Do any of you Bay Area guys know what I'm talking about?

I have been there several times, but never been offered access to it.

Can you have sex with the girls in there?

I would like to know about it for the next time I visit.

The "Private room" is the 3rd floor area where the strippers can take you for private lapdances. It's actually a bar/lounge on the weekends, but, it's not all that private. They have 2 chairs curtained off, which offers some privacy. There's a security dude, who makes sure you dont touch the dancers with your hands, and he can see you clearly at all times. But, in addition to the security guy, there was some jackass customer waiting with another girl who kept sneaking peeks while I was enjoying the squirming Maya on my lap. Diva's has to watch their image, as solicitation by prostitutes has been rumored to have occured there in the past. Management is sensitive to this issue. So sex on the premises is out of the question. To get into the room you have to ask one of the dancers (WED.& Thurs.) for a lapdance (approx. $40). I do not enjoy lapdances, mine was purely a scientific experiment meant to further our knowledge, which I hope it did.