Im a newbie.I read on big doggie what are the do's and dont's.I called melissa tonight and I was caught off guard by the quistions she was asking.Like what do I want to do and stuff.I thought we weren't supposed to talk like that over phone or in person.Put $ in envelope and what happens,happens right.should I have said I want to give you a bj.I've been dreaming about it.that is the truth.I was just caught off guard.She said she was by friends and to call back tomorrow.I think she really meant I don't like you so buzz off.Any tips.

Newbie,

Consider Melissa's gesture a compliment. Generally when a provider asks questions as to your interests, She is considering meeting with you. And perhaps she wants to be sure she is ready and able to "play in your sandbox."

While you are using big doggie as gospel, you should consider reading between the lines. I will give you an example of what does and doesn't workn (from my humble prospective), illustrating 3 of the calls I received today...

Caller #1. Lemme talk to Jasmine. (I say, this is Jasmine). Oh Jasmine? what do you offer? (I say, what do you mean?) I mean like, massage and what? (I say; Care to introduce yourself? Or do you prefer to just rattle off question after meaningless question?) Well, how much do you charge? (I say, Do you have a name?). Yea it's Dan, how big is your cock? (I say: Goodbye) and I hang up.

Caller #2; Hi, i am a submissive bottom, is that okay? (I say, that depends on your expectations, define submissive bottom). I want to get fucked and swallow cum? Can you do that?  (I say; I am booked for the rest of the week, and I will be traveling for the rest of the month but thank you for calling). I hang up.

Caller #3; Hello, my name is max, how are you today? (I say; I am doing well thanks, you?) Great, I wondered if it would be possible to meet with you this afternoon...(I say, anything is possible love, have you seen girls like me before?) Yes, and I really liked your photos....(I say, thanks...whats your expectations?) Well, i just found you very attractive and hoped we could get together for whatever...We chat for a few more minutes and schedule an appointment 2 hours away.

Max was hot...I took him for the first time. Neither one of us knew that was going to happen, but it did. When a man and a woman get together for an intimate moment, things mostly just seem to take on its own form ( and i was really in the mood to be on my back this afternoon)...did I type that out loud?

- jas

I think you should have just said I would like to meet you for 1 or 2 hours. And you could have also told her a little bit about yourself.

I know you must have been nervous being the first time. I was too when seeking my first appointment with a GG provider

Yes I know but what do you say when the girl gets explicit on phone with you.she was asking me what I was looking for, how big is my cock.I'm not saying she is bad.judging by her reviews she sounds like she is the best in the buissness.

so call back tomorrow and explain..melissa is really lovely

...in the top 3 on my list

- Jas

I usually dont ask those types of questions, but I was trying to feel you out as you sounded very nervous & I wasnt sure if you were calling to waste my time.

Sorry about that.you caught me off guard.I was serious about seeing you.I wouldn't waste your time.Hope we have a good time.If you read my first message then you know what I want to do.Talk to you soon.

...Melissa is like a sister to me...such a good spirit...no malice or "shade"(to hobbyists or sister providers)...my agency always recommends her, Shana, and Jasmine if due to scheduling conflicts, I am unable to attend to a gentleman's needs)...this was just an prime example of miscommunication between a professional/leery provider and novice/nervous hobbyist...I am sure after the first few minutes together, all will be forgotten...DFK, Rachel

Wal789 we will expect to hear back from you after your first experience.  It took me a couple of times to find a TS with whom I clicked and when I did click I think it was more of a very loud bang as opposed to an audible click.  Oh I miss Venus already!  I wish her happiness but there is a part of me that longs for an email saying things didn't work out and she will be in my town to visit.  Hell I'd book a flight to NYC just to see her again!

Just relax, be honest and follow her lead.  She has done this before!