You know I have thought about escorting but I don't really know how to explain that I don't really want to top. I think that it would suck to go on tour and have all these guys complaining that I didn't fuck them or whatever. I would sit on a guy's dick no problem, but I am sure that I couldn't top strangers.

As you guys know, it's not really legal to post an ad saying what you will or will not do. I think a problem in this thing you guys call a hobby is honesty. Girls say they are functional, then they aren't or they just came all over the last guy 10 minutes before you walked into the room and don't feel it when you get there. Then the same ritual happens... You post about the girl not being functional on sites like this.

Hey Wendy, you are the coolest. I guess it depends what a guy wants and what a girl offers. Of course we have all heard the "I just came all over the ceiling" stories, but what should follow is, " I need a few hours or a viagra to recharge, come back later. Toping is an art that is rarely present in a world where money is a strong incentive, when it should be horny-ness. Therefore, girls who are looking for a fast fuck, I mean a fast buck, often misrepresent themselves. If you are a top, toping a stranger is no big deal provided you have a stiff cock. A simple squeeze will tell you if a girl has it stiff enough to do the job, Honey, you are a bottom, so don't worry, anyone looking for a bottom would be lucky to find you!

Really do not think you should have a problem with not wanting to top.  Could you simply say something like, attractive, fun, functional but strickley enjoy a view looking toward the stars but never the moon? The next salty dawg is on me if I recall correctly.

Honesty is soooooo coool, Vicki!  What a joy to hear your thoughts.

The TS world is so rich and varied, such diversity.  And, what strikes me as really interesting here is that there is quite the "divide" of perceptions between provider and hobbyist.

I also suspect that your top-notch experience in the film industry has kinda conditioned you towards the great "money-shot" thinking.  Sure, some guys are all about that, but that's not the way it all is in the real life.

For me, I would love for a girl to have the patience for me to be down on her for an hour.  I don't know why, but I seem to have a real excitement for the feel of soft wangers.  Getting hard is not so much a big deal for me at this point though I'd love to bottom.

So many hobbyist categories: oral-only, top-only, bottom-only, top-bottom, etc.

Since we don't have any reliable demographics of these hobbyist categories, it would be impossible for a girl to "specialize" without risking a reduced population appeal.  In other words, we just don't know the numbers and locations of the top-only hobbyists.

I agree that there are ways to get around the description of services so that it is legal:

I want you to be on the "top" of your game while I will always be at the "bottom" of your heart, haunting your senses.  Seeing you on the "top" of my world is so exciting, my heart is pounded with anticipation, as sweat glistens on the smooth skin of my curves yearning to be the vessel of your love.

I can only hope and prey you make San Diego the first stop, or any stop, on your tour! I want to be at the "top" of your to-do list!

I'm sure you would be quite popular Vicki if you ever decided to escort I, for one, would love to meet you if you ever make it out to the Columbus, OH area.

Why would you call me Wendy? Blah.

Well I think I would rather have regulars than anything. I much prefer seeing the same few people over and over to the masses. It's just how I am. I like to bond with people. Like dinner then sex would be better than just sex and an hour seems completely terrible. I don't understand how people can just hang out for an hour or half an hour. A full blown tour might not really work for me.

I agree completely, Vikki.  The few experiences I've had were great, but I'm a romantic at heart.  Besides, with so few opportunities here in Arkansas, I'm not tempted by quickies.  Sure wish I had enough mules to be a sugar daddy!

Sounds like you would be UTR (under the radar), so to speak.  And, there's a market for that, too.

But, I sure hope you keep posting here on TER--it drives us wild, ya know!

Your honesty is really, really refreshing. My experience has been the other way -- I get T-girls who say they bottom (or are versatile) but really only want to top.

I hate it when that happens, because I don't bottom. So, I would be first in line to see you if you ever do decide to escort. It's the honesty that does it every time.

Keep in mind that not all of us are even looking for penetration activities. I think many , including myself, would love to get together for other things...oral, etc.

Thats a very rare thing a girl who claims to be a bottom and can actually Top.

And Vicki your honesty is  opposite from a lot of our experiences. The girl has to expect negative comments on boards like this if she claims to be Versatile/functional and doesn't perform. If she was an honest provider she should say I won't be ready to top for a few hours. The girl knows her body and a guy wanting a hard girl and gets a Limp noodle will not be happy regardless of her excuses.

Well a lot of girls go for quantity because that is what pays the best. I don't need to make $10k or $20k a month from this. I don't "need" to make anything from escorting.

I do it when I have done it because I actually like it and the extra money is like Christmas. When it's a job or a business, I think it gets harder to enjoy what you are doing. I mean if you are one out of 12 guys a girl is seeing in a day, and someone is scheduled to show up right after you, how are you going to get her best? You might get lucky but maybe not.

Anyway, I personally think sex like that would suck. I could never make it as a touring provider. I think overnights are really cool.

I'm thinking an overnight with Vicki would be pretty cool as well!

what I mean't was when are you available in L.A. Sorry for the type Vicky

Vicki, there are many types of providers and many of them prefer to play the feminine role.  I suggest you look at Nadia Valentine's ad on Eros Los Angeles.  It looks like you might appreciate her kind of encounters.

Cat, how beautifully that was written, really poetic and emotional.....I might add that some of us started out as tops only, but gravitated to being bottoms when we were ready and really fell for a ts that needed top release as well...I think being versatile has its advantages.