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i guess a question to people here are if you had SRS (sexual re-assignment surgery) should you tell your partner?  for obvious reasons male to female is the one to consider since i assume female to male would be noticeable.







Posted By: xfean

An elderly Belgian man has discovered that his 48-year old wife is a surgically-altered male.
After 19 years of marriage, “I feel I’ve been assaulted,” he told a Belgian newspaper, Het Nieuwsblad.





“I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman… [and] even during sex, I never noticed anything,” said the 64 year-old man.

http://dailycaller.com/2012/11/28/belgian-man-shocked-to-learn-wife-of-19-years-is-a-man/#ixzz2DYtwbveX


http://cdn01.dailycaller.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/man-in-shock-e1354084621134.jpg

So a friend told me that he had heard that Monica actually operated man. I could not believe it. Also my son heard similar rumors. I was once again confronted with all kinds of amorous messages via Skype on the computer arrived, I put her against the wall and said: Now I know the truth. Are you a man? She then announced that she was born as a boy and that she had to operate. She was now a woman, and so she did not need to tell me about her past as a man. My world collapsed. It's that evening came to blows. The police have come. "

January discovered that many people in his circle of friends all these years Monica knew who it was. "I have friends who asked why she had never told me. Why should everyone know but me, the naive fool? They have no idea how it feels to be something to do with it. This is the ultimate betrayal. I feel assaulted, hit in my honor. The idea that for years I have shared the bed with her, I find disgusting. Now I can have a little talk about it, but in the beginning I did not really stay with my shame. I'm going to a psychiatrist to visit my emotions under control. "

Jan has started the procedure to annul the marriage. "A marriage is annulled, has never existed," says his lawyer Liliane verjauw. "That person has deliberately deceived him for years, even scammed. Presumably she has also forged documents used here to get a residence permit. The children, are devastated. "

Unforgivable

John and Monica still live under one roof, the way to the depths of my soul offended. Sir, she said. But she is still a woman I had a lot of sense to me to turn on the other men present to Questions: How would you feel if you suddenly tell them that your wife has been really a man? You can not imagine what it does to you. I am now 64 years old. I wonder how those youngsters with whom they dive into bed, going to react when they find out that she is actually a man has been.

John wants only one thing. That Monica disappears from his life. "I want nothing more to do with her. What they did to me and my family is unforgivable. "

http://translate.google.com/translate?sl=nl&tl=en&js=n&prev=_t&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&layout=2&eotf=1&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nieuwsblad.be%2Farticle%2Fdetail.aspx%3Farticleid%3DDMF20121123_00379526%26fb_ref%3Dfb-activity

http://www.deredactie.be/cm/vrtnieuws.english/news/121125_antwerp

'I feel I've been assaulted' the duped husband told the paper in an extensive interview

Belgian Man Discovers His Indonesian Wife Used To Be A Man . . . After 19 Years of Marriage!


Husband discovers his wife used to be a man after 19 years of marriage

The daily Het Nieuwsblad on Saturday carried the remarkable story of a man from Antwerp who after 19 years of marriage discovered his wife used to be a man. 'I feel I've been assaulted' the duped husband told the paper in an extensive interview

'Jan' married 'Monica' in 1993, but it was only recently that he discovered that his wife had originally been a man and had undergone a sex change.

'Jan', who had been married twice before, didn't suspect a thing for many years. His partner, who hailed from Indonesia, used the contraceptive pill and claimed she was still menstruating. 'Jan' told Het Nieuwsblad that 'Monica' claimed she was still menstruating and used sanitary towels.

For many years they had a normal family life, though 'Jan' told the paper that he now understands why she always used a lubricant when they had sex.

The woman's past only came to light after rumours surfaced. 'Jan' also noticed that his wife was seeking out young men. One night he confronted her and she confessed that she had been born a man.

The duped husband told Het Nieuwsblad that his world simply came apart. The police were called to the house that very night when a brawl broke out. Today 'Jan' and 'Monica' still live in the same house, but don't exchange a word. Legal proceedings to get 'Monica' out of the house failed. 'Jan' is now seeking an annulment of the marriage.


http://www.mjjcommunity.com/forum/threads/127785-Belgian-Man-Discovers-His-Indonesian-Wife-Used-To-Be-A-Man-After-19-Years-of-Marriage!?p=3743961


http://www.deredactie.be/cm/vrtnieuws.english/news/121125_antwerp
http://www.nieuwsblad.be/article/detail.aspx?articleid=DMF20121123_00379526&fb_ref=fb-activity


An elderly Belgian man has discovered that his 48-year old wife is a surgically-altered male.
After 19 years of marriage, “I feel I’ve been assaulted,” he told a Belgian newspaper, Het Nieuwsblad.
“I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman… [and] even during sex, I never noticed anything,” said the 64 year-old man.

http://dailycaller.com/2012/11/28/belgian-man-shocked-to-learn-wife-of-19-years-is-a-man/#ixzz2DYtwbveX


http://cdn01.dailycaller.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/man-in-shock-e1354084621134.jpg

So a friend told me that he had heard that Monica actually operated man. I could not believe it. Also my son heard similar rumors. I was once again confronted with all kinds of amorous messages via Skype on the computer arrived, I put her against the wall and said: Now I know the truth. Are you a man? She then announced that she was born as a boy and that she had to operate. She was now a woman, and so she did not need to tell me about her past as a man. My world collapsed. It's that evening came to blows. The police have come. "

January discovered that many people in his circle of friends all these years Monica knew who it was. "I have friends who asked why she had never told me. Why should everyone know but me, the naive fool? They have no idea how it feels to be something to do with it. This is the ultimate betrayal. I feel assaulted, hit in my honor. The idea that for years I have shared the bed with her, I find disgusting. Now I can have a little talk about it, but in the beginning I did not really stay with my shame. I'm going to a psychiatrist to visit my emotions under control. "

Jan has started the procedure to annul the marriage. "A marriage is annulled, has never existed," says his lawyer Liliane verjauw. "That person has deliberately deceived him for years, even scammed. Presumably she has also forged documents used here to get a residence permit. The children, are devastated. "

Unforgivable

John and Monica still live under one roof, the way to the depths of my soul offended. Sir, she said. But she is still a woman I had a lot of sense to me to turn on the other men present to Questions: How would you feel if you suddenly tell them that your wife has been really a man? You can not imagine what it does to you. I am now 64 years old. I wonder how those youngsters with whom they dive into bed, going to react when they find out that she is actually a man has been.

John wants only one thing. That Monica disappears from his life. "I want nothing more to do with her. What they did to me and my family is unforgivable. "

http://translate.google.com/translate?sl=nl&tl=en&js=n&prev=_t&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&layout=2&eotf=1&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nieuwsblad.be%2Farticle%2Fdetail.aspx%3Farticleid%3DDMF20121123_00379526%26fb_ref%3Dfb-activity

http://www.deredactie.be/cm/vrtnieuws.english/news/121125_antwerp

'I feel I've been assaulted' the duped husband told the paper in an extensive interview

Belgian Man Discovers His Indonesian Wife Used To Be A Man . . . After 19 Years of Marriage!


Husband discovers his wife used to be a man after 19 years of marriage

The daily Het Nieuwsblad on Saturday carried the remarkable story of a man from Antwerp who after 19 years of marriage discovered his wife used to be a man. 'I feel I've been assaulted' the duped husband told the paper in an extensive interview

'Jan' married 'Monica' in 1993, but it was only recently that he discovered that his wife had originally been a man and had undergone a sex change.

'Jan', who had been married twice before, didn't suspect a thing for many years. His partner, who hailed from Indonesia, used the contraceptive pill and claimed she was still menstruating. 'Jan' told Het Nieuwsblad that 'Monica' claimed she was still menstruating and used sanitary towels.

For many years they had a normal family life, though 'Jan' told the paper that he now understands why she always used a lubricant when they had sex.

The woman's past only came to light after rumours surfaced. 'Jan' also noticed that his wife was seeking out young men. One night he confronted her and she confessed that she had been born a man.

The duped husband told Het Nieuwsblad that his world simply came apart. The police were called to the house that very night when a brawl broke out. Today 'Jan' and 'Monica' still live in the same house, but don't exchange a word. Legal proceedings to get 'Monica' out of the house failed. 'Jan' is now seeking an annulment of the marriage.


http://www.mjjcommunity.com/forum/threads/127785-Belgian-Man-Discovers-His-Indonesian-Wife-Used-To-Be-A-Man-After-19-Years-of-Marriage!?p=3743961


http://www.deredactie.be/cm/vrtnieuws.english/news/121125_antwerp
http://www.nieuwsblad.be/article/detail.aspx?articleid=DMF20121123_00379526&fb_ref=fb-activity

gargoyle34586 reads

i guess a question to people here are if you had SRS (sexual re-assignment surgery) should you tell your partner?  for obvious reasons male to female is the one to consider since i assume female to male would be noticeable.







Posted By: xfean

An elderly Belgian man has discovered that his 48-year old wife is a surgically-altered male.
After 19 years of marriage, “I feel I’ve been assaulted,” he told a Belgian newspaper, Het Nieuwsblad.





“I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman… [and] even during sex, I never noticed anything,” said the 64 year-old man.

http://dailycaller.com/2012/11/28/belgian-man-shocked-to-learn-wife-of-19-years-is-a-man/#ixzz2DYtwbveX


http://cdn01.dailycaller.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/man-in-shock-e1354084621134.jpg

So a friend told me that he had heard that Monica actually operated man. I could not believe it. Also my son heard similar rumors. I was once again confronted with all kinds of amorous messages via Skype on the computer arrived, I put her against the wall and said: Now I know the truth. Are you a man? She then announced that she was born as a boy and that she had to operate. She was now a woman, and so she did not need to tell me about her past as a man. My world collapsed. It's that evening came to blows. The police have come. "

January discovered that many people in his circle of friends all these years Monica knew who it was. "I have friends who asked why she had never told me. Why should everyone know but me, the naive fool? They have no idea how it feels to be something to do with it. This is the ultimate betrayal. I feel assaulted, hit in my honor. The idea that for years I have shared the bed with her, I find disgusting. Now I can have a little talk about it, but in the beginning I did not really stay with my shame. I'm going to a psychiatrist to visit my emotions under control. "

Jan has started the procedure to annul the marriage. "A marriage is annulled, has never existed," says his lawyer Liliane verjauw. "That person has deliberately deceived him for years, even scammed. Presumably she has also forged documents used here to get a residence permit. The children, are devastated. "

Unforgivable

John and Monica still live under one roof, the way to the depths of my soul offended. Sir, she said. But she is still a woman I had a lot of sense to me to turn on the other men present to Questions: How would you feel if you suddenly tell them that your wife has been really a man? You can not imagine what it does to you. I am now 64 years old. I wonder how those youngsters with whom they dive into bed, going to react when they find out that she is actually a man has been.

John wants only one thing. That Monica disappears from his life. "I want nothing more to do with her. What they did to me and my family is unforgivable. "

http://translate.google.com/translate?sl=nl&tl=en&js=n&prev=_t&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&layout=2&eotf=1&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nieuwsblad.be%2Farticle%2Fdetail.aspx%3Farticleid%3DDMF20121123_00379526%26fb_ref%3Dfb-activity

http://www.deredactie.be/cm/vrtnieuws.english/news/121125_antwerp

'I feel I've been assaulted' the duped husband told the paper in an extensive interview

Belgian Man Discovers His Indonesian Wife Used To Be A Man . . . After 19 Years of Marriage!


Husband discovers his wife used to be a man after 19 years of marriage

The daily Het Nieuwsblad on Saturday carried the remarkable story of a man from Antwerp who after 19 years of marriage discovered his wife used to be a man. 'I feel I've been assaulted' the duped husband told the paper in an extensive interview

'Jan' married 'Monica' in 1993, but it was only recently that he discovered that his wife had originally been a man and had undergone a sex change.

'Jan', who had been married twice before, didn't suspect a thing for many years. His partner, who hailed from Indonesia, used the contraceptive pill and claimed she was still menstruating. 'Jan' told Het Nieuwsblad that 'Monica' claimed she was still menstruating and used sanitary towels.

For many years they had a normal family life, though 'Jan' told the paper that he now understands why she always used a lubricant when they had sex.

The woman's past only came to light after rumours surfaced. 'Jan' also noticed that his wife was seeking out young men. One night he confronted her and she confessed that she had been born a man.

The duped husband told Het Nieuwsblad that his world simply came apart. The police were called to the house that very night when a brawl broke out. Today 'Jan' and 'Monica' still live in the same house, but don't exchange a word. Legal proceedings to get 'Monica' out of the house failed. 'Jan' is now seeking an annulment of the marriage.


http://www.mjjcommunity.com/forum/threads/127785-Belgian-Man-Discovers-His-Indonesian-Wife-Used-To-Be-A-Man-After-19-Years-of-Marriage!?p=3743961


http://www.deredactie.be/cm/vrtnieuws.english/news/121125_antwerp
http://www.nieuwsblad.be/article/detail.aspx?articleid=DMF20121123_00379526&fb_ref=fb-activity

What I find interesting is that after 19 years of marriage and supposedly loving this person all of a sudden that loves just turns off. Before he rushes into the decision to get his marriage annulled maybe he should take some time to soul search before he makes such a huge decision.

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