Just another of those questions that keep me awake at night...

If you could be a Sugar Daddy... would you?

If so, why, if not, why not.

LOL,
TS Jamie

Yep, in a heartbeat.

Not just for the sex though and not to own someone either.

I think for those of us that live in areas where we have no providers, being a Sugar Daddy has special appeal.

We're not bombarded with dozens of ads in our towns, so being with lots of different girls is not a high priority.  To have someone to count on would be amazing.

Also, being single and having an intense work schedule for part of the year definitely impacts the mind-set.  To see her ads when she tours would be exciting.  Kind of like: I may be too exhausted for sex, but I'm glad others aren't!

It would be nice to not feel rushed, to actually have conversation, to be romantic at times.  Chemistry would be essential, of course, but it would be fun.

Have been in numerous "sugar daddy" arrangements over the years (one currently, now). Frankly, in some respects, it's an uncomplicated GF for me, an attractive, "known" sexual partner without all the encumbrances of a relationship.

My current "kept girl" is a 21 yo college student. We have little in common except our arrangement, and I think we both prefer it that way. She's hot, and cute, and the sex is awesome. It's a comfortable arrangement for both of us without the "drama."

We all have needs
Would appreciate a companion/partner being there because they want to be there
Not an Employee who is being paid to be there
There is nothing wrong with being a whore
We all are to some extent
A shoe whore, a car whore, a boat whore
Wait ! I'm getting excited........
Thus a SD is not my deal... Eventually both parties resent it

Absolutely !

It all depends on chemistry and how open both people enjoy having the arrangement.  I have a Tgirl friend who I am very close to....I don't think of myself as a sugar daddy, but we have evolved beyond my paying for services. Instead I surprise her with occasional gifts that I know she'll like, such as special clothes, etc.  She is continuing to evolve into quite a lovely lady, and as an example, asked me to join her in a week or so to go to the professional photographer who will help her with pics for a possible website, and to get my opinion.  She sees others, I don't mind that, and we both know that I'm number one in our relationship.

How sweet do I gotta be?

Yes -- I'd be a sugar daddy in a flash if I could afford it.

The upside is pretty much what the other guys said, but the big thing to me is that it is a close and comfy relationship without all the drama and BS of a regular relationship.

It only works if both parties get what they want out of it. Isn't that why guys have been engaged in these kinds of relationships for hundreds of years??

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I'd like to have enough money to be one. Then I would like it. GF without the down side. No problems if you can't make it. Have two!