I am looking for any input the experienced gentleman in this arena my have.  Based on my limited experiences I am about to give up on TS.  Which would really be a shame.

I find TS's in general extremely sexxy and a huge turn on.  TS Porn admittedly has been my favorite for a good while.  However my experiences in real life have been disappointing to one degree or another.  Seeing GGs I either connect better or they are better and delivering the experience.  My experiences with  TS seems much more like a transaction than anything.  I just have not experienced the "passion" and "interest" that I have with GGs.

I am not sure if the issue is me or what.  I have had one or two experiences that are pretty good.  However it really can't compare to what I have experienced with GGs.  Please help.

This is meant as a call for input not a criticism.  I attempted to see River Stark twice but both times my schedule screwed things up.  Maybe if I had seen her I would not be posting this.

So should I just expect a visit with a TS to be more transnational, less GFE, etc?  Are my expectations wrong?  Or am I selecting the wrong providers?  

I am located in Atlanta and have seen a number of the recommended providers.  Maybe I caught them on an off day.  Maybe my expectations are wrong.  Maybe I need to see them again.  I am very open to any input from those that have had great experiences.  Or from a TS that wants to show how wrong I am.

Thanks for the help.

...what are you looking for?

Find the experience you are looking for and try to communicate that to the other person.

A trip to LA or SF will likely help as well.

1) Determine the physical attributes you feel turned on by, as well as the type of physical acts and emotional context of the imagined session.  Give yourself whatever time you need to unequivocally confirm this.

2) Read the detailed reviews here to find 2 or 3 providers who fits your desired physical description and, according to their reviews, seem capable of delivering the session you have imagined.  Probably no need to travel far and wide to come up with these, I would guess.  But if you need to travel do it.  Be sure to chose providers who have had at least 4 reviews.

3) When you meet each provider you selected confirm that you feel she still meets your requirements above.  If any doubt, walk away, regardless of how far you've traveled.  If 'it's a go' tell her what you want BEFORE handing over any money.  If she does not hesitate or try to upsell pay her what she asks and go for it.

Don't skip or shortcut any of the steps.  If you are stymied at any of the steps, or after sessioning with your chosen providers, you're still not sure TSs 'do it' for you, 'forgetaboutit' and go on to GGs you know meet your needs.     Otherwise if you have a satisfying time, then you know what to look for.

You must be open to your feelings and accept whatever the outcome reveals without forcing any preconceived outcome.

Dr. Phil
Note:  If you have done all of these already, you have your answer and simply need to accept it.

Too bad about your lackluster experiences. It would be nice if reality would match fantasy as often as we'd like it to.

I can say that GGs and TS girls aren't that different. You click with some and not with others. However, a 10 with a TS is waaaaaay better and more intense than anything ever possible with a GG, IMO. TS girls are really special that way. When it does click, it's the best.

It's hard for anyone here to help you with a suggestion since we don't know what you're after and you haven't posted any reviews.  

As far as I know, Atlanta has a pretty limited selection of girls. I was there a while ago and did enjoy myself with a girl, but she was traveling too.  

My advice is to keep trying.

Find reviewers from cities you frequent, and read their reviews to see who provides versatile GFE sessions.  Versatile GFE providers aren't always easy to find, but when you do, and when they are passable, there is nothing better sexually.

As others have said, don't give up.  When you click with one, there is nothing better.  My best experience has been with Asian, if that helps.😉

...but don't be discouraged. There are plenty of TS providers, such as myself, that are true GFE's. A couple good examples other than myself being Rachel, Addy Finch, Sabina Sinn to name a few.  

While a lot of girls claim to be GFE's, most are using that as more a description of acts instead of experience overall. On top of that,any girls are primarily concerned about their bottom line, which is, in my opinion, what separates a GFE from your average provider. Now there is nothing wrong with a booking being tranactional, an a lot of amazing providers operate with exactly that. However, I think someone that operate as a GFE does things a bit differently.

Often I think it has more to do with the prioritizatiom of needs/wants. I find that in what I do, I don't prioritize things in a similar manner. While making a profit is obviously important, but o find when I prioritize other things, like safety and fun, it changes he's the entire dynamic of my appointments. I'm sure word has gotten around that my appointments run quite long, an that's for a reason. I find it important to enjoy what o do, an for me, a lot of that come from an attraction and interest in someone's personality. I can delvelop that genuine interest and passion from chatting with someone.

In the course of conversation with a lot of you guys, I've noted that many of you don't like that me mechanical feeling of it's all about business. That tells me that the deed really isn't as much of a priority as you think it is; a lot of you want that connection. So finding providers that cater to that is important.

I think that's one spot where reviews come in handy. While an individual review might not tell you much, overall they can tell you a lot. I don't think paying attention to scores is as important and as paying attention to content of them. Look for providers that devote that time to developing something genuine or can at least fake it really well.

Above all else, while we're all at it to advance our bottom line, look for a provider that understands that dollar is going to be there with any work They do and instead focus more on the craft they practice.

Hmm.

While I totes agree with a lot of that, remember that you may also encounter providers who don't take requests... even good providers. I'd say I'm a great example of this. While I ask everyone their interest, I always give a caveat that it has absolutely no sway on what happens during a session--I may do it, I may not. I'm more concerned about having an enjoyable time. I think that's one of the possible problems that he's encountering.  

He's seeing providers who don't seem care what their doing, they just wanna get paid, which seems to be leading to the problem to begin with. On the other hand, Simone who makes fun the informant thing is, in my opinion, far more likely to make for an amazing experience.  

Now I'm sure Simone might respond with "but that a lot of money for no guarantee that I get what I want, to which I'd point to my reviews. I've done what's fun/feels good for me, and have yet to have someone dissatisfied with that. The difference that someone genuinely interested and having fun makes is huge.

There is a pretty high LE presence and there are a lot of very cheap men. Those two things don't lend themselves to attracting high quality providers.. short the mountian biking around ATL, there's not much incentive to visit. For girls that don't travel to cater to that hobby, I can see how it would be a hard sell, which leads to a lot of low quality providers saturating the market.

I haven't looked to see what the current offerings are in ATL, but whenever I visit a place I take a look at competition, an thus far there hasn't been much.

With one notable exception (a provider from DC) almost everyone of my Asian providers has been GFE or very, very close.  Very good to great experiences.

would help if you posted some reviews.  who in atlanta have you called on?  my atlanta experiences were all excellent, but as stated in several other replies, i do a lot of homework and am pretty thorough in my communications.  also, i am over the top when it comes to hygiene and good manners.  also, i always try to take along some kind of small gift to break the ice and i never, never bother with the "discount/bargain/specials gals.

and at the end of the day, it may not be your thing.  don't obsess, just move on

[customer's] "interest ... has absolutely no sway on what happens during a session--I may do it, I may not."

Thanks for the input.  I appreciate the feedback.

I do my homework and select those providers I think best meet what I am looking for.  It is just with TS I have been less successful.  To set what my expectations are I am looking for a PSE with a bit of GFE.  What I mean by that is that I want to feel like the provider is into me and interested in being there.  However I am not looking for something lovey dovey, cuddling, etc.  I am not sure if that makes sense.  Basically if I want a GF that is no problem to find (at least GG wise).  However finding that "freak" in the bedroom while also being a GE is a challenge.  At least from my experience.  So I hobby to get the PSE part while wanting to not feel like a transaction.

I have left reviews of my experiences.  The best I have had is with Bella and Alicia Ebol.  Both for different reasons.  The both did not exactly match what I was hoping for, for different reasons.  I have met incredibly hot TS but then in experience does not live up to what I was hoping for.

Don't get me wrong.  This has happened with GGs also.  Just they seem to be a closer fit to my expectations.

I guess I need to give this some more thought.  Maybe River will be back in the ATL at a time when our schedules match.  Or maybe I will be in a city where someone that best matches what I am looking for works.

I have had these results in 2 cities, Atlanta and Chicago.  I have certainly not seen all providers in either city.  Maybe my expectations for a TS experience are not as reasonable as for a GG.  Lets take a hugely recommended provider, Rachel.  Let me preface this by saying I have never seen her.  I am sure she is awesome.  That said I do not believe she is the experience I am looking for.  I understand she is pretty much exclusively a top.  Not to mention I don't think there is anyway I could handle a tool of that size.  I still consider myself a newbie.  I am sure she is a great experience but from what I have read I don't believe she fits what I am looking for.  Make sense?

This probably does not help.  But I want the TS Seduction experience with an emphasis on the seduction part.

I have also had problems finding what I am looking for in Atlanta.  Through the years, I have come to understand what I am looking for is hard to find.  A versatile GFE experience is hard to find.  I am attracted to the female body.  That being said I love to be topped. I want a woman with something extra, not a man in a wig.  There is my problem.  Most women prefer to be bottoms.  I want a woman that is functional and able to be a top in a sensual GFE way.  For me, most tops seem more mechanical and interested in "fucking me" and getting paid. They aren't concerned with any connection.  The ones that are more GFE make a connection tend to be more bottom only and struggle to top.  I agree with the others,  it is hard to find exactly what I want, but when I do it is the best experience imaginable.  Keep searching it is worth it.

Keep searching!  Drop me a PM.. I can try to accommodate, if you'd like.  As runningman mentioned, a truly versatile experience is hard to find.  From doing this super casually for a couple of years, I've discovered myself I'm mostly a bottom, with working parts.  From being on hormones over a decade now, being able to top is difficult, but not impossible.  If I have a real connection with someone, it becomes all the easier and enjoyable for me.  Also, sometimes people don't mesh well.  Sometimes our personalities don't 'click.'  It rarely happens, but it happens.  It's a part of the hobby.  The hunt is difficult, being in the TS category looking for something specific makes it all that more difficult.  Good luck!  

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