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Call when you arrive, if no answer, wait 5 to 10 minutes and call again. If still no answer then wait another 5 to 10 minutes and call again. If after the third call you still get no answer then it is resonable to look else where.

I don't know about everyone else, but when I make a decision to see someone, I have done nothing but think about that beautiful woman and what we will do to each other the entire way there and the entire time I was getting ready, so that when I finally arrive, I am not interested in seeing anyone but her.

heres what hapd.... anyone whos done this before knows if u call a girl and say youll be there in an hour knows that once u get to their location in an hour...  theres a possibility when u call to say youve arrived they wont answer (maybe she left) (maybe shes with someone else)  so heres my question... once u make that 2nd call at their place  and they dont answer how long should u wait before its ok to leave? and try and see someone else OR just go home? i called a girl who posts on here and had 100 percent intention of seeing her showed up waited exactly 7 minuts (not a lot i know) then called another girl who lived right around the corner who picked right up and said "come over baby" which i did and of course the first girl called 3 minuts after that and i told her i was there and had left and she started screaming "DONT EVER FUCKING CALL ME AGAIN" i tried to explain to no avail :(   suggestions... comments...?

If you arrive at the appointed time and are expected... It is rightfully assumed that you should expect the lady in questino to answer her phone when you call... However,this is the real world and things do happen.

Perhaps she failed to hear the phone ring, was in the shower, or possibly had another client lingering around too long after the appointment. In any case it can be frustrating but my feeling is that ANYONE... should be entitled to 15 minutes!

If aftere 15 there is not a response them I would fully assume that something came up and our appointment had been cancelled.

I have been in a similar situation before and it can be frustrating for both parties... teh fact is I feel everyone should be a tad forgiving here but others may feel differently. In truth... your 7 minute deal is a tad annoying and I would side with the lady on that one... but there are certainly situations that would warrant making other arrangements. I'd say if you gave her 20 honest minutes to get answer, you could be fully justified in having left for another appointment. Anything less than 15 IHMO is pretty petty if you ask me...


MY .02

Fog

Hmmm Sorry to disagree with you Foggarty, but if you set a time and called within the hour before you arrive, I cant see why she cant be on time.   Showering should have been done in the 45 minute prior,  But I am really a stickler when it comes to time if I say 3 pm I am there at 2:45 pm My dad was military so I guess we learned to be on time or left.  When this happens it frustrates me unless they are on a call which it rings different and I  will wait but it kinda means that they dont honor your time.  With all the highly reviewed girls I have never had a problem if I say 3 pm they are ready at 3pm.  If there is a problem I have had them call me and say they have to push the time back.  On the other hand have had some not highly reviewed ones 10 minutes 15 minutes sometimes they even blow you off(no pun intended) and not answer at all.  I would rather they say No I dont want to see you during the first call.  Just IMHO their time is important and so is mine.

Posted By: Foggarty
If you arrive at the appointed time and are expected... It is rightfully assumed that you should expect the lady in questino to answer her phone when you call... However,this is the real world and things do happen.

Perhaps she failed to hear the phone ring, was in the shower, or possibly had another client lingering around too long after the appointment. In any case it can be frustrating but my feeling is that ANYONE... should be entitled to 15 minutes!

If aftere 15 there is not a response them I would fully assume that something came up and our appointment had been cancelled.

I have been in a similar situation before and it can be frustrating for both parties... teh fact is I feel everyone should be a tad forgiving here but others may feel differently. In truth... your 7 minute deal is a tad annoying and I would side with the lady on that one... but there are certainly situations that would warrant making other arrangements. I'd say if you gave her 20 honest minutes to get answer, you could be fully justified in having left for another appointment. Anything less than 15 IHMO is pretty petty if you ask me...


MY .02

Fog

Kap,

No worries... to each their own with respect to their time considerations...

I just feel 15 minutes is not unreasonable in certain circumstances. If this were something that is habitual for the lady then I'd say yes... perhaps better time management is needed. I like you try to be early rather than later to an appointment but that is only because I know how difficult it can be to get around in my area. The problem with being early though is that you are then impeding on her time before the appointment.

In a perfect world yes... on-time should be the expectation but there are allot of factors out there and perhaps I'm just more tolerant.

Fog

Call when you arrive, if no answer, wait 5 to 10 minutes and call again. If still no answer then wait another 5 to 10 minutes and call again. If after the third call you still get no answer then it is resonable to look else where.

I don't know about everyone else, but when I make a decision to see someone, I have done nothing but think about that beautiful woman and what we will do to each other the entire way there and the entire time I was getting ready, so that when I finally arrive, I am not interested in seeing anyone but her.

gargoyle34949 reads

It's happend to me before.  I'll call when i get there (on time of course) if no answer I'll wait 10 min or so, call again, then another 5.  If nothing then i leave.  If it's an out of town provider, I may give more leeway just because she may not be around my area anytime soon.  Out of towners seems to be busiest, the regulars in town i have encountered that less (i guess their schedules arne't jammed as much)

berog600 reads

I've long given up trusting that any provider will answer the phone when you get there.
A back-up plan is a must if your horny.

If they are expecting you, and they don't pick up, it's on them.

As others have said, if you didn't get an answer the first time, wait 5-10 minutes, call again, then another 5-10 minutes, and if no answer then, move on.  I think 15 minutes is more than enough time, especially if you've arrived on time.  There's no excuse for such poor time management.

As a matter of fact, there's one TS I've seen (name withheld to prevent drama) that, based on her reviews, has a problem with time management.  Some of her reviews indicated that clients were kept waiting for long periods of time upon arrival, and again after actually meeting and prior to play time.  When I saw her, I had to leave a message, then settled down to wait; I was luckier than others because she called back promptly (though once I got in the room and met her, she kept me waiting about 10 minutes while she finished prepping).  The session itself was definitely worth it, plus I knew going in about the possibility of having to wait -- and I'm definitely going to see her again the next time she's in town -- but if it were anyone else, I doubt I'd have the patience to stick around.

But I also agree with others: in the case you specifically cited, you were a little TOO impatient, and made the wrong call.  Granted, she shouldn't have to keep clients waiting, but in this case, I don't blame her for being a bit pissed off.  I say, chalk it up as a learning experience for next time.

I think 15 minutes is a far amount of lee way time.  Once again I feel as a provider I should bring my opinion in this thread and bring up the fact that the TG provider market is a very different ball game. I've had guys that have called me up that are literally 5 minutes away from my house and I have to rush to get myself together if I want his business. I've also had guys who have set up a specific time and will show up 30 minutes later with no explanation or sometimes not at all. Then there are the guys that want it when they want it. NOW!! No need to try & reason with them & schedule a appointment because they will more than likely agree(lie) & hang up and call the nearest provider in the area that is available. (Almost like a telemarketer that just goes down the list cold calling until he suceeds with a sell)Don't get me wrong, a lot of girls need to have better time management skills BUT if we are constantly in a market that works on a " I want it now or never" mentality it's sometimes hard to take any guy serious when he calls and wants a specific appointment when the 50 guys before him call randomly when they are in the area & horny for a tranny NOW!

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