I'm usually keep quiet about discussions that are posted on this board. But, I have some very important questions I would like answered for the 1st time in my 5 year career as an up scale companion. By providers, as well the guests that we see. Please, by all means. Don't take my posting offensive or rude. But, theses questions have been boiling me to ask!

Over the 5 years I've been a provider. I've seen some extremely nice guests. As well as some pretty, not worth my time guests as well. And I've been noticing that in my time as being a provider. That A LOT of theses so called. Review board members. That seem to come across as true about they plans of action. But, truly are NOT!

Point in minded.... Call to schedule a meeting with a provider. Tell them how much they LOVED reading your OUTSTANDING reviews. And want 2 schedule a meeting with you. They schedule, you meet, they have an AMAZING time. Then they say they had a WONDER time with you. Hint that they will post a review. NEVER DO!!! Here is my BIG QUESTION???

My First Topic!!!

IS THAT A PLOY 2 "BLACK MALE" HER...???? BY SAYING YOUR A MEMBER & NEVER POST??? And, if you had such a WONDERFUL time. Why not post? But, you can get on the discussion board and talk down about all the BAD providers you seen. And not Post 4 the good 1's you enjoy. Also, I'm sure of it.... If she would have given you an offal time. BEST BELIEVE. You would take the TIME out 2 sit down and POST a review about that provider.

Really Sad Guys..... Shame on you all that are guilty of this!


My Second Topic!!!

It seems 2 me that the guests might have some kind of hidden racism with the AFRICAN AMERICAN providers. I know that some of us providers have problems with seeing some African Americans as guests. But, I totally don't agree with it on ether side. A GOOD TIME IS A GOOD TIME.... NO MATTER WHAT THE COLOR OF THERE SKIN IS! I know, some guests. It's just a preference. Which is TOTALLY understandable. BUT, just 2 be out rate NOT seeing an African American provider. Based on your own choice of CLASS LEVEL of Provider you decided 2 see that so called time. Should not be a LONG LASTING impression on that group or race. There is GOOD with the BAD in every line of work, race, life, ect. I wonder if a Caucasian provider did some BAD things 2 a guest. Would that make him TOTALLY DONE with seeing another Caucasian provider??? Hummm.....!?!? I really WONDER?

My Third Topic!!!

Photo's, Photo's, Photo's....

HaHaHa I can be on this Topic 4 Day's. But, I will try 2 keep it short. Guy's... Come on now. I'm not downing any of my co- workers by all means. But, the photo's they choice 2 use for there ad and site. Fantastic.... If it works for the provider. GREAT! But, when you read OUTSTANDING REVIEWS about a provider that have Good photo's. That also means she looks like her photo's. BUT, you will STILL take a chance on some posting on the discussion board. Of some NO NAME provider. With NO HISTORY. Then seeing a provider that comes highly recommended. I just DON'T GET IT???? Then get on the discussion board. And complain about there service. And cry about.... "Why doesn't any Good Providers EVER come in my Town"! HaHaHa.... Come on fella's. Really, let's smarten up here. STOP WASTING YOUR FUNDS on Silly actions. But, Hey.... You can't tell people how 2 spend there enjoyment funds. Just be realistic.... And enjoy your time with ANY provider. That will do rite by you.

So, I guess I am mostly done. But, I know after writing this.... Most of you won't like me or my views on theses topic's. But, that's a chance a person has 2 take. I just have the BALLS to come out and say what A LOT of us providers been having questions about. Take this with a gram of salt.

Happy Holiday's


Ts Tiffany Gotti a.k.a. TsTif
Eros-Chicago

I can really only comment on topic 1 and it is only an opinion. We can go on and on about reviews and why people say they will post them and do not.  You can also blame TER as many say its a pain in the ass to post a review.  Regardless Tif, you mention good sessions and no reviews and then you brought up members bitching on the board, thrashing or talking bad about a provider.  

This is somewhat of a canned response but its true to some extent, however does not answer  your question.  A happy customer will be happy (maybe post a review, maybe not) but a pissed off customer will tell at least ten people how bad of a time they had.  This happens with any experience...it may be a shopping experience, an experience at a store, etc.  Its human nature..people bitch lound when not happy.  Your reviews are excellent so not sure why you are so upset.  You have a great reputation and the reviews support it.  Don't confuse quality of reviews with quantity.  You do not need five pages of excellent reviews, only current reviews that are positive.

Regarding Topic #2: Racism

I really don't get it.  Why does the color of skin seem to put some people off their rocker--it makes no sense.

I live in the TS Desert Triangle of Arkansas (between St. Louis, New Orleans, and Dallas), and it is sickening to say that racism is still alive.  Even among GG providers, African American girls aren't as popular.  It makes no sense.

For myself, I think African American TS girls are AWESOME.  I mean they are just damned sexy.

So, I really do not understand the racism.  It must somehow relate to fear, but I haven't figured out what the hell these cowards are afraid of.

Why does anyone want to delude themselves into believing someone else is inferior.  Makes no sense.

So, about three years ago, I connected with a ts who claims to be from Brazil. She is hot, we had fun together and it ended up being a regular thing for about six months. I'd call her, she knew what I liked, I knew what she liked and the sessions rocked.  Well, one day I was out and about and I met a black TS. I was at a bar and she saw me with her.  I soon discovered that this girl is the most racist person I have met in my life, ts or no ts.  She said she would never see me again.  I tried to meet her one more time, she opened the door, realized it was me, and slammed it.  I did nothing to her.  How can anyone have so much hatred regarding the color of someones skin.  Low life peeps or trash exists in any race.  Its not all lumped into one category.

First of all, nice to see your post Tiffany!  That's what makes this site work.  I don't think you said anything that hasn't been said before - but it never hurts to get a new viewpoint.  And don't worry honey, skanks don't read sites like this so they won't hate you.  LOL  

Here's my theory.
1)  Reviews.  There is some trans phobia among a few GG providers who will not see a gentleman if he has reviewed a t-girl.  Some girls think all TS's have Aids and that guys who see T's are gay.

The ladies I've known who are active participants in the TER forums are extremely supportive of transgendered females.  I've double dated with several GGs- and that - for the gentlemen reading this... is an experience worthy of your investment!  

Also, to ensure the accuracy of reviews, TER has a strict review policy.  Often a guy will write a review, but might not include complete info, or it might sound too good to be true - whatever.  And TER will ask them to make corrections, but they just never get around to it.

If you notice most reviews are either really great - or really bad.  Obviously guys usually only post if they had a super time and want to go out of their way to help a girl, or got ripped off and want to protect others.

It's just the price of ensuring quality, accurate reviews.  In the 2 1/2 years I was really active I think I only got about 10 reviews - and as most here know, I was pretty active... giggle.

IF any guy offers to review you in exchange for sex or threatens a bad review to coerce something from you, report it here and to TER Admin immediately.  It can not only get you de-listed but defeats the whole point of the review process.

2) Racisim:  I've discussed this before, and I'll say it again.  We are color blind at my house.  I've dated men of every nationality.

It's too bad but there is racism on goth sides of the street so far as dating goes.  Some girls have had bad experiences with men of color, so they just assume they are all from the ghetto.  I think maybe some men shy away from t-girls of color for similar reasons - "they are all Robs" whatever.  It's all cliche - like fat men have little schnozzeles...  LOL

As for your third topic.  I agree.  It's frustrating to the quality ladies when there are skanks out to rip off the guys.  But there have always been ghetto types who live by the law of the street.  And there are guys who "get off" dating them.

There is someone for everyone!  

Then there are guys who are looking for something more.  This is the realm of the high class call girl, escort, courtesan.  And generally when you date a quality provider you will get what you expected.  Of course not everyone will "click" and some dates will always be better than others.  There are just too many variables.  But at least with a known, reviewed girl you don't have to keep one hand on your wallet.  It'll be empty anyway...  LOL

Giggles,
TS Jamie



-- Modified on 12/19/2008 9:00:41 PM

Hey giggles, can you tape your comments and mail them to me...you are long winded ...

Sincerely, Peanut Gallery Mgt

Thanks 4 all of the wonderful feedback on these topics! As for the comment about me having excellent reviews and a good reputation?!?! That's FANTASTIC and all. And your RITE! I would rather have a HAND FULL of OUTSTANDING reviews. Then 10 pages of average & under average achievers. But, that's besides the point.... The OUTSTANDING reviews has NO VALUED 2 ANYONE if there are guests that are 2 busy dealing with those that they are not so sure about.


Also, it's the ones that call and say.... " I Love Your Reviews.... Schedule.... Then Pull a NO CALL NO SHOW"!

Hummm.......!?!? :-/ And they Really looking for QUALITY satisfaction!

Sounds like a lot of WASTING providers time. As well as wasting there's. Makes me wonder if some guests ENJOY getting off on scheduling & not calling nor' showing up. I would HOPE 2 think that we are all ADULTS here.....!?!?! :-/


That's Just The Way A Dignified Mind Works....


Happy Holiday's & Deep Regards,



Tiffany Gotti a.k.a. TsTif
Eros-Chicago

Hey Tif, why didn't the Govenor post a review?

Only kidding. And to answer your question, as Mod, I am told by many ts that some dudes play games, scheduling appts and have no plans of showing. I don't get the fun in that but I guess it exists.  You never made it to LA and you said you are retiring????  Is that still the plan?  

Re: Hey Tif, why didn't the Govenor post a review?

HaHaHa....!!!

Because, him & I are spending his final day's of freedom together. With 1 of my " Goven. Farewall Specialies"!

We have something in commend....
But, I have the since 2 know when 2 retier! And step down!

HaHaHa....!

And YES! Fall of 2009 will be my last. And not sure about scheduling any Travel Tours anytime soon. Guests are taking a CLASS STEP down. I'm not spending ANYMORE FUNDS into Travels 2 meet Nice, New, Fun friends. Just a little sick of guests WASTING my TIME!

There is always "Sweet Home, Chicago" Fella's. Keep and eye out for me here boy's!
But, I'm a little bitter rite now. So, I will Never say Never!!!

Regards & Well Wishes 4 the Holiday's,


Tiffany Gotti a.k.a. TsTif
Eros- Chicago

waste your time but understand your frustrations.

Tiff finally a post worthy of me coming out of retirement, well semi retirement!  Thanks for the interesting topic and welcome.  Addressing the racism in the question I have encountered it in various forms over the 25+, yeah 25 years!  That I have been seeing providers, I learned very early to ask the question do you see Blacks, this goes for all providers TG as well as GG.  Just saves us both the akward moment at the door and me a long unfulfilled ride home.  I choose to look at it more as a preference, we all have them.  I personally would like to see someone who is not going to exclude me based on my ethnicity.  Basically I have found there are 4 types; 1) those who dont like certain ethnicities; 2) those who will "do you" but not into you; 3) those who dont care and the ones who only do you or prefer you.  There are certainly enough to go around of category 3 and 4.  One pecular aspect are those Black TS who wont see Black providees, I used to see a rather famous TS Porn Star who didnt like Black Providees.  My proper dick-tion, pun intended, fooled her but she was cool about and we saw each and became good friends for a couple of years.  In short although "Change has come" to America, some americans will never change.

Hey Tif,

Unfortunately there are too many haters in all facets of life.  I DO believe that there may exsist a double standard in how some clients treat providers of color, versus those that are not. Yes, shame on them.

As everything in life, don't let a few morons ruin YOUR drive and ambition.  People are disappointing overall, but cherish those that DO bring you happiness and a sense of worth.

Wf

"For myself, I think African American TS girls are AWESOME.  I mean they are just damned sexy."

You think that they are awesome and sexy simply because they are African American with no regard for their individuality.  Racism isn't about cowardice or inferiority.  It's about unexamined assumptions, overgeneralizations, and lack of appreciation for individuality.

No.  Please do not put words into my mouth (that I did NOT say).

It was a response to Miss Gotti's post: "It seems 2 me that the guests might have some kind of hidden racism with the AFRICAN AMERICAN providers."

Racism:
(1) The prejudice that members of one race are intrinsically superior to members of other races
(2) Discriminatory or abusive behavior towards members of another race

I did NOT say that African American TS girls are more awesome because they are black.  Neither did I say they were more sexy because they are black.  YOU SAID THAT.

To completely and utterly ignore the attributes that make up a whole person is insane.

My statement stands.

For the record, I also find Hispanic, Caucasian, Native American, Asian, Arabic, etc., etc., etc. all sexy.  Oh, dang, I guess that was politically incorrect.