i am not going to name names because i said i would not,but this question is for providers and hobbiest, is our time less valuable then the providers? i guess it is because when i emailed a provider telling her how dissapointed i was in being blown off and i was very polite, the worst thing i said was it was un professional, she turned it around and said it is people like you that make boston suck! that obnoxious boston attitude! ????? and i ruined her visit and that it will be my fault that she will not visit boston again and everybody will blame me! i have been with many many providers and have never been the victom of a double booking! and the top girls would never pull a stunt like that! how is this my fault?i expained to her that i work 70+ hrs a week and only have a short window of free time and booked the appointment and was on time ,and when i voice my feelings about wasting my only free time of the week, i have the attitude problem?

Well....At least she didn't smack you in the head! lol.

You have been around long enough to know how easy it is to find drama. That is true for any type of relationship. I do agree that she probably had no reason to behave that way over your comments, but WTF.

wow, you have a good memory! that had to be a good 18 months ago! from what i see on craigs list , sound like lavinia has really hit the skids!! i guess i was the start of her downward spiral , at least this girl is not abusive just full of herself!

It creates a great mental image. Her ads are still hot, but I did see the blasts on CL.

Nomination for a New Definition in the Urban Dictionary - Posted by TS Tempted, 1/6/2007
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=21387&boardID=19&page=

A term that has now permanently entered the TS lexicon.


The post that started it all:

lavinia , i am very dissapointed in you!!!!! - Posted by ssteveowens, 9/1/2006
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=19354&boardID=19&page=


Truly one for the hall of fame.

Regards,


TS Tempted

-- Modified on 12/10/2007 4:39:09 PM

Your incident with her is in stilled in many of our memories and is one of the reason I won't see her again.

Steve honey, I'm sorry that happened to you.  To me the whole reason you guys see escorts is to relax and have a nice time and get your rocks off with a girl who likes the same thing and isn't afraid to admit it.

But you have to remember - there's no license or governing board (execpt TER - giggle) in this business. Anyone can enter and stay as long as they like, and be as nice or nasty as they want.  This business doesn't always attract the highest caliber person.  It's just the nature of the beast.

But nobody needs a bunch of stress when they are just trying to have a good time.

Blame it on hormones, don't we always. But the girls get stressed too, and sometimes we go off on people.  As some of you recall I blew my stack at my ex-AFT a couple of months ago and let him have it here with both barrels and then some... the jerk.  Giggle  

I was talking to a friend of mine who was over here yesterday (just a guy I know - believe it or not I actualy have men friends that I don't sleep with (those cheapskates...) giggle

He's a hobbyist so we have some interesting conversations.  And what really stuck in my mind last night - and ladies - these are HIS words not mine, I'm not judging anybody, but LEARN from what the guys say.  (Of course sadly those who would benefit from this don't participate in forums...)

What he said, which I've often heard before, is that he'll call girls or meet them at the bar, and almost universally they are self absorbed, narcissict bitches to him.  He said all they want to do is haggle about price. And if he quotes the wrong answer they hang up.

I know as well as anyone how difficult this business can be.  But it doesn't mean it's right to be mean to someone who is / was looking forward to a good time.

And remember, is it's warm and sunny in San Diego, and I think JetBlue has non-stop flights to Long Beach for $99.

Giggle,
TS Jamie

...is that Steve was being overenthusiastic to the point of hurting her and she simply meant to push him away. I have seen her a number of times and she has been nothing short of professional in attitude and beyond excellent in performance. Based on my own experiences and the preponderence of her reviews I believe her.
Maybe Steve is telling what he believes to be true too and it simply depeneds on their individual points of view. One thing I know for certain. Steve isn't going to find another top like L in Boston.

if you look back on this board lavinia admitted to assaulting me and tryed to apologize,she said she was having a bad day, so there is no two sides to the story, she assaulted me and she knows it and i know it! so dont insult me with this my side of the story bs! if i was not married i would have pressed charges against her, as i said before the side of my head hurt for a few days and my hearing was not correct for about a week, nobody like to admit that a friend of family member has a violent side , but she does and to this day i will never see he again no matter how big her cock is or how good a fuck she is, fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me!!

Never meant to insult you Steve old buddy. I have enjoyed/benifited from your reviews and respect your contributions to this forum. I only wanted to share what L had said to me and my reaction to it. You were there, I wasn't, case closed.

Remember justfofun, there are always two sides to a story.  Lavinia has also told me her side of the story.  Seems like she wasn't treated well to me.  As I stated long ago when this thread from ssteveowens was in full force, you have to respect a providers wishes.  They live in a difficult world and they react differently to situations.

I am still a regular of Lavinia and have seen no downturn in her performance or quality

Agreed T_Lover. While I not wanting to insult Steve. I also still think L is the best thing since sliced bread and will continue to see her.