Let's start this ongoing debate once again.  If you're attracted to transexuals, does that mean you're gay?  In my opinion, no.  I am and have always been attracted to women, extremely feminine woman.  I also am attracted to transexual women, very feminine transexual women.  I am not attracted to men and transvestites.  People who frequent the TS scene and women know that most TS's out there are extremely soft, smooth, and very fem.  I once had this discussion with Kim Devine and she agreed with me on my views and said 99.9% of her "clients" are not attracted to men.  Gay men aren't attracted to women so they aren't attracted to T-Girls.  Whatever the psychological reasons are for straight men attracted to transexuals is a matter of your personal feelings desires.  Elaborate.

I just tried a TS for the first time. She was really fem and quite beautiful. Just wanted to try it once and see. I'm still not sure whether I like it or not. Maybe when I'm in the mood again.

That's not as easy to answer as it sounds. With over 6 billion humans on this Earth, there are many viewpoints on this and who's to say who is right. And why does any point have to be right or wrong when it comes to human sexuality?

I often find myself attracted to very feminine, passable TS'es but find the thought of sex with a man to be nothing that interests me. When you get down to the technicalities of the situation, a TS has, or at least once had a penis, not a vagina...therefore she is a he or was a he...whatever! Does that make me gay, bisexual (cause I really dig dames) or perhaps something else? Maybe a new name for us to call it would be appropriate since so many people have this thing about calling it something. I don't think it makes me gay or bisexual. I think it means that I'm sexual. And that's all that me and my penis are interested in. Whatever feels good.

So if you must label it, then I'd prefer to be known as a male lesbian, but life really is to short to sweat the little things. Enjoy your sexuality and don't ask why!

Are you having a good time? Why give a damn what anybody else thinks.  Eddie Murphy once complained to Richard Pryor that Bill Cosby had scolded him for being too blue in his stand up.  Richard said " do the people laugh?... are you having fun?
Then tell Bill to go have a Coke and a smile and SHUT the FUCK UP!!!"

Are you having a good time? Why give a damn what anybody else thinks.  Eddie Murphy once complained to Richard Pryor that Bill Cosby had scolded him for being too blue in his stand up.  Richard said " do the people laugh?... are you having fun?
Then tell Bill to go have a Coke and a smile and SHUT the FUCK UP!!!"

If I asked a lady to dress up as a monkey, and we have sex, does that mean I just made hot monkey love?  

Joking aside, if such an act did occur, does that mean I just engaged in bestiality?  Of course not.  Similarly, if I have sex with a guy who gets into costume with breast implants, hormones and women's clothing, give this person a hummer, and perhaps take it in the rear, did I just have sex with a woman?  Nope -- I had sex with a guy.  That's a homosexual act. Does that mean I'm gay? Yes! Sex with a guy is --- and don't freak out on me here, guys --- GAY!!!!!

I don't understand the denial that takes place here. Those who like TS's are turned on by penises.  Some give a TS a hummer, some take it up the rear.  They love the penis.  That's gay.

Calling a TS's penis a "pussy pole," or declaring that one isn't attracted to "men," is nothing more than a very transparent form of denial.

Don't sweat the fact that you are gay or bi.  Just enjoy yourselves.  And as Jerry, Elaine, George and Kramer once said when wondering whether a guy was gay . . . . . "Not that there's anything wrong with that!"  They're right -- there's nothing wrong with being gay.  But the twisted logic some of you employ to deny this is a bit much.

Seriously.



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Your  wrong.
Im totally attracted to women and girls with dicks.
I like playing with mine, why wouldnt i like playing with others?
But I have no desire to date men and have tons of chances.
Gay men dont like TS's. They like men.
Gay men dont like women and most TS lovers also date women.
It may be fair to say that men that crave TS girls arent completly straight. But im definately not gay or bi as I, and im sure many others in this room, have never wanted to date or have a intimate sexual relationship with a man.

I would say for 90% of the people who pose the question " am I gay because I get turned on by TS" are are more than just questioning their feelings etc etc. The problem is they do not want others to know, or you would not have asked the question in the first place.  Who gives a rat's ass? If you like what you see go for it!! Most people who use providers TS or other, do not go home and tell all there friends and family about the experience, that's why we have these boards. Asking if your Gay or not is up to you to decide? Just because I call someone queer, does not make him so!!The sad thing, "in my opinion" is every time this topic comes up, we inadvertantly hurt a lot of providers feelings.  The majority of TS, are in fact Ladies trapped in mens bodies, they proceive themselves has ladies, and feel accordingly. They have run the gauntlant on emotional stress and anxiety. Let's leave them alone and enjoy them for who they are. Your not wrong in asking your question, Do what you think is right, and what feels good to you, If you choose to be a " closet TS lover" who cares? I don't!

If you had to choose between a woman with a penis or a man with a vagina, who would you go for?

And if you choose the woman with a penis, then you're gay.

At least that's what the posters who say TS admirers are gay and just don't admit it want us to believe.




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I only hope IMSerious is around to tell me if I'm gay! Maybe he can explain that whole Y chromosone thing while he's at it. i know for sure there are dozens of TS's advertising who most of the men on the planet would jump at the chance to jump on. while not so many would be so enticed by a vagina-possessing old maid. hmmmmm so many gay boys living in such desperate denial. all praise to IMSerious.
NOT.

Maybe, but the thought of me doing with a guy or even a FtoM TS disgusts me where I would want to retch, even if "he" was originally a "she".  Shows how much posters who say "TS admirers are gay" know - NOTHING!