really out of the bag! 