hi. i am curious about TS providers. i love anal but allot of female providers don't provide it. do TS providers expect the hobbyist to please them or can you just pass on that part or is that not kosher? i hobby in Minnesota. thanks

I think it all depends on how u ask. There's nice ways of asking without sounding vulgar or scaring a provider away. For example in my site I tell them if u want to experience bottoming just mention how u want me to take control and I will understand that you're seeking that type of experience and tell you if I can make it happen or not. Now it will all depends on the chemistry between the two when you are with your provider. Sometimes it's hard to top if the honbyist is being expectant of it. Of I let things to flow naturally I think you leave satisfied . This is just my opinion I don't think there's rules to it.  

Not that I'm a major consumer...kind of picky but I've never gone into a session with demands or major expectations. I've always selected providers with solid reviews that clearly show that they support a session that flows with my tastes and interest. I've yet to layout an agenda and I've yet to be disappointed. I'm personally not into being a bottom or being dominated so I'm not going to make an appt with a super dominant top only provider. But I've seen countless reviews of guys just picking a provider that doesn't fit their expectation and that ends up hurting both providers. So research, make an educated decision, follow through, be a gentleman and go with the flow...that's always been my M.O. and I couldn't be happier. Just wish I hadn't missed you Aleksandra when you were in LA...you're a cutie and a little nerdy too (bonus)!

I completely agree with both of these points.  I'm personally a big believer in chemistry between myself and someone I'm spending time with.  Choosing the right provider is obviously a very personal and initmate decision, and I always encourage guys to do their homework.  No one is going to be right for everyone, and taking the time to find the right person can only help to ensure that the session is a good one for both of us.  I'll be screening you, and you should be evaluating me, as well : )  

I'm nearly 60 but in good shape and have had many providers but never experienced a TS.  There is one I really want to see but have a concern.  I'm not sure I'm ready to be "bottom" for my first time.  Do providers mind a client preferring that?  There's one that I probably wont meet as she lives on the other end of the country but I can always dream.  Take care