I'm excited about a provider who is coming to town soon. Would love to take "her" for a night to remember.  Been there done that a few times before. Want a great time with something extra in the end.  Besides shelling out cash, which I'm prepared to do - what else would you recommend to plan it out well. Providers or accomplished hobbyists, please respond with any suggestions.

Make an evening of it.  Get a nice hotel suite, go to a nice dinner or order romm service (that's always nice in a hotel suite but usually a mess in a room).

Have some wine in the room on ice and some massage oil (Trader Joes Lavendar - my recommendation).

Get a CD of soft music or an ipod and player.  Some candles.  Make it a date.

And get a girl who's into it and not just wanting to bang and run.  Pay her well and have fun!

Hugs,
TS Jamie