Happens to be I know a few providers who traveled to specific cities and had about 20 guys stating they would meet up with her if she came there.  In the end, noone she spoke with prior showed which really sucks. I know a few that have had similar experiences.  Flights are cheap now, if you can't get away, offer to fly a girl out and back so its worth their while and maybe they can meet a few more dudes while in the area to justify the trip. Only an idea (thinking out of the box here)