My impression from the other thread is that some are threatened by being directed to a specific "near" spot in order to obtain further instructions. It is kind of silly, but that appears to be the case. I can't imagine a specific sting scenario that could be deployed at that "spot" short of photographs or something. I have read reviews of providers, mostly in NYC, where you are told to call from a specific phone. That would be more threatening than sitting in a running car in a restaurant parking lot with $400 cash on you talking on a cell phone.

I understand your reluctance to give out the "end" address considering the number of no-show calls you must receive. By getting us to commit in the first step at least keeps your address private to that point.

I don't see the beef, but if you want to soften the commitment a little, just give them an "about the time you arrive near..." or something. You will still have to get exactly where they are before you can direct them in.