I am a beginner and have done a lot of review reading,profile browsing and am trying to avoid posting a repeat question here.My ultimaste fantasy is to be topped.I know the 50/50 chance of the outcome,but want to try.There are a lot of beautiful TS women here in Chicago.My only hesitation is I am a heavyset guy.How do TS women feel about this?

Sorry for the long posting,I just wanted to make my question clear

Some of my best lovers are heavy set(and you know who you are), but the question is how heavy are you low-_boy? height/weight? The two things I find with some heavier set lovers are just the logistics of positions for good penetration and cleanliness(extra care needs to be taken to be fresh)...both things can be of issue with a guy in great shape as well, but more prevalent in those with a weight issue...unlike some providers I have no discrimination with weight or age and find that a hobbyist who arrives squeaky clean, with a respectful attitude and a dirty mind wins the prize...dfk, Rachel

You are a class act, Rachel!  You are gorgeous inside and out, period.

I am not just heavyset, I am fat.  No denying the obvious.  Having said that, as I have been acting ouy on my TS fantasies this year, weight is often an issue.  Be up-front about your size with whomever you choose.  As the beautiful Rachel says, put in the extra effort to be clean and show respect and you will have a great time.  Just don't surprise the lady. Let her know over the phone, just how big you are.  Give her the chance to back out.  Much easier over the phone than in person when both parties can be angry and embarrassed. I have done it both ways so I know of what I write.

Rachel....thank you for responding....while most any answer will help,one from a provider is what I was looking for.

Thanks for the info....hearing from someone like myself and providers is exactly what I was hoping for.