Okay, maybe this seems like a silly question...

Have a meet arranged later this week with a provider I have seen once before.  Depending on how it goes, I was thinking I might like for her to be first to top me.  I do know that she tops.

Any advice on how I can prepare so it's as comfortable and pleasureable as possible for both of us?

Would love advice from hobbyists and providers...

Thanks

There is a lot of good advice on your question on both boards.  I would suggest that you use the search function.  Maybe someone on one of the boards is feeling kindly and will have the time to respond specifically.

Welcome aboard and best of luck to you,

TS Tempted

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Here is a good TER forum link that has some TST links as well as advice from some excellent girls.

Fixin' to get ready!

Thanks for the links...  Very helpful.  Widh me luck!

Please let us know how it turns out.....  

Just remember that being topped, if done "correctly", can be one of the most pleasurable experiences you will ever feel in your whole life. So if it doesn't end up being what you expected, do not give up on finding the right girl.

You'll be fine! Good Luck

My recommendation is to obviously "douche" yourself (yes, enema).

Benefits of an enema;
Most providers wont play with a dirty hole, I certainly won't. If a man insists (especially regular VIP customers), I will test the area with my finger. If it's dirty, my finger will end up in your mouth (I am sure you get the idea and probablly wont come to me or any other privider again, unclean). I owe it to my lovers to play clean and safe (not to mention, smelly boys aren't condusive to a postive experience (unless I suppose, you are into SCAT). We are talking about sex between a man and a woman, not a man and a man. It really and truly takes away from the experience for the "giver" or "top." It can be a "shitty" situation (pun intended).

Negatives - If you've not "cleansed" in the past, waiting till the day of said "event" may make the experience (for you), less pleasurable. Anal mucous membrane of the anus are quite sensitive and after said enema, you may have the perpetual feeling of the need to "take a dump." I would suggest going to the drug store and purchasing an enema bulb (they hold probably about 16 oz of liquid and are fairly effecient) and "practicing"a few days before. At least you will know your tolerance and how it will feel. The Fleet products generally aren't very effective. Stay away from the oil based products...saline or water only. Oh and, don't just by an enema bulb and lube, save yourself minor embarrassment and buy some other stuff at the same time. LMAO...

Other things you can do....Take a supplement to soften your stool, fiber pills or whatever. I would think this is something you need to do well in advance to get your system acclimated to the effects. Generally supplements take a body 3-14 days to take full effect, generally (there are exceptions depending on the product).

Starve yourself for 48 hours. If you dont starve yourself, dont eat red meats or a ton of proteins (chicken and beef) for a couple of days. Stay well hydrated and eat plenty of fiber well in advance (lean fibrous veggies).

In any case, a healthy clean and courteous provider will generally spend 60-90 minutes preparing herself for you, regardless of the "side effects." Please be courteous to her as well.

Good Luck,

- Jas

An unclean hobbyist(body...inside and out, as well as breath) coming to see me speaks volumes of how he truly views a provider. I take the time to be well groomed, manicured, subtly fragranced, squeaky clean and minty fresh, so he should do the same. Many are oblivious to taking a few minutes of extra care in the shower to scrub ALL of his naughty parts(front and back), let alone "douching". If he desires to be topped, I would hope he took the time to prepare before he arrived. Nothing is a bigger turn off than defecation on my designer sheets or it's essence overpowering my scented candles. Though I don't stock Fleet enamas in my guest restroom, I do have designer shower gels, soaps, shampoo, as well as mouthwash. Now, if I have all of that taken care of for my gentleman, at least he can do the one preparation of "douching"...DFK, Rachel

With a dildos of varying girths.

Sorry, I never saw your question until now. It was a joke referring to an IV bag. Kind of looks like an enema bag. Medical slang I guess is the best way to describe it. Not practical at all!