I was wondering how other hobbyists deal with this question. Not all of us want to do "everything."  How do we explain this perhaps as it relates to rates without being so explicit that it brings up a red flag?? I'm referring to the phone call initially when setting up a session. How do you all do this??

Most times, if the provider is honest...the ad she posts will be most indicative of what she provides(GFE, versatile, fully functional, etc)...asking if she is into DFKing or possess certain outfits are not usual LE questions, so won't be found to be leading...many times gents(especially american) will asks my agency the very things written in the ad or on the web site...lol...if the provider says she is GFE(many falsely do) and is not, do your fellow hobbyists a favor and write a review stating so. Most times, if my gents desire something special and don't feel comfortable asking my booking agents, we go with the flow of that moment and if I can make the request happen, it is done or we save it for next time and have something to prepare for as well as look forward to...dfk, Rachel

Gentlemen if you can’t verbalize it then you can’t experience it.
Saying what you want to experience isn’t against the law. I mean the donation that we advertise is strictly for “my time”, after that hey what happens between us is just between two consenting adults.

Good question. we'll see ads that say "do not ask explicit questions or say anything in a sexual nature or it will result in a disconnection."
i wouldn't ever dare a provider if she can cum but i do think it's neccessary to find out for my benefit and best interest if she is a TOP, BOTTOm or VERSATILE. i think that inquiring question would prevent an embarrassing and disappointing session.

This is exactly why I brought up this question.  we really can't "legally" talk about it.  Rachel, with all due respect, we CAN'T just rely on the provider's description.......we all know how false or inaccurate the descriptions can be.

What can we hobbyists do??

You really can't trust providers, like this ts Sexy Becky, who has a picture of the porn star Raven Riley (genetic girl) as one of her pics in her ad - http://erostranssexuals.com/miami-files/mg-becky21-becky1.htm

If you're worried about the provider's description being false or inaccurate, I don't see how talking things over on the phone will help.  If she's lying in her ad, she'll lie on the phone.  I do depend on the provider's ad if there are no reviews available.  If the pictures aren't of her when I arrive, I leave.  I've still been disappointed once or twice, but I never gamble with money I can't afford to lose.

If you are unable to trust a written web page description, I highly doubt that a brief phone conversation would cause an untruthful person to repent and suddenly reveal the truth. I look at reviews on this site and compare them to advertisements. If the person is not yet reviewed, then we take the risks associated with the unknown.

I AM SORRY I dont let anyone explain anything till I am with them,then you tell me anything you want I will do my best but the rate is for my time not what we do and what ever happens betwen two adult that are consenting happens that is what I say over the phone.