I would advise that one should examine the reasons for getting in the escort business.
There are countless valid reasons, but if one enters the business out of financial desperation or as an attempt to scape something in life ,it probably not a good idea. Examine motives and establish some goals for what you wish to acomplish via this business.
Make a list  of what you will and will not do, keep the list by the phone and be honest in your comunications. Determine your compatibility with  a client by matching his activities with yours, if he wants X , and X is in your "I would rather die than do that"list,tell him you dont do that,if he has to have that, it is best for him to find someone else than you to go trough with a call and have an akward time explaning why you won`t do X after the client felt you would.

Check your comfort level. not every client will look like your ideal guy. don`t be swayed by the beauty of the good looking ones,and always look for something good in those clients to whom you are not so atracted,the average-looking guys usually have a lot going for them in other areas

Develop a tough skin. As with any business, there will be custumer satisfaction situations that can not be resolved, on ocasion some mean things will be said to you, stay profesional and honest , don`t strike back with the same verval abuse and don`t take a bad situation personally.
be able to put work in a box at the end of the day and walk away from it, on the other hand don`t let a great call go to your head, you are there to offer a service , not to fall in love, stay profesional at all times.
Know when to quit, look when to quit look beyond this business and towards goals and growth needs.
As this is a business about taking care of the needs of others,be aware of your  own needs for security and personal growth, and move into other areas when the time is right for you.

Most important take vacation from this business
Go on a real date, take a trip,read a book ,help
some one in deep need.
when you get back you will enjoy and do a better job(they will notice it and enjoy it too)
and always remember that what you are offering it`s a very comfortable convenience for people who apreciate time...( the nice ones)
let the others go...some where else....(the nut cases)....they know where to go......

Thank you all, Ladies and Gentleman.

As always, great thoughts and words of advice!

Thank you STAR:

It was great to see the reaction of some nice gentlemen who understand courtesy, hygiene and politelenes ,I checked their reviews and they had a greAt time always!!!(I wonder why)

On the other hand the ones who complain , most of their reviews were bad (they should wonder why)

I came to a conclution:
If a provider has 10 reviews and 8 are good
she is trying her best!!

If a provider has 10 reviews and 8 are bad
she is not a happy person.

If a hobbyst gets mostly bad service he should review himself...as we can not!!!!

I would advise a hobbyst to get a VIP membership
to see what i`m talking about.

As of yesterday i am not taking any calls
my familly and friends are waiting for me.


Perhaps i should come to this board and say
Hey guys !!!!!(insert name)I will be in (insert city) from the (insert dates) hope to see all of you!!!!
And not put my self in a situation of been insulted on a board!!!
but if i can make a diference .........
I WILL BE COMING BACK.

On these worthy suggestions, you will get no argument from me.  Any time of the year. I only hope you manage to take your own advice. It's not always so easy to do. But you're worth listening to.
Be well.

Well Said.

Great Advice. Couldn't have said it better myself.

Thank you. Best Wishes at the Holiday Season to you
and all providers who do as you suggest.

TA