Hey guys & gals I had another not so great experience with a hobbyist I wanted to share with some logical feedback. Since I've been here in Albuquerque I noticed a lot of hobbyists are on the "NOW" network.(common examples:"I wanna cum in see you NOW." "I got sum time available right NOW" "I can only see you right NOW cuz 15-20 minutes is cutting it too short for me")


Great now that's outta the way I wanna start off by saying I'm not complaining or going on some useless rant to justify my performance or in this case lack of. I will gladly point out where I'm at fault.
Hobbyist calls me off my eros ad and wants to see me "NOW". No problem right? Well he says he'll be here in 10-15 minutes but he gets here within 5 minutes. I don't have any makeup on but my lipstick & I apologize for this which he tells me I'm fine so he starts to give me some mediocre head with a condom on and within 3 minutes he stops & asks why I'm not hard. I explain I need to be turn on & I  like when one takes their time. Also physical attraction plays a heavy factor.(Which I had none to him hence this is another great reason for porn & time.) Since I noticed his impatient manor I decided to give him some really great head in which he starts to say "I wish you would get hard to top me." I explained to him that I'm not a machine and if he so desires that I will be happy to aCUModate him provided he takes his time in making sure I'm turned on. We give it a 2nd shot and within 5 minutes of a rushed teeth BJ I'm not turned  nor I'm I hard but I'm optimistic. He says he gives up and gets dressed and makes his departure. I admit I'm at fault by accepting him in such a short time but OMG I can't possibly be turned on by every tom,dick and harry in under 5 minutes! Should I call him back and offer him another session(free of charge. of course) Or should I accept he was the one that got away.(Yeah like that damn impatient white bunny from Alice in wonderland!)

Hi Brooke.....If a hobbyist isn't willing to take his time (after rushing you and showing up early to begin with) and make the session enjoyable for both of you, what does he expect in return. I love when a session is unrushed and I want to take my time and provide as much pleasure -- or more -- to my provider -- that includes long massages, touching, licking, and kissing..............whatever I can do to make the time together hott for both of us. If this guy didn't understand that, maybe he's better off with a different kind of girl. He doesn't sound like that nice of a person..........let it go.

Don't take it so hard, you are a tremendous provider (so i hear) and I definitely need to take some time to see you. When will you be back in cali. We have some good days and some bad days and you cannot make everyone happy. You can always get a good vibe when a gent calls, rushing is never fun, taking your time is o so hot. Keep your chin up.

As a hobbiest here in LA, I sometimes feel the urgent need for a last minute appointment, however if I am "that" short on time I say why bother. Sometimes attraction just does not happen, it goes hand in hand, (no pun) but as long as it is a genuine effort on your part, then its his problem. When your back in La-LA land, I will show you! Be safe.

You can't make everyone happy especially when you aren't given the time to prepare. I can't see blame being put on you to be honest. 3 minutes of head is certainly not enough foreplay to get anyone revved up in my opinion. From his perspective he is treating you like a machine and ignoring the fact that you are human and respond accordingly. I don't get why you'd want to rush the experience. I think you just got a raw deal with that person. I say forget about it and not repeat that experience...set your timeline and hold to it...after all you being comfortable, prepared and turned on is to our advantage in the long run. He's a fool for not giving some in order to get more...and girl you got a Lot to give

Chances are since he appears to have little extra time, he most likely would not take you up on an offer of a second try, but might appreciate the gesture and keep him from writing some BS review or post someplace  about  the encounter (placing his disappointment  100% on you).

Your point about not being a machine is the reality of the situation.  While you are a professional, where a machine needs to be oiled to operate properly, the human factor of your profession requires "chemistry"  for you and your client to function at maximum efficiency to produce quality results.

If he wanted instant gratification he could have 1. taken care of himself, 2.respected the amount of time you requested to prepare for his arrival, 3.  given you a few more minutes to close your eyes and create an illusion that might help you rise to the occasion, or 4. gone to motel 6, insert his money in the "magic fingers" and taken that 7.5 minute experience.  From the way you describe the situation, he had a stop watch going and was working on some average time that he allotted for you to be in "lift off mode" and was not about to stop or slow his countdown.  You did not mention if, in his haste to depart  the premises, did he request a refund?  

I think you have three options.  1. from a "PR" point of view,  give this time and motion engineer a ring and offer him a rain check. 2. call him back and offer to kick in a few bucks so he can buy a fleshlite, or 3.  forget about it, and don't take anymore NOW appointments.  

Old faithful at Yellowstone is proof  enough that you cannot rush Mother nature. Intervals between eruptions average around 90 minutes, which means there is 89 minutes to work up to the Main Event!

I'll admit to sometimes getting horny at the last minute and trying to set up dates for later that day, but never anything like this. I've waited though, quite a few times for the lady to call to say she is ready, and know I know why.

No biggie, life goes on, I'd say it be a nice gesture for you to call him back, or maybe a a text just as a courtesy follow up, but why bother, you will not be seeing that client again. To offer a free make up session, that's above and beyond the call of duty, imo.

We were up pretty late and you were more than up for me LOL! Like you said, you can't win them all but I think it's refreshing that you and Brooke genuinely care...if only all service oriented professionals shared that trait.

Not aimed at you necessarily Brooke, you sound great.  But the majority of providers tell us not to even bother calling unless we are serious and ready to meet within 30 minutes.  Last week I set up an appointment an hour in advance, when I got to her hotel and called, she seemed totally surprised that I was there and told me she would call me back.  15 minutes later she tells me to come on up and of course no make up and clearly wasn't ready.  I wish I could say this was unusual but it happens more than it doesn't.  More often than not it is the providers looking for the wham bam thank you and get out.

Like I said not necessarily aimed at you Brooke

Forget about it mama.

Brooke,
Hey girl,
Well...first of all dont worry, the past is the past and is better to let it there, specially if is a pushy guy.

Now, if a guy say he will bethere in 30 min and he shows in 10 min, let him wait. if he go with some one else is ok, you can always get the rest, but your make up will be flawless .

Then if he is not plesed with your hard on, at least he will be pleased with a well done beautiful make up and will be glad to get your perfect mouht on his dick.

So Again, DO NOT greet anyone with out make up.  and a 5 minutes show up is ok only if your make up is done.
take care mama and good luck.
India Fox.

Yes, let it go, I personally won't meet a client who would rush me in the first place, unless I'm on stand by mode, I would be ready anytime, but if he show up early, I will tell him to wait until the exact time we talked about, if he can't wait, I ussually let it go, I'm not going to put myself in trouble, and I will not meet client if I feel uncomfortable, I rather watch TV or facebooking in my hotel room than meeting someone who would make me feel uncomfortable...

If he ever email you or text you about his bad date with you, just remind him that what he did was making you uncomfortable and cost your performance, if he bad mouth it about it, keep it calm, and say sorry for the bad time, you are working to make a living and have fun at the same time. I would feel bad as well if i didnt make my clients smile, but I always make sure that I feel comfortable no matter what, or just tell them str8 to their face that what they do is making me uncomfortable, especially when they rush me to do anything, thats a big NO NO for me, I don't want them to rush me nor do I want to rush them, I like to take my time, so I can have fun seducing my clients, in my session, I like to be touched and caressing my body with maybe sensual back rub, but it's all up to the clients, they are all have different need and different interests...just don't deal with anything rush...I'm just glad that most of my clients I met very respectful and professional even if it's their first time, they will respect you if you show them your respect to yourself

Good Luck Brooke and to us as well, at least it was a lesson and money can't buy happiness...

xoxoxoxo
Gee

Wow I didn't expect to get such positive feedback but I appreciate it all and I've decided to let it go. To my fellow Cali admirers that have inquired about my return I will be in the San diego /Oceanside area from 7/10-7/14 then I'll be flying out of the country for a much needed vacation from 7/15 & returning to LA on the 7/19th. Once again I sincerely  appreciate the feedback & commentary on this issue.

The 'NOW' network seems to be a global pandemic, it really does annoy me here in Australia as well. My advice Brooke would be the same as all the others here, and treat it like a no-show - just shrug and move onto the next appointment.

Personally and professionally I have no problem in telling a guy to slow the hell down and to stop rushing; as you say, we're not machines yet we are in a way that is hard to define. The client wants a hard throbbing cock, as professionals we must deliver yet without the basic amounts of respect and mutual understanding it just makes the whole session even worse.

I'm not even going to start on the whole 10 seconds after drying from the shower their hand gripping your privates like a monkey wrench and twisting for all their worth, thinking THAT's what gets you hard :rolleyes:

Aeryn