Has any provider been booked by another provider who was cis?
Are there trans folk who are bisexual & in the industry?
Would it be very frowned upon for another provider to ask ladies in the area if a paid date is possible?

I'm not sure how it would go over were I to ask, especially since I am female,
& would appreciate unfiltered advice.

Thank you

To answer your first question - Yes - absolutely. I have been booked by, and now as a result of some truly, excellently fun shared experiences (in part also as a result of a GG provider and i both have a couple of the same special male friends), begun to also become friends with at least 2 other providers that are established, mature, Genetic females.  

To your second question.... Also absolutely Yes!  For myself, i never fit any of the many culturally "expected" stereotype views that many people still have (i.e. - must be a drag queen, or gay male, or femme male in girl's clothes, etc, or that it's all just a sexual "lifestyle choice", or "born in the wrong body, and so on... ( i personally don't believe in that, for my own self as well)... ...and... * i have also been attracted to other girls, my whole life... : )

- i think it's a rather special blessing to get a second chance at life, be a truly whole and fearlessly real human being - no matter the hardships that most of us will encounter thru our transitions) or, that it's just all plastics and smoke and mirrors - - i can only speak for myself - at age 47 ....(if you see my recent photos, i have accomplished with no modifications, and years of good training and only my natural features), and my normal social crowd is *only*: married/hetero/lesbian/corporate/military/ and genetic female friends)....  

....as i knew my gender with an overwhelming crystal clarity of awareness at age 4, and, *i was absolutely *never* a gay male*...  in fact, i grew up primarily loving and attracted to other girls & women in general.... it wasn't until my teens that i developed what i can only call a "normal" (and very strong) attraction to men as well, and strictly *only* from a truly female perspective - both mentally/emotionally, and of course VERY sexually.... i have also known other trans women that identify as completely lesbian as well as "bi"....

To your third point... i would not only *Never* frown on being asked by a genetic girl for a paid date, i will always deeply welcome that, and have always considered that as  a.) the highest of compliments and,  b.) a truly special form of sharing and exploration that i treat with absolute sacred care, kindness, and total respectfulness to the nth degree.... dates with couples (most often married and looking for something new to explore), have always been a very special treat for me, at every level both personally and sexually.

Hope this helps widen some of your ideas and helps you find more of what you may be looking for. I think you absolutely rock for coming onto this forum and asking what you did. : )

please feel free to send me a pm as well, if you would ever wish to talk more, love...

Most sweetly, always,

: )

TheAngelaGirl

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I struggle with my sexuality.
While I'm not looking specifically for a soul-searching session where I ask for help with my identity,
I am hoping to explore a long standing desire that blends my bisexual leanings with my preference for one-on-one intimacy.

If I am honored with a tentative friendship, that would be fantastic, but I hold no person to expectations when I don't know them well.

 
In your opinion, would it be too gauche to assume that being a fellow provider... I would not need to provide screening info?
Or is every lady different?

Even if my 'target demographic' is straight men, I'm pansexual in my personal life, so I enjoy men, women, cis, trans, etc! I know that some girls are straight, but I don't think inquiring would be frowned upon. I've thought about hiring another provider myself, but I've also been nervous about how my gender would go over, so I understand the feeling!

...and thank you for your open and honest response, sweetie.... : )

i have found that everyone has a uniquely different set of needs, wants, desires, and motivations, especially when looking for TS women as escorts or companions....and some special friends i have met over time, also have struggled with both their sexual and gender identity... and some definitely have shared life and perception changing experiences that are mutually awesome and may even lead to some real friendships....

...but, some people also know exactly what they want, have it already in their mind what their expectations or fantasies are, and are simply hoping to find someone that will give them the real chance to explore that in real life... in either case, me personally, i'm truly good with all of the above, and carry no judgements or expectations of my own into meeting new people, especially other women, because we really never know how the chemistry will be until we actually meet someone in person as opposed to just text, email, or even phone conversations....  

i have no "script", as everyone is different, and therefore, often intimacy is a very fluid thing for me, and if i have to fake my own passions, i definitely don't want to be there... : )

...and i don't think it was too 'gauche' of you at all, i think that many people have different sets of standards, and references are always a good way in my opinion to have more solid and comforting information about meeting with someone, and all other providers i have ever connected with have always offered their references and so forth, so... i just say, use your own best judgement, really follow your intuition, and be sure you are comfortable with your screening process of anyone you may potentially choose to connect with you...\

i have always preferred "in-person", on the phone conversation, as opposed to text or email for example, as to me, that suits both my life's pace, (i drive a lot, have mainstream jobs, and may be away from emails for a awhile or not be able to text frequently as others) as well as my own style of engaging intimately with others..... and being able to actually hear a person's voice, get a feel for how open they are willing to be, have at least a few minutes of warmly open and comfortably down to earth conversation - is truly key in my own decision making process.... as well as letting the other person also ask me questions, and myself being equally willing to share about myself in order to give assurance to them that i am, in fact, who or what i say in my ads or reviews... : )

 
...and if you're the kind of woman that is truly in touch with that part of yourself, then *always* let your gut feeling be your best guide as well... anytime i haven't listened to my own intuition, well... needless to say it's usually right and i later wished i had....  

You sound wonderful, and i think that what you are doing by opening this topic up here on this board is actually a truly cool thing that you did in your own self-explorative and desire-seeking or desire-quenching process...  : )

Most kindly always, and...

Hugz!

: )

TheAngelaGirl

I love the ladies.  I love guys too, I would consider myself very bisexual.  My SO is a woman, and the one before that.  Different strokes, I guess.

I don't think it ever should be considered rude to ask a provider (politely), and I would hope that a provider who wasn't interested would have the courtesy to turn you down (politely).  

On one "high end" ad mall site, there's an "Available to" field that you could probably use to filter out providers who weren't interested in seeing women. But like with any advertising, the enthusiasm for that may vary. My guess is that it's the same thing as a cis provider who asserts she's "really bi" and down for doubles sessions. But it's a good starting point.

I fully support the assertion that trans women are women, and that straight guys who like trans women aren't any less straight. But it's impossible to NOT acknowledge the fact that being with a feminine trans women offers (some) guys an opportunity to explore their sexuality, or at least their desire to mess around with certain parts or acts. I think the same thing holds true for a cis woman exploring sexuality with someone with feminine attributes. I think some people would say that's objectifying, but if I were that bothered by objectification, sex work of any sort would be really problematic for me.  

Good luck! I am slightly envious of whoever you wind up choosing to reach out to.

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Jessica, you are an amazing person, and I hope that one day soon we can meet.

 
Thank you.

hey hun, there are a fair number of us that are pansexual in the biz.  Or as my friend Jasmeen Lefleur puts it, "Everybody is fair game" Speaking for myself, i'm never offended by being contacted by cis, bi or other TS providers for duos.  hope you find what you're looking for! xoxo kacy

There are more than a few T-ladies who offer services to men, women and other trans some are in fact providers as well, Not my thing, but to each his/her/their own

good luck.

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