Yep - not many options here, but you're looking at:

#1 - Tell her to go fuck herself.  Bank on the fact that she's involved in 3 types of illegal activity compared t your 1 type (Prostitution, Theft, and Extortion/Blackmail) and is probably making empty threats.

#2 - Tell her to go fuck herself.  She calls your wife and has a nice chat about how you spend Jr's college tuition on She-male prostitutes and how she fucked you in the ass (maybe twice).  Your wife divorces you, takes 1/2 of everything you own (maybe more....if the judge sees you as a depraved pervert) , and your kids are embarrassed to have any contact with you.  You take to drugs and alcohol and end up at street corners begging for change.

#3 - Tell her that she's got a deal.  Go to your bank, take out 100 clams, pay her the cash, get your ID, go back home, look in the mirror and say "You got off cheap".

Hey guys, shame on me shame on me! I am an idiot and paying the consequences for it. I went and saw TS Kelly Kox in houston -

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Went in for an agreed amount. Had my wallet in my pants (yes i am truly an idiot) and she must have gone through it when i was in the bathroom. After I left, I noticed in the car that I was missing both my ID and my debit card. I called her up and she said she wanted $100 to get both items back. I cancelled the card, but my ID has all my information in it. I refused to cooperate and she made a malicious threat saying she had all my information and knew where i lived etc. etc. It wouldn't be so bad except i have family living at that location.

I feel completely helpless here, my mistake and my stupidity have put me in this situation, is there anything I can do?

Go back with your Glock

Maybe invite her over for a turkey dinner at Christmas to meet the fam before she shows up on your doorstep and the wife opens the door to find her standing there calling you by name.

Or swallow your pride, go get a hudred smackers and realize you just learned the hard and expensive way this time.

There is alwys the 3rd opion.........which is Move  

All kidding aside, I'd get the money, go get your id back and then if you are still upset, be sure a review gets posted stating that she scammed you.  But do that once your id is back in your wallet.

Yeah I worry about the same it is annoying thinking ahead I've had instances where i would hide my wallet and/or phone in my shoe when provider isn't looking or avoid leaving that stuff in the room unless i am there.

I'm very sorry that happen to you. It's unfortunate that girls like that puts a bad perception out there for all t-girl providers.This is very upsetting & disturbing. Please be more careful next time & when you go use the bathroom, shower,ect. at a provider's house take all your belongings with you. Hell, I do the same thing if I'm doing an outcall with a guest whom I've never dated before.

Pay the hundred bucks, get your ID back, then on the way out, call the cops from your hobby phone and tell them what happened and where.  

SDM

Or better yet, only carry in what you plan on using and never never take a wallet or any kind of identification in with you.

she may already have copied your ID. So now you need to think of something innovative

I thought of that, but if she copied your ID, she's likely coming back for more.  So your screwed anyway.

Call the DMV and other card companies and report your wallet stolen with your ID. If you got the wallet back throw it out and tell everyone you think you were pick pocketed. Act fast before she starts using your stuff. If she is stopped by PD with your ID tell them you reported your wallet missing. Tell your wife you had your number in the wallet as a contact in case of emergency. Yes, I am evil!!!!!!

Gentlemen please stay with  the girls  that  are reviewed highly, incidents such as  this
Makes life so  much  harder  for us  girls who  have  a  high  degree of respect for their  clients  and this  profession . That was an extremely desperate  move  on her  part , what was  she  thinking ?
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Other than that Mrs. Lincoln, how was the play?

That really sucks.

I'm no expert but I'd guess another $100 will just be the tip of the iceberg if you give it to her.  If she gets a pic of you paying her off or something similar it's going to get worse.  My guess is that it would be best to stop digging a deeper hole and quit interacting with her, the more you do the more she has on you.  Because you canceled one card it will be hard to say your wallet was stolen or people will ask why you didn't cancel them all.  You might want to say you left it somewhere and thought you got lucky and got it back.  But later noticed one card was missing then later decided to just cancel everything to be on the safe side after you got some funny phone calls.  If she turns up again just say she must be the person who found your wallet and stole your stuff.  The good thing there is that it's the truth with one big omission that you might be able to avoid (as long as the police don't get involved).

Good luck!

Id pay get back info and then get creative, no way she gets away clean

once i make the call that ive arrived i only take the money and thats it...... i hide my wallet and phone in my car..... if my car randomly gets broken into in those 30-45 minutes so be it...... but it hasnt hapd yet

sometimes we need the cellphone to keep communication to locate the apt#.
But hide the phone in your sock and deep into your shoe.

hide your real wallet inside your car (in your trunk or under the backseat of your car,etc.)before you get to her apt. door.. and instead of bringing your real wallet,bring a extra,cheap dollar-store wallet that may have only the donation itself and condoms.When session is done, retrieve your real wallet as you drive off.

never take anything with you into a session except the agreed upon amount.

I always leave my wallet, cell phone, extra cash and everything else in the car. Hell if I had a place to put them, I wouldn't take my car keys into a session.

However, that being said, if you stick to well reviewed ladies then this should never be a problem.

I would go after her with a bat and take my ID back with force while masked of course.

Don't bother giving $100 to get your card back. She already has the info. Throw the wallet, tell DMV and bank your  card was stolen.  Unless you got a different cell phone for this hobby, I say change your cell as well. If she ever gets in contact w/ your family, Deny Deny Deny. Tell 'em your wallet was stolen.

Ummm next time leave ur wallet in the car.