do you also see other providers other then t-girls  ,like female escorts who are not t-girls
brenden smith

...that the SO has much, if any, interest in sex in the first place.  So that probably makes most of your questions rather academic don’t you think?  



Maybe that’s why you haven’t gotten many responses so far.

Respectfully,

TSBTQ



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Most hobbyists do not tell their SOs or wives about ANY of their extracurricular activities.  Admitting to your wife/SO that you see and pay women on the side opens up a huge can of worms even in a relationship which is open sexually (e.g., the couple enjoys the swinging scene).

Add to that the idea that the provider is a TS and the issue becomes potentially explosive.  Most wives/SOs will see a TS as basically a guy, which means their husband/SO just admitted to being bisexual.  Add fear of HIV/AIDs on to this and maybe you can understand why I would sooner shoot myself in the head than tell my SO about my T-girl adventures.

All that having been said, I HAVE talked about my TS adventures with some GG providers (the ones I have the most trust with) and on one spectacular occasion had a threesome in which I got topped by my TS friend while doing DATY and mish on a female provider.  The provider is a seasoned pro and while she is very sexual I have never seen her as turned on as she was by the sight of me getting ploughed.

My two cents.

PS  BTW even with female providers, some are TS-phobic, worried about disease, etc.

I would have to agree with some of the other responses...
1. I think for a lot of men, its the lack of action at home that leads us to look for something else.
2. There's no way in hell I could tell my S.O. about any of my "professional" trysts...she would never understand.  But I think a 3 way with her and a TG would be a lot of fun.  Unfortunately she probably would not accept a "pro" as the 3rd.
3. I still enjoy both GG's and TG's...and I would love to be in a 3 way with one of each.  I've had 2 GG's and 2 TG's, but not a combo yet.

I'm married to the job and to flaunt my cheating I've had girls right there in the office!LOL!