I would like to thank everyone for participating in the last survey/question I asked on the board a week & half ago in regards to "What makes you a repeat hobbyist?". I feel that although there were a variety of different answers & suggestions some of you were not completely honest. "How" & "why" you may ask? I feel that many of you focused a great deal on what a provider shouldn't do or does to NOT get a repeat visit but I didn't hear anyone state what happens if the provider has the overall qualities that you desire & require but you are just simply ready for something or someone new? That's right, I wanna know what inspires you to seek a new provider or a new hobby even if the provider overall has great reviews,up to date pics,functionility,great personality,attractive,consistent satisfactory,ect.(perfect 10)
What triggers you to retire your toy on the shelf after it doesn't entertain you anymore?
1. Hobbyist don't stay with one person because they dont want to get too emotionally attach with the provider!
2. Man are like shoes...we have lots of shoes but we always want a new one!!
3. Most Hobbyist are curious guy, so they like to do something different with different person!
4. Attitude/ personalities has changed in providers or hobbyist side, not just hobbyist who stop seeing the same providers because they feel she is not the same person anymore, also provider stopped seeing the regular, due to lack of respect after knowing each other for a while, that the hobbyist don't give donation anymore, or just less and less amount!
Also we get old overtime, so they always looking for the fresh young one, thats why our age always 23 to compete with the new cummer..LOL!!
Same thing with marriage, it's only got excited in the first or second year, after that everything fall apart, and we are here for them.....
Maybe if providers start to provide a bottle of FIJI water, who know they might stick with you....LOL
Last but not least, " Nothing Last in This World " everything has to come to an end !
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Insightful as ever Gee. But nothing fits like that favorite pair of shoes
... is in the presumption of your last question, but you didn't see.
I think the answer is....its just a man thing.
I mean celebrities who play all their dramas out on a world stage are perfect examples.
You'll have a male celebrity with a gorgeous girl friend, and then its plastered all over tabloids
He was cheating on her with someone with " unfortunate" looks.
In my humble opinion , men need attention....lots of attention.
You can be a perfect ten in all aspects, but if a man feels he isn't getting what he wants
Or feels he can do better,he'll go exploring his options.
For me, I never take anything personally,I'm happy for the regulars I have and if they
Move on,there's always another gentleman to take their place.
I strive to be the best I can be,I do my utmost to ensure the experience with me
Is as enjoyable as possible,beyond that all else is beyond my control.
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Very well said, also men are visual creatures we see something we like and we want to play with it!
R u not getting enough repeat custom.? Maybe in certain cities the providers r more plentiful, I think that is the case in Philly 4 sure so our chances of meeting qual providers just increases obviously- the overall economy helps no one- but maybe the answer 2 ur quest is really that some of the so-called great providers aren't as perf 10's as some of u obviously think u r - don't assume that most of u providers r 10's & most of us r either not telling the truth or UNGENTELMENLY or whatever else we sometimes r - always remember Brooke the customer is always right ( just kidding ) Brooke come 2 Philly and prepare 2 b UP day & nite !!!
Posted By: tsbrooke
I would like to thank everyone for participating in the last survey/question I asked on the board a week & half ago in regards to "What makes you a repeat hobbyist?". I feel that although there were a variety of different answers & suggestions some of you were not completely honest. "How" & "why" you may ask? I feel that many of you focused a great deal on what a provider shouldn't do or does to NOT get a repeat visit but I didn't hear anyone state what happens if the provider has the overall qualities that you desire & require but you are just simply ready for something or someone new? That's right, I wanna know what inspires you to seek a new provider or a new hobby even if the provider overall has great reviews,up to date pics,functionility,great personality,attractive,consistent satisfactory,ect.(perfect 10)
What triggers you to retire your toy on the shelf after it doesn't entertain you anymore?
every ritz cracker becomes a boring saltine eventually, no matter how you look at it.
BUT as for me, I don't retire my shoes but I rotate them from the front of the closet to the back and so on, allowing for a variety of spice in my live and ensuring for balanced wear across my favorite shoes.
It's probably a guy thing, but it comes down to trying to experience something new and perhaps something better. I've got one girl who I come back to time and again but I'll mix things up from time to time based upon who is available and in town. Sometimes, I'm happy I experimented, more often than not I should have gone with my regular girl. There are a few traveling girls who I will go out of my way to see when they are in town. If I have a good time, I'll definitely repeat. If I don't, I'll move on. My guess is less than 1/4 of the time have I been truly disappointed with a provider. And most of the sub-par visits came from girls who were not well reviewed. When will we learn?
First impression for me is a game changer. If I don't have a good time, you won't see me again.
At the end of the day there is something exhilarating about meeting somebody new. That will never go away. But for me, there are probably a handful of girls who I go out of my way to see. Locally, there were two girls (one has since moved on) who were my go to providers.
If you've got that craving and your favorite is not a frequent visitor well what's a guy to do. If there isn't a White Castle close enough you might go for a Big Mac and there's always the possibility that tastes change. I think Gee covered most of the reasons very clearly with her usual sense of humor. Although only 2 years before the marriage falls apart...pretty bleak pictue
Men like to try new things and experiment BUT if there is a good provider she will always get repeat business from me. There are times when I don't want to take a chance and be dissapointed and if I have the itch I want a sure thing so I'll repeat. This is an indulgence and expensive so I want to get what I paid for and given that I do this occasionally a good provider rarely gets boring
Truth is there just aren't many good ones out there and we switch it up because we are dissatisfied
If I could find a solid provider in Boston who isn't out from big dollars I would see her consistently
I m not cheap but these ladies looking for 350 plus are ridiculous
As a long time hobbyist one thing i do know is that all hobbyist have a list of providers they would like to see. If your hobby budget is small,some feel that its best to see as many different providers as possible.A new provider a new adventure.From the hobbyist i speak too the hobby is more than what happens between two consenting adults.The hobby for many is about meeting new people experiencing new things and if the sex is good that is just icing on the cake.
Personally Im in this hobby for variety so although i do repeat it is the new that excites me. I do notice that when new opportunities are rare my dating frequency diminishes. I'm excited and energized when new opportunities are plentiful.
