A post a few threads below "Why Trans Girls Make the Best Partners..." --- JustATransGirl     hit a nerve with me in regards to my struggle or perhaps obsession with TS girls.  I love a woman's body and have never ever been attracted to a man at all. Part of the post below says something along the lines that TS girls can work on cars and build homes too.  When I start to think about stuff like that, it boils down that I want to know that I am with a girl who paints nails, not hammer them. But I teeter back and forth as to why I find TS girls attractive.  I have watched a few TS porn videos to get an idea but they come off as more on the gay side and I am not gay.  I struggle with the idea that being with a TS girl may make me gay or that I may like solely TS girls and never want to be with a real woman (physically) again. I am finding it very hard to discover an extremely passable TS girl who I think I would want to be with for the 1st time.  I would like to hear anyone else's thoughts or ideas on the matter. I wonder if I am alone from a straight guy's perspective regarding the TS scene.

Well, I would say this, you probably watch A LOT of porn and have at some point become fixated on the male genitalia.  Not attracted to it per se, it just becomes something you're "interested" in because it's the focal point of your viewing.

Accordingly, since you're not gay, and do not find men attractive, you stumble upon some tranny porn to see what's out there.  

At first, it's a bit odd.  After awhile, you start to want to experience it yourself.  Ultimately, whether you want to or not is up to you.  You only live once though, so if you're thinking about it a lot, go for it.  Hell, if you got the money to spare, just go, touch the damned thing, and see what happens.  You'll either run for your life, or drop to your knees in worship.

As far as passable, they are out there.  Look around, you'll find a few.  Problem is, if you're thing is "not being gay" you'll probably always spot the man underneath it all.

Yes, I can see your point honey.  I use that joke about building a house more to get girl-girls into the sack than to hook guys.  I guess they can relate to it better.  Giggle.

But to me one of the best things about being trans is that after my manicure I actually can hammer nails.  And just like you guys, I don't need to ask directions when I'm lost in the car.  

I guess what I'm trying to say is that one reason I love being trans is that I can be feminine and sexy and loving and serve my man as a woman should.  But I can pull my share of the load and I can enjoy some of the things you enjoy and share them with you often better than a GG.

As for being gay.  No honey you aren't alone. Here's my feelings, maybe they will help you interpret your own.

If you don't get a hard on in the shower, you aren't gay.  Meaning gay men are emotionally and physically attracted to other men.

The fact that you find a girl who may also have a penis to be sensual and sexy doesn't not mean you are going to turn into a flaming faggot the next day.  Even if you are a bottom.  There's lot's of straight guys who enjoy being topped by their girlfriends - a trans girlfriend just doens't need a strap on.

You may find though, that the combination of sexy femininity with a cock will make you never desire a genetic female again.  The question is do you have the balls to give it a try?

Giggle,
TS Jamie  

"Accordingly, since you're not gay, and do not find men attractive, you stumble upon some tranny porn to see what's out there.  

At first, it's a bit odd.  After awhile, you start to want to experience it yourself.  Ultimately, whether you want to or not is up to you."  This is exactly it.  I found myself to be turned on by some of the tranny porn but it is the man underneath that kind of is distracting for me.

Thank you for your response, I appreciate your feedback greatly.  I don't think I would ever find myself being a bottom, just definitely not my thing.  The thing I like about TS girls is that they do come off as very sexy and the fact that they try hard to be sexy and very feminine.

"You may find though, that the combination of sexy femininity with a cock will make you never desire a genetic female again.  The question is do you have the balls to give it a try?"  I believe I do have the balls to give it a try, that is why I have ben on this DB searching out the right one.  I almost went saw Ana the Miami Goddess when she was in Phx (because that is where I live) due to the fact that she looked amazing.  But when I asked the question on this board a while back, there were a lot of negative responses regarding her and that helped me make up my mind not to see her because I need for the 1st time experience to be a very good one in order for me to overcome my mental stumbling blocks.  When she opens the door, she needs to look close to her pics, have a warm and engaging attitude, and make me feel like I am the one for her.  These TS girls should be providing that service to every guy who visits her. Obviously, it will depend on the guy and his looks and hygene.

Thanks again.

hansel777:

You’ve been posting on this board for over six months now so what’s it going to take to tip you over the edge?  Obviously you’ve done a ton of research on PHX but there is one hottie that seems a bit UTR and I am very curious if you have considered a first time meeting with this lady:

TS NINA'S PROFILE
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=63954

TS Nina on Phonex411.net
http://www.phoenix411.net/TS/nina.htm


If you’ve done some homework on her I’d certainly like to learn more


Take care,

TS Tempted


P.S.  The picture is tiny I know but best I could do…

-- Modified on 10/31/2007 1:01:55 PM

I think it's more because they try harder, don't take their femininity for granted, and they accept me for who and what I am (a mutual respect thingy)... and they don't act like they are entitled to the world just because they sit on a vagina...

mine or "hers"....

I could see Nina, and Kate, find out whether Ginna really is all that... and stop by to see CC, one of the most passionate women I have had the pleasure to spend time with...  anything in common here?  Yes, all are older than 23... the age that most TS providers claim they are!  Maturity means ripeness... until it becomes over-ripe... like me!

I don't understand all the statements that TS are more feminine than, or they try harder than genetic women.  Where do you live that this is the case?  I mean, women are fantastic, I have literally met hundreds and hundreds of them in my life and some sucked, and some were fantastic (i'm not saying I slept with them, but I'm talking strictly about meeting/interacting and occasionally sleeping with them).

I think ultimately, the penis is the thing that brings most men to the table, so to speak, when it comes to a TS.

I suppose if this was the case why aren't more men clamoring for a post-op TS?  I've seen about 1 post, maybe 2, in the past few months where the person wanted a post-op TS.  If that's you, then you're off the hook.  You may really be focused on the perceived feminity of the TS as opposed to a genetic female.  If not, it's the penis.

There is nothing wrong with becoming focused on the penis.  Like I said, it's a natural evolution from watching too much porn probably in most cases.  Exlporing your sexuality is healthy though, and if you find out you like the penis on a woman, that's awesome.  More power to you.  I don't think it makes anyone gay, it's just an attraction that developed over time, and although you love women, you like a penis down below too.

I wouldn't pressure the poster to take the leap either.  It's his decision, and if this forum provides a chance to take his time and fully evaluate what he's looking for, great.  For some, it's not as easy of a decision to make.  I say, hold off until you think you're ready.  Otherwise, it may not be fun, and you probably will be too nervous to enjoy it.


Disclaimer:  This post isn't at all directed at, or claiming that a TS is not or cannot be feminine.  It's just a statement regarding how often I see this claim that they are more feiminine or somehow appreciate their feminity more.

Nothing I or anyone else said should be pressuring you into a decision.  You're obviously taking your time and giving careful consideration to all the issues real or perceived.  That's good, very good, but I hope you don't mind a little good natured teasing about your virginal condition now and again

Take care,

TS Tempted