Getting scammed. Tried to see someone a few weeks ago. I sent a deposit as requested after verifying she will real via social media, but as soon as I got to the incall location, she ghosted me (all the more bolstering the argument against sending deposits).

Rushing and/or terrible attitude.. Many occasions where I show up for the session (cleaned up, freshly showered, pay the alleged VIP rate, good faith demeanor) only for the provider to rush and have me outta there asap (i.e. book an hour, but leave after 10 minutes). Many occasions where as soon as I walk in the door, no hello or nothing. Immediately starts counting the donation right in front of me before mechanically going through the motions.

Blackmail. Way back in day, someone tried to blackmail me. The provider kept blowing up my phone and demanding money or else they were gonna "expose me." I called their bluff and let her know I was gonna get her for extortion and that ended it right there, but it still sickened me to my stomach.

Needless to say, this kind of stuff seems to happen a lot more with trans providers than it does with GG providers. I'm just going by personal experience. There are a lot of gems out there, but bad actors unfortunately ruin it for everyone else.