i am ready to try a very feminine pre op TS. Any suggetions for a total newby in Dallas to the TS game. Probably will not want to be on recieving end of penetration. Is this a problem?

Not at all--some TS gals really love that Welcome to the club!

Try reading through the reviews for Dallas to see if there's a girl that'll light your fire.  There's a bunch of good ones.