Great question. This is why I joined TER in the first place. IMHO - It appears that the only way to get in the game is try to find reputable Indys that will see you and start to build a resume. If the certain Indy you mentioned will not see you this means she does not need your money. She may have a client list that is full and is not taking new clients or at least can afford to be very selective. You need to find a few up and comers that need your support. Up until now, my method is to save my pennies until I arrive at a hobby destination abroad such as Rio, Germany, Bangkok, Philippines etc. etc. Several forms of prostitution are legal (or laws are ignored). You still need web sites like this to avoid being ripped off and to maximize your pleasure but you will not get arrested. Also, the party scene available abroad is to die for because you do not have to sneak around behind closed doors. You got to a FKK or a termas and party! Another option is Canada. In Montreal outcalls are legal through some loophole in the law and te service is GFE.
hello all...I just thought I needed to put it out there that this site and any pre~screening site is not a sure sign that a hobbyist(or even a provider) is who they present themselves to be. I am respectful enough to answer my PMs as quickly as possible, but it is quite obvious that I work for an European agency(Swedish Harmony International)...writing me here does not get you a booking, but it is a way to get to know me(and me you) and a way to see if we can make a fantasy a reality, but I do know when someone is a BSer and is only playing games or "kicking the tires" and has no sincere intention of booking,,,I am here in the DC/NoVA and some of the well known posters on here are some of the biggest BSers and a few of the ladies and I have compared notes and I have no problem using the block feature for those very so called hobbyists(have actually)...but I digress, the reasons I am saying these things are because I want gents that think that I will let you get around the screening process that a genetic female provider requires, you are sadly mistaken...my safety and privacy is just as important as yours and with mutual respect, neither one of ours will be compromised...but today a gent sent an email to the agency and said he was a TER member and read about my reviews, but repeatedly asked by the agency to completely fill out the booking request form, he kept playing dumb and left off some info(including TER handle)...so finally the agency told him to have a lovely day, but he was not going to see me and they ran the few things he did fill out...well he was on every black list site out there as L.E.
so...if I worked for a laxed organization who would have taken his word that he's a good guy, I would have been sitting in a jail cell...or worse
be safe...be respectful...do your research...do right by one another...dfk, Rachel
Rachel you are absolutely correct about everything but I have a question? A few years ago I had just moved to Phoenix from New York, I didn't know anyone in Phoenix and one night decided I wanted to see a GG for an hour or two of fun. I contacted a provider who I thought was gorgeous but she wanted references, I gave her the number of 2 providers I had seen in New York but it had been about a year since I had seen either one of them. The GG in Phoenix never called me back and I guess she didn't want to call long distance, so in the next few months I saw a provider in Arizona, and another in Vegas. Then I called this provider again and gave her the 2 newer references and she still refused to see me. I guess my question is if you are new to a city what should a hobbyist do?
Great question. This is why I joined TER in the first place. IMHO - It appears that the only way to get in the game is try to find reputable Indys that will see you and start to build a resume. If the certain Indy you mentioned will not see you this means she does not need your money. She may have a client list that is full and is not taking new clients or at least can afford to be very selective. You need to find a few up and comers that need your support. Up until now, my method is to save my pennies until I arrive at a hobby destination abroad such as Rio, Germany, Bangkok, Philippines etc. etc. Several forms of prostitution are legal (or laws are ignored). You still need web sites like this to avoid being ripped off and to maximize your pleasure but you will not get arrested. Also, the party scene available abroad is to die for because you do not have to sneak around behind closed doors. You got to a FKK or a termas and party! Another option is Canada. In Montreal outcalls are legal through some loophole in the law and te service is GFE.
mychal...I can not answer for that provider, maybe she took it as a red flag that you did not have any current references, maybe your references did not give you praise or did not remember you(many have a no longer than 6 month last seen rule) or even just refused to respond to her, maybe she did not like the tone of your email, or maybe she is just a unprofessional BITCH...haha
I can only speak of how my agency and some gg providers I know well and how they handle emails/booking inquiries...most providers prefer gents who belong to 1 or pre~screening service like RS2K, P~411 and Date~Check...using that with all the other info that is on a COMPLETED standard booking request form will allow her or the agency to get a certain comfort level...also don't lie about your main TER screen name/handle or membership, because many of the search sites will say if you are on here and if you are evasive and give them a feeling you have something to hide you might miss out on the time of your life
if a gent has reservations about revealing himself then he needs to re~access this hobby or the particular agency or provider he seeks to deal with...I have seen and know of agency clients that most on this board would recognize from many types of media exposure and their identities will go to the grave, but just like I don't kiss and tell...neither do they(though a few have respectfully reviewed me) and that is called mutual respect...dfk, Rachel
Rachel,
How would you suggest someone who is a first timer or has not been active make an appointntment? I have had problems with making appointments with providers and am very cautious/ wary of L.E. and there methods of entrapping people.
I can only speak of how my agency and some gg providers I know well and how they handle emails/booking inquiries...most providers prefer gents who belong to 1 or pre~screening service like RS2K, P~411 and Date~Check...using that with all the other info that is on a COMPLETED standard booking request form will allow her or the agency to get a certain comfort level...also don't lie about your main TER screen name/handle or membership, because many of the search sites will say if you are on here and if you are evasive and give them a feeling you have something to hide you might miss out on the time of your life
if a gent has reservations about revealing himself then he needs to re~access this hobby or the particular agency or provider he seeks to deal with...I have seen and know of agency clients that most on this board would recognize from many types of media exposure and their identities will go to the grave, but just like I don't kiss and tell...neither do they(though a few have respectfully reviewed me) and that is called mutual respect...dfk, Rachel
fedmstr...there are way too many well reviewed providers on TER and even some ladies that don't have that many reviews but contribute to this board or several gents who don't write reviews(grow some balls guys) that at least give a honorable mention here...NEVER think with your little head...NEVER walk into an in~call without being ready to do a light speed 180 degree exit...GOOGLE the number and see how many different ads with different names and photos of different women/TS pop up...trust your gut and if it looks TGTBT, it most likely is...for example:
A) how many supermodel looking women/TS with high quality professional photos pop up on Back Page in small town USA?
B) how many charge a very low or too reasonable rate for someone of exceptional beauty?
C) answer the door at some questionable and dimly lit in~call?
what does your gut tell you? call? walk in?
L.E. or just some low life working a scam...makes no difference...if you do your due diligence this can all be avoided
hope this helps...dfk, Rachel
Rachel,
How would you suggest someone who is a first timer or has not been active make an appointntment? I have had problems with making appointments with providers and am very cautious/ wary of L.E. and there methods of entrapping people.
I can only speak of how my agency and some gg providers I know well and how they handle emails/booking inquiries...most providers prefer gents who belong to 1 or pre~screening service like RS2K, P~411 and Date~Check...using that with all the other info that is on a COMPLETED standard booking request form will allow her or the agency to get a certain comfort level...also don't lie about your main TER screen name/handle or membership, because many of the search sites will say if you are on here and if you are evasive and give them a feeling you have something to hide you might miss out on the time of your life
if a gent has reservations about revealing himself then he needs to re~access this hobby or the particular agency or provider he seeks to deal with...I have seen and know of agency clients that most on this board would recognize from many types of media exposure and their identities will go to the grave, but just like I don't kiss and tell...neither do they(though a few have respectfully reviewed me) and that is called mutual respect...dfk, Rachel
And anyone who is serious won't even question your requirements for screening and those that do lose out. Honestly as a hobbyist I would be very suspicious of a provider who required little to know verification and that is why I stick with well reviewed providers or agencies I've got a relationship with. Never have understood why there are people who just post/ask questions with no agenda or intent...I've got plenty of other things I'd rather be doing. Stay safe.
thanks for understanding and speaking out john4jayne...I even stopped working with and touring with some providers because I have heard their phone calls and they ask silly or no questions at all and just tell the guy to come over and I am like, wtf? I am doing no duos unless they are my booking or an established client of a provider I know and trust as well.
...Johnny Law is after the dangerous TS Rachel.
Why does our government waste $.01 on trying to entrap escorts? Especially during these hard economic times. Rachel, please be careful.
one of the reasons I posted this, because I don't have an eros ad(almost never), so one of the only places he would have seen that I am in DC/NoVA was on here(which is where he said he saw my post)...from talking to other providers they too have had gents on black lists say they were members of TER...want to warn the providers and hobbyists alike...look at the snatch and grab gg provider that was working with L.E. recently in Indiana(reverse sting) that just had a situation where her pimp/husband was shot by a hobbyist she tried to rob and now she and her husband(when he gets out of the hospital) will serve prison time...thank goodness the hobbyist had a shotgun when the husband tried to break in after she was caught in the act...be SAFE all, Rachel
I have been around for a few years and still find it necessary to screen when seeing a provider the first time. I did not find the screening process at Swedish Harmony onerous or unreasonable. I am comforted that you are careful in your screening and I avoid providers that are lax in this regard.
Thank you for continuing to hold high standards for screening. Your loyal customers appreciate it.