* * * * * * Introductions * * * * * *


So... in terms of making that first introduction to a new potential companion, or from my point of view, a new 'special friend' (client)....


I have rarely found a gentleman, GG, (or a Couple, especially), that did not wish to have some sense of "realness", when attempting to find a good companion, sensual artist, or erotic escort...


if i had to guess, i would say that somewhere between 7 and 9 out of 10 people i've ever recieved calls or correspondence from, are seeking not only an erotic experience, adventure, exploration, companionship in many forms, relaxation, distraction, release, and sometimes, also real warmth & comfort of a safe and sane experience....


and THAT being said, almost ALL, without exception, seem also to be hoping to find genuinely passionate & actual human substance to accompany that experience, and most i have EVER spoken with, have had less than "positive" prior experiences, in finding such things, based on the questions i will always ask in my initial screening, and the amazingly similar answers i unfailingly recieve to those queries.


it has been very rare to hear from ANY seeker, whether new, or experienced, that either the vast  majority, or at very least some of their prior attempts, have provided positive "substance", and most i've ever spoken with, have run afoul of the "million horror stories", in one way or another over time...


To take the time in proper introduction, on BOTH sides of the contact, seems to me to be the single most important moment. We never have a second chance at "first impressions", and if the only impression some have had are only short, or rude, or completely dispassionate and entirely "transactional",  then most i've known, have shared that is NOT what they are hoping to find, but most of what they HAVE found, until that moment of first contact with me.


We all are very aware that phone time, email time, text time, and daylight burning (or nightlight burning, are all extremely valuable - yet - i have always held to the idea that i never, ever, know who might be on the other end of that line that is trying to connect with me... and so therefore treat every single one the very same way - with politeness, warmth, openness, intelligence, and of course, a healthy sense of caution at all times....


yes there is always the risk of being "fished" for various reasons, ....but - also taking the risk that those few extra moments to genuinely connect, share a real smile if even possible, and at very least, a few minutes of mature, sensible, & down to earth dialogue & some genuine expression that a person can actually FEEL, is worth more to all of us in the long run, in quality of overall connections i have ever made (including some lasting and quite special friendships for certain)....  


i cannot figure how to connect intimately with someone that's not willing to be open about what they're looking for, or what even their most basic expectations are, unless i am also willing to take the time to warmly ask them those things... and also deeply appreciate anyone that's willing to ask me the same things - and i do not mean be prying - not EVER - your business is NOT my business unless you wish it to be so or is utterly necessary in terms of screening - but - to get some sense of where someone's coming from, or sense of their prior experiences, or personal context, without drama, games, complications, or being uncomfortably personal - YES - that can be done, and ultimately benefit both of us in the doing..  


Conversely - the only way a nervous or guarded seeker, maybe a first timer, or only slightly experienced, but had questionable experiences, or never had their expectations met, or even a very experienced person that's run across every kind of experience from the most fake to the most transactional, to the most incredible and passionate experiences... and Unless i take the time in first contact to begin to know these things about one another, then how in all common sense can one make a truly good connection that meets positive expectations on BOTH sides of the coin, so to speak.


not only do the vast majority of enquirers wish to be treated well, but with some sense of kindness, intelligence, ANY reassurance of genuine passion in the arts, some time to actually relax, maybe even share something significant (especially a first time person, that is really hoping to have ONLY a memorably positive experience, cause they're already nervous and guarded) and not just a coldly dispassionate "Gun and run" moment, and then be literally pushed out the door as quickly as possible (i have heard that, more than ANY other complaint, in years of discussions with potential special friends)....


A good introduction means everything - it ensures i have the chance to make sure i'm being contacted by a sincerely seeking and hopefully mature & reasonable person that will warmly provide respectful gifts for my time and companionship, but even more importantly, they cannot, and will NOT, commit to that end without having at least some sense that their most basic (positive) needs and desires can or will be met by ME, as the provider they are potentially seeking....


openness and GOOD honest communication from the very first, allows me to screen out the most undesirable elements by asking a person to be willing to be open, and allows the most genuine of mature and sincere seekers to get a true feel for me, as a real woman, a real person, and as a passionately committed artist, that genuinely cares about them finding what they are looking for, even if it means politely screening one another BOTH out, or referring them to someplace else (like a hardcore BDSM site for example) that might do things i will not, and so forth, and nothing less.


good introduction, and good communicaton, in making the most memorably positive intimate explorations and connections, is a win/win for everyone, almost always, and without exception.


Be well, stay well. Respect and treat your potential companion with politeness and kindness and generosity by their proper/upscale standards, and of course - respect the potential client, always.


We never know who might be seeking our company... and on both sides of the coin - not everyone is for everyone else, tastes and styles will differ,  yet we never know when the next moment could be an important one, a significant one, or one that we may wish to have taken the time to screen better, just to protect ourselves and all future clients and fellow companions both.


Most Sincerely,

Safe Travels to all, always,


Namaste'



TheAngelaGirl

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