How do you find out if ts girls give or receive or both? If they are able to receive orally to completion? CIM?

I just ask them and have had mostly good luck with that approach along with checking reviews.

I just posted this question and was waiting on it to be moderated!

I'm in the same boat.  In the other forums, I've read that discussion of sexual specifics is strictly a no-no prior to the meeting.

Is this an exception to that rule?  Frankly, I'd probably choose a different provider if they didn't top.  As you said, some of the reviews make it clear, but some do not.

imo asking if they are a top or bottom is okay.  Asking if they cim is not appropiate on the phone or email.  May be cause for a possible arrest if it was asked by a LE.

Thanks - that's actually really helpful!