I just got back to escorting and am realizing that due to the vice problems in the SF bay area over the past year that many potential clients are very wary to contact a new girl they've not seen. This leaves new girls or girls not on P411 or recent TER reviewed severely disadvantaged. And Preferred411 won't accept girls who don't have a recent 3 month or less review by a regular reviewer with at least 5 reviews. This drives quality girls off Eros, out of town, or worse ... walking the streets.
This creates a chicken and the egg problem:1) To get on P411 you need a recent review. So they need a client from P411 or TER (And I'm reading that maybe even a vouch isn't enough sometimes?). Go to step 2.
2) Get a client from P411 or TER. But how to get clients? A girl needs to have P411 or active TER firs!. Go back to step 1. An active escort community needs and WANTS fresh blood (and returnees to come and go with ease such as I). Someone needs to solve this paradox of chicken/egg problem or there won't be any new girls left for you to see. To help fix this you guys need to go out there and do the following: If you see a girl that you know is a genuine article that isn't part of P411 or have recent reviews (but has good past reviews and she fits your parameters) ... go and see her. You are not only doing her a favor but yourself and the rest of the men and hobby community a favor by keeping one more girl in the game. I remember how many TS girls were on Eros several years back in San Francisco / San Jose. There aren't very many left now in SF and zero in San Jose until I put an ad there. Yup, as of today I am the only TS advertiser there. That is pretty sad. Is this what we want? I'm now based in SF. I've a new ad up and a nice hotel in Downtown near the Financial District. Please come show me and any quality girl/returnee lacking in P411 some love. And please, walking the streets or hanging around Divas is not the solution.
You're right about the chicken-and-egg situation, and I think you're a prime example of that. When I went and looked at your TER profile, the most recent review is from 2010, and after that it goes back to 2007. There is nothing current on you, and the one from 2010 is just so-so.
I was ready to jump and come see you, but your profile says you are in San Diego (close to me), but this post says San Francisco. So, you need to get your profile straightened out so guys like me know where you are located. That will probably be of help.
If you go on tour, or get outside of your area, you need to post something on one of the boards and let people know. I don't know when I will be in SF again, but I might be open to seeing you if you were in SoCal, or Vegas, or someplace else that I'm traveling too.
It's great you're getting back into things -- I suspect you have a very interesting story to tell -- but I think you may need to work harder at letting people know your situation if you want to turn things around. There are a lot of guys (like me) who are happy to help -- IF you're in our area.