Hi all.... one of my favorite topics... : )
As a companion that has been active for many years, i have to say that i have always favored men that are more mature than myself....for a variety of reasons.... and - I have had screening conversations with many men over the age of 55 to 70+ that have also had very mixed experiences, and often self-efface by saying: "im an older gentleman, are you ok with that", clearly expecting a 50/50 shot at either acceptance, or not....
Typically my experiences with much younger men (21 to 40) have not been as positive, or fulfilling, as with more mature men in general (there have, of course been some truly notable exceptions, as there are some truly mature, self-possessed, educated, cultured & established younger men that are also: healthy, kind, respectful, able to afford, and understand things from a more mature world perspective).....
....for me, it all comes down to chemistry (and maturity), so regardless of age - if a man is kind, good-natured, of good humour, good hygiene (muy importante'), and respectful, i will be open to you.... if we hit it off with warmth and maturity in our initial screening conversation(s), then its a solid yes from me.... Conversely however - coldness, last minute/no-notice and pushy, any air of self-entitlement, unwillingness to warmly engage, expressed assumption that it will just be another mark for me, not knowing my name or age or my published gift standards, or any hints of just flat transactionality, are all reasons i will absolutely avoid and not connect....
I totally understand and accept that many seekers have been jaded, or have only transactional/clock-watching/not as advertised expectations - based on past experiences or lack of experience, and i will always do my best to overcome those issues in screening, but.... anything less than genuine, gentlemanly warmth, and/or a lack of a sense that we may make an organically mature & down to earth & mutually *Fun* connection, and i'm just not going to go there.... regardless of age.
...As always, best seeking to you,
best wishes,
...and... ~Safe Travels Always~
: )
TheAngelaGirl
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