masculine, whit, tan, 6’, 190 lbs, blonde/blue, well muscled, and very attractive.

If it's your description, then it doesn't matter much what you look like for someone to give you advice.  If it's a description of what you are looking for, then you should also describe what area you are in.  In fact, you should give a location either way.  Have you tried using the search provider reviews screen?