it might not be what you expect.

Nose looks the same.  Wonder if he still has that white furr coat?    

He looks cute either way, Pretty as a girl and Beautiful as a boy.
He is doing what best for him. Gotta respect his decision, it's not easy being a girl where you have to maintain and spend much money just to look good. I just think it gives uninformed people the idea that TS is a gay guy with makeup, boobs and long hair. Being transgender is a deep thing that exists in your heart and soul not something you find in a bra. We will never know what's going on and what made his decision. Can't judge him either.

But I think no matter how well-meaning these advice-givers in your life are and no matter how much they love you, when they are giving you advice, they are ALL coming from their own biases, prejudices, neuroses, rules for living, ways of looking at the world and history.

What this means is-- no matter how well informed they are, how much they love or care about you or want to support you they are not you and don't have the same set of rules and values as you.

Because of this, there is NO WAY anyone else can truly know what is the best thing for you.

xoxo

-- Modified on 8/28/2012 6:28:11 PM

the pics are def of dakota as a boy, too bad she never made a trip to nyc

Posted By: LATSDog

Nose looks the same.  Wonder if he still has that white furr coat?    

Buy some makeup, wigs and clothes and make your own TS out of Dakota. Take a lemon and make lemonade. And by lemonade, I don't mean GS.

OK, maybe I do mean GS.

Sidebar comment: This is why/how we lost Vicki Richter. The same "guilt-trip"/"Bully-Boy" tactics (most notoriously used by the fundamentalists (cults), including on television shows where "street conversions" are shown, which are in fact mental/psychic "ganging up" attacks on the unwary, using guilt as a weapon. Cannot remember the name of that failed TV child "star" who likes to do these "ambush" conversions). It is a control issue, domination and manipulation to make one a submissive slave to whatever ideology is being shoved down your craw. Well, slavery has been outlawed in the USA, so I say never submit, get your mental facts ready and debate them face to face and defeat them at their own game. When "love" is used as a weapon, it is merely that: a weapon, pure and simple, and someone who really cares for you will not do that...