I'll try to be brief

Dated a ts for almost a year. Took trips together, was always
a gentleman and always treated her with respect. She admitted
to me that when she first came to US in a different city she escorted
but that she didn't since she moved to where we met.
Broke up after almost a year and I found out months later she moved
back to old city to start new job. Sent e-mail wishing her well
traded e-mails and we reconnected. Spent a wknd there and
even  met in LV for a nice romantic wknd.  
Am on plane right now and just got e-m from mutual friend that
she lost job and she's escorting again. What really hit my gut when I opened
link to ad was she set up incall at hotel we were to meet at.
How can I share bed with her and whoevers been there today.
There's my question, confront or just wait at airport for next
flight home.

IMHO... she needs income and you know what she does so to be upset about it seems kind of silly to me! UNless you are going to put a ring on her finger or otherwise provide for her it's not really fair to expect that she will not try to earn a living...

Besides that... you have to remember. It's only a job for her so my guess is that she would not do this unless she was doing it for the money. Don't be too quick to judge... We all have our moments and do what me must to survive in this crazy world so I'd just keep my mouth shut and decide for myself what type of interaction you wish to have with her since your expectations are likely much different than hers!

Just my .02
Fog

Bummer, but just deciding to chill out at the airport for a return flight sounds like setting yourself up for a bad day. Hopefully it is a cool city, and you can at least do something fun while you are there. As far as the deal with the TS, hard to say. If you have a problem with her escorting, sounds like you are just setting yourself up to be disappointed.

Not yet... but rest assured I will!!!!!

Can't wait to finaly meet you in person! We are going to have allot of fun!

Fog

If you really want to meet her and care for her, tell her that you know shes escorting, and ask her to stop only for the time you are there with you so she dont have to share the bed and just be there for you, but you hava to take care of her financial need for the days your visiting, so she don't have to escort when you are with her. I think thats very reasonable for both of you. But if you can't do that, you still need to tell her that your on your way and your dissappointed about her escorting! and see what her reaction is, if she decided to not working and let you visit her, you have to understand that she still need money since she don't have a job, unless shes escorting for fun, that would be different story, you might just fly back home!
The decision are between the too, both are an adult and have to understand each other, especially when you know each other for year.
Even GG are taken care of by their man when they are not working.
As an immigrant and TS, I don't have family here, I used to work but didnt make enough money for transition and to get some nice thing, and I see lots of my GG friends do not have a job, and they being taken care of by by their husband or bf, GG and TS have different need, and we have to have specific job.
I know thats an excuse, but if you know TS pesonally, you will understand!
Good Luck for you, and I hope everything work out!

Great point Gee!

I have to add this as well:
transgendered people,by nature, are prompt to discrimination, even worse, hatred.
Therefore, we have smaller chance in life to be successful and happy, compared to those who are "normal" and "superior" (good looking, young, bright, straight, bla...bla...)

Who want to be an escort or dream of becoming one?

None, including myself.

I wish i could work like normal people, in the office, earning well and be successful.
But how big is my chance?
Very slim, unless if i open my own business or....be an escort, as i am doing it now.

You have to be tolerant my friend.  Your ex-girlfriend is struggling and trying hard to survive and this harsh environment.

You have to value her personality, not her profession.

My 2 cents,

Tia

gosh..sorry spelling mistake..i meant "prone to" not "prompt to"

in this hard environment not this harsh environment.

Hi Gee..what's up sister?

have a great, long weekend everybody!

Tia Phoenixx

You both make very valid points.
When we dated we would go to movies or for coffee. We would
simply stroll thru neighborhoods and see a place to eat. Always someplace new.
She introduced me to friends who said to me what are
you doing with her because we've never seen her happier.
My reply was that I was just being myself. And that's all I ever wanted
her to be. I never took her for granted.
When we first got together after she moved, she asked me to stay
where she is now.
To meet up and, there's no other way of putting it,
compensate her for the time together is very difficult for me to agree with.
Our relationship was as real as it gets.
I'm still no closer to knowing what to do next than I was before.

if you have an issue with sleeping in the bed she works on then get another room...only mistake I think she has made was not telling you that she was also there to work...it would be wrong if she didn't tell a platonic friend that would be on the trip with her as well and sharing the room/bed...if she wanted you as a client or a sugar daddy then she should be completely honest(but that offer was not made and seems you wants you just for you) and if are willing(which you seem not) then the choice is completely yours to make...just know that not many TS are blessed enough with the opportunity for higher education and employment...hugs, Rachel

Understand that she may need to escort to survive.  If you don't want her to escort are you willing/able to support her?  If you can't support her full-time, maybe ask her to be with you exclusively while you are in town, and offer to give her enough money to compensate her for the exclusivity.  

I love your reply hun!
Hey..have you called me and booked our session yet in Tyson's corner?

Can't wait!!

If you are in manhattan, call me, I'm going to be in the city tomorrow getting some swimsuit...heh xoxo

too late sis...i am in East brunswick, heading to Philly tomorrow.

O well...next time, let's shop together!

gets my vote