FYI. If you are not on Danielle's yahoo groups, she just made it public and announced she is going post op early next year, thus the reason to stop seeing her fans. So, my hunch was correct. In my opinion, that may explain her recent sour attitude. I don't know about you, but when you are on the tail end of a job, your attitude isn't alway positive. Also, if you have monitored her yahoo group, she has become very angry recently because fans or men on the groups apparntly do not treat her well. A few months back she stated she would no longer be responding to anyone there and only post her travel schedule. I am a big fan, think she is hot, and until recently, thought she was one cool TS. As for her surgery, I think they use part of her penis to form the new vagina. I say they take what is left, mount it, and hang it in the AVN Hall of Fame, with the little hair patch included!!!!!
I Google my name from time to time just to make sure that everything is in order with my name and came across this thread. I have to tell you, some of your comments are pretty childish, like " Drunken man ", I mean...come on... If you don't like me then why are you searching to post comments? Uneducated and childish in my opinion, moving along.
It is my right to refuse who I want to refuse. Now... could someone get bitter and mad because he was turned down? It is through my experience with callers and men that you will never admit fault and will always blame the female, especially when you are a Review Reading Internet Addict. I am very discrete about my encounters and I like to keep it that way.
When I stop seeing someone there is a very good reason behind the decision. One incident I recall is this guy John in NY I have seen twice. I am not into smokers, guys who slobber, or men who are subs. That is contrary to my screen persona, which can be confusing to some. I am a lady and I like to be treated that way. Having met with me twice should have been a good thing, and appreciated while it lasted.
If I am not into you, I don't like your personality, the way you look, smell, don't clean your shit hole, expect me to kiss your ashtray smelling mouth then you have me wrong.
I am an actress but there is a BIG limit to what I can and will put up with. I love men but if I am not attracted to you I am not going to pretend to be because you are paying me. No money in the world can make me act another way then my true self. This to me and to my admirers is a great gift. There are many providers who will lie, cheat you, and tell you what you want to hear. I am true to myself and to my friends, I treat everyone equally but I will not pretend to like you if I don't. DO NOT TAKE OFFENSE TO THAT - It's a personal choice, it's some of you all's choice not to like me based on false internet gossip, so it is my choice to spend time with whom I see fit. I have friends in NY I have spent time with for over 4 years and I absolutely looooooove their company and love being with them, but if they ever change or do something that turns me off I will drop them - as they would me. It's the nature of the business - Deal with it.
I don't have to come on these review boards to defend my self or my character and some of you are right. I am a complete bitch on the phone, but I am straight to the point - LOCATION AND TIME - if you want to chat you can call someone who charges by the minute, I am super busy and do not have the time or patience to deal with some of your self explanatory questions. What does that mean? It means some of the questions you ask me cannot be discussed over the phone and if you ask them you will get hung up on and your number will be added to my " DO NOT ANSWER " list. When you call me over and over and over 300 times a day this will also get to X'ed. Please have some sense and some class when dealing with anyone, common curtsey can be extended to anyone, even if you don't respect a woman in my position, which is also another good reason for me not to want to spend time with you.
Obviously after reading some of your comments I can see a clear why I am so good At my ability to judge one's character just by hearing them talk on the phone. Could that have been a hypocritical comment since I am so cold over the phone? Not if you know the difference between cold and crude vs. direct and discrete. Any calm, clear minded individual, one who does not like to tear a woman down based on her choices and preferences, can do this.
Please respect my choices and me and stop posting these overly critical reviews based on the fact your ego was shot down. They help no one, and being a prick towards the women you vow to have such a strong attraction to is a clear view inside your character and lack of regard to what we have to deal with on a daily basis just to get through filtering calls and making sure we are secure and safe in this crazy business.
I have heard this comment to many times..."Its tough being in the public eye all the time". My comment to this is you are exactly correct or whoever chooses to be in the public eye or is so fortunate to make it big, is automatically there. So, my final point.....Unless you choose to step down, you are "on stage" lights camera action 100% of the time when you are in pubic, on the phone, or sending any type of communication. Its just the way it works. When things don't go well, people talk. Its human nature. Good luck to all. This could go on forever and I'm done. I wish Danielle the very best.
I do see many of your points, I'm sure you deal with tons of idiots on a given day and certainly anyone that does not practice proper hygiene should be avoided no matter what amount of money they have. However, if you truly believe you must be attracted to people that pay you for your time, then it is probably time to get out of the business. I'm impeccably clean and probably average looking for my age, but if I were considered really attractive to hot TS girls, why would I be shelling out $$$+/hr to spend time with them?
Really? You just happened to Google your name and found this thread? I Googled your name and gave up after going through 6 pages of reference to you with no mention of this thread. And you sound alot busier than me, so I can't imagine when you gave up. I don't believe you found this thread through Google. I think you're another "Review Reading Internet Addict" just like the rest of us.
But this is good news for you, DF. It means deep down inside you must really be a woman. I mean, come on, it's obvious you're checking TER hoping to see some good shit that's written about you, and that makes you an Attention Whore, which pretty much affirms your status as a Vaginal American.
Ok, honey, I gotta go. All this writin's got me so friggin' worked up I friggin drooled all over my Marlboro and extinguished the Motherf*cker.
PS. I've never called you. Just whacked off to alot of your (internet addicted) videos.
Remember, 95% of the working girls truly despise tranny chasers. Danielle realizes there are thousands of men who currently worship her. Once she has the chop job, none of the tranny chasers will give a damn about her. She will then be a below average looking woman with a fake cunt.
come on danielle,grow up.why do you care your so much?your having an operation, so why do you care?why are you taking it so personal?you never have to see these people who support you by buying your tapes, you come across so pompous in this letter,good riddance uncleevan
Someone famous, I can't remember who, said this about transsexuals. "I don't know if she was born a woman, but what matters is she's a woman now."
And "Brenden," it's not that I defend just the girls - I defend anyone I feel is being treated unfairly. I try to see both sides and when possible bring Mars a little closer to Venus. LOL
With all respect for "asnlvr's" comments I don't think most t-girls "despise tranny chasers."
I know I certainly don't despise the men who take care of me, I LOVE you guys. That's why I do what I do. I really get a sense of fulfillment when I know that I've made my man feel good, and that he feels I'm worthy enough to want to pay me for my company.
But when you read the disparaging and often hurtfull remarks in these forums, think how it makes the girls feel. It's no wonder they get jaded and forget who butters their bread.
Regarding Danielle, whom I do not know personally, "Dog" may be right. Maybe she just got tired. She probably has 100X the "admirers" that I do so I can only imagine the "interesting" people she has to deal with.
Also remember boys, the reason many girls enter this business is to save the $40-100,000.00 needed for surgeries. For many of us SRS is the goal.
So yes, give her a break. She's given you all some nice years, maybe her best years, and maybe a few of you had some nice times with her in person (or on video) giggle. So remember the good times and wish her all the happiness she can get as she moves on in her life's journey.
I know I hope she has a wonderful life, and I hope when I have my surgery some day you will all wish the same for me.
Thank you for that! Well said... This was my favorite part of your posting:
" I know I certainly don't despise the men who take care of me, I LOVE you guys. That's why I do what I do. I really get a sense of fulfillment when I know that I've made my man feel good, and that he feels I'm worthy enough to want to pay me for my company ".
You are extremely right! I don't have to come in here and fish for business, I do have alot of good clients - Fat, hairy, bald, long hair, big nutz, small nutz, small packages, NICEEEEE packages. I think Brad Pitt is a gorgeous man but if any of you have seen or read some of the things I wrote about the man I have was in love with you will see that he is just your avarage Joe. He does work out and keeps his body healthy but he is far from the Pitt or the Baldwin.
I think there are several aspects of why girls do what they do... Yeah... The money is amaizing, but it has also been used for great things on my end. Surgeries, school, payed off my car and I have a decent very avarage house hold. I am very grateful to everything I have accomplished with the help of my friends.
The reason why I think men give us gifts to spend time with us and we accept them is mainly because they are basically paying for discretion. Most guys see us as fantasies, and most do not want to date. We have an agreement. I see all different types of guys, but most see me as a discrete encounter.
My ex boyfriend was a client. We hit it off right away, he was married ( no kids ) he lived in NY and I am on the West Coast. I said to him that I would not date a married man because that was not fair to me. So... He divorced and came to the west coast, on his own terms, but I was not the only reason for the change. He decided that honesty with himself and family was the best way to brake out of the " paying gigs ".
For most of you its fear. Dating can be a very painful process and most TS are coo-coo for coco puffs, but most women generally are. And trust me - alot of you guys I have met are as well. Finding the good match is very difficult and some actually do. But adiction to sex and fear of the unknown can create a very painful false existance, and not a fulfilling one.
The reasons why I am very selective on who I see are very simple.
1- Safety 2- Hygene 3- Chemistry ( I hate spending time with someone I have nothing in common with ) 4- Personality 5- Someone who does not treat me like a vendor at a flea market 6- generosity 7- Masculinity 8- someone who treats me like the lady I am 9- Vanilla as oppesed to what I do on screen.
Looks aren't extremely important to me. There is always something very interesting about everyone.
I have seen a "Small Person", someone with a cathera bag, amputees, as well as extremely beautiful men who gave me some of the most amaizing sex of my life - and yes - they left a donation...
I am not superficial, and I can understand how some of you may be jaded by alot of your previous encounters, but if I did not care why would I be in here??? Remember... I don't have to
How shallow, I think you miss judge many of us. I think Ms Foxx is a sweet lady and would think foldly of her regardless of the corrective surgery. Many of you clowns can't see beyond your 3 inch dicks.
That is just what I am doing, growing up. There is a lot more to us transsexuals aside from your fantasies and your belief in our abilities as humans. Also, I do have a life outside of the business and I do have normal relations with other people. I am not an Internet junkie, nor do I care about false opinions. My point is to show you a glimpse into who I really am so that you can see that your speculations are false. I am not out to please everyone, and one man's trash is another's gold. With that said I have never placed myself higher then where I can reach on my toes and arms extended, but I have had help from those who are willing to help. I love to be normal and to have normal friendships and relations with people. I am not here on the Internet more often because as you see people can live their whole lives based on the Internet. Some of you have lives in here... That's not normal to me, or to anyone's standards if you ask around. But I am not one to judge but as the saying goes " People in glass houses should not throw stones ". Someone posted a reply saying, "After the her SRS Danielle will be just an average girl with a fake pussy..." Isn’t that the truth? That's my goal; to be your average girl, have a good calm life, as normal as I can possibly get it. I don't have high expectations for anything in life. I have never bragged about my looks, went on discussion boards posting my pictures and saying my shit don't stink... That's because I am your " average girl "... My "popularity status" is based on my love for what I do, how well I do it and how real of a person I am. I have a good outlook in life and I respect people. Allanah starr said it best - There is no bad publicity - It's all publicity. I am glad that I can sit here today and be totally comfortable standing tall after some of you have made total idiots of yourselves. Telling me to grow up? I mean... come on...LOL It's funny when a woman such as myself, a woman whom you all believe to be brainless actually challenges your pride and holds a mirror to your face and makes you take a deep look at your poor outlook in life and your inability to have healthy, mutually respectful relationships with people. We transsexuals aren't yours to treat as you wish. Like the people who collect your trash, literally. We have feelings and we are real. That's why a lot of girls have poor attitudes towards you. Your inability to treat us with the respect you treat others in the " real world " is ridiculous. Your reality is non-existent. For most of you the love for transsexuals does not extend beyond your orgasms. We are treated like Taboo, disrespected, talked down to and humiliated. But I am not going to make sure I not only stand up for myself but for my kind as well. Take a look at your own lives and remember that only the one who is without sin can judge. No one else!!! Not you... Not me... Not anyone!
XOXO
Danielle
PS: a transsexual, someone who is indeed a beautiful creature - inside and out, writes all this!
Just because you are a Porn Star does not give you the right to be conceited or the right to have an attitude. Perhaps you should consider registering for disability, because it's obvious that you're completely blind to the fact that you are a total tool. You are no body and will never be, everyone (Tranny Chaser, TS) know your attitude is inappropriate and SUCKS!
If you are going to be a woman, act like one. Your attitude will get you no where in life, Listen,Learn, and deal with it. I don't cared if you are a well known Porn Star with an 8 inch fuctional tool, does not make you famous or vow down to you. Learn from the best, Jamie Jameson.
it is very sad that danielle has to have the last word.she obviously does not like who she is or she would of not be going for the surgery.why danielle, do you care what other people say when in a few months you will never see these people again,are you so insecure? there were a lot of posters who said your attitude was piss poor,and the sad thing is all the people she was rude too are the ones helping to support her by buying her tapes and seeing her. brendensmith
Guys, she sounds cool.. give her a break and leave her alone.. She is being honest and real. That's all you can ask for. I would rather that than a fake BS answer...
Thank you sweety, I appreciate you reading my posts with an open mind and as they were truly written - from the heart.
It does bug me people have the wrong idea of me, that goes for the mean people too. I try my best to get through to them but unfortunally we can all see whose choice is it to continue the war.
Without obstacles, haters and enemies the strength that lies within us all would be pointless. I take all of this to the heart and chose to embrace them as lessons to better myself, so that I don't do the same to those who reach out to me.
It's amazing how a bad phone call can be the reasoning for crucifixion. But if Jesus wouldn't have been nailed to that cross I am not sure what would be of the world today...
My people have gone through allot of humiliation and we still obviously do. But it's not the fist time or the last time one attempts to shut mine or any of our spirits down. It's human nature to fear those who seem to have a higher awareness of others emotions and difficulties. There is a serious lack of compassion and understanding in the world but I am not going to preach world peace.
This is the typical behavior that gets me to answer the phone without patience. By the way, I don't live my life for my admirers nor will I ever "act" as I do. I am not "on stage" nor did I transition, as into being the strong woman I am today to be public property.
This is a "transition". I am extremely proud of all I have been a part of. I have been a stage performer, won many tittles. I have worked over seas for Tokyo Disneyland back in 1994. I was in Miss Congeniality 2 (the movie) where I got to stand next to Sandra B. (one of my favorite actresses). That was an experience of a lifetime... Would I ever not display my boy pictures in my house because I am ashamed of who I was and where I have been? NEVER! If you have ever been over to my house I have pictures of me with my family and friends from before transition, and that person is still the same on the inside.
I transitioned for ME and not for you guys. And that is the truth. I am not your property nor will I ever be, even if you act like babies and pounce your feet on the ground, huff puff and act like bullies.
GET OVER IT! I am not who you think I am obviously. It's ok to accept the truth even if it means that you will have to think it's a failure. Because some of your limited mentality will want to fight and keep your macho status.
I DON'T CARE WHO I PISS OFF!
You don't like it then tough shit! You want a woman to be yours to do with as you wish then go fucking buy a rubber doll!
Until transsexuals have brains like some of you claim to have we will always be who we are, even if some of us are scared to " hurt our business " by being opinionated. I don't give a shit about the " business ". I haven't gotten my name by kissing anyone's ass - But if God came down from heaven and said - Kiss my ass - I would send him to the shower, collect my donation and ask him to sit on my face! When the hr was up I would send him right back to where he came from and my life would continue... But you know what? I wouldn't create a website where people could brag about who's face Jesus set on... But that's just my opinion... and opinions are like assholes... everyone has one.
A man who finds no satisfaction in himself will seek for it in vain elsewhere.
XOXO The Foxxx... That's right! I am a Foxxx, got a problem with that?
this was danielles comment let us all remember it. You don't like it then tough shit! You want a woman to be yours to do with as you wish then go fucking buy a rubber doll! brenden
this was her comment let us all remember it. You don't like it then tough shit! You want a woman to be yours to do with as you wish then go fucking buy a rubber doll! brenden
Sorry all. Lets retire this one. Noone will win and its not about winning. I voiced my opinion and feel it was sound. A few of you are getting nasty. No need for that. Lets move on guys and gals.
Having read through this post, I would like to add my 2 cents. First, as some of you may know, I have been in this hobby for 20+ years, hey I started young when it really was a "surprise"! Things have changed dramatically, from those days when at times girls actually, bought me drinks and seduced me when I was inebriated. That being said, I got smart about being with a provider, any provider. First, do you homework! If there are reviews read them and realize that YMMV! Second, know what you want. Third, ask questions, but be sensitive that providers may be hesitant to answer them, if they dont move on. fourth, remember the golden rule, "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" - this does not necessarily mean that you have to bottom and top, just treat the provider with as much respect as you would like to receive. Fifth, understand that acting is acting and the provider may not do for us what she does on screen for a number of reasons.
OK so this is for the providers out there. First, realize that you are in a service business and this is our Better Business Bureau. Expect that there will be some discussion and perhaps negative reviews. I think that most of the hobbyist here understand that YMMV. Second, understand that if there is incomplete information in your ad, we may ask questions that are designed to determine if you are what we are actually seeking, hey there are plenty of guys who are looking for what you have just be honest about who you are. Third, be honest about the services you will / can deliver. Fourth remember the Golden rule, see above. Fifth, if you acting persona is different then your provider persona - please either say that over the phone or in your ad.
For all be safe, gentlemanly and lady like in your attitudes, what you do in the bedroom is up to you!
GUYS FORGET ABOUT HER,SHE NEEDS THE LAST WORD Let's MOVE ON .SHE OBVIOUSLY THINKS SHE HAS DONE NOTHING WRONG,THE BEST THING WE CAN DO IS FORGET ABOUT HER, AND NOT BUY HER TAPES OR SEE HER, IF YOU FEEL SHE HAS NOT TREATED YOU RIGHT BRENDENSMITH
She makes a lot of very good points. I think people's reaction have been a bit harsh, but ultimately I think it's the tone of you're writing most of the time rather than the substance that is irritating people.
It's certainly one thing to say what you have to say. It's all very rational and understandable. I will certainly concede that. The way it's delivered can be misconstrued pretty easily though because of the tone (at times).
First, you do come off as extremely pompous (as someone said earlier) and a bit "holier than thou" in certain instances. It's fairly annoying when people claim to have special insight into human emotion and to state that's why people fear you. Statements like that are pretty simple and come off as stupid, and people are always going to be offended. What in the world makes anyone think they have any insight that places them above anyone else that they don't actually know? You may be the most or least understanding person in the world, but your opinion of yourself is biased and nobody is going to respect a statement like that.
Also, stating you're a bitch on the phone because you're direct is a copout. You can be direct without being rude. Answering the phone is part of the busines. People are investing what may be a lot of money for them (although TS are really cheap I think, $$$$, about??) and they don't deserve to be treated rudely any more than you. You get upset, obviously, that people are being rude to you on a silly message board and there isn't even any personal interaction.
It's one thing to argue, but if you're going to challenge people who for the most part make your life possible I would think talking down to them isn't the way to go. All in all, what you write is fine, and I think the substance is great and people are overreacting. Also, the tone much of the time is fine. I don't mean to make it sound like the tone is off the whole time. It's just certain spots that come off as arrogant. That ending of the last post is absurd though in all honesty. False bravado just comes off as childish.
Well, I don't know who you are, but good luck in your transition!!!!
Yeah guys - let's all picket Danielle!!! We can do this - Let's start a " WE HATE DANIELLE POST " and spread the word! She is a fake lying sack of shit! DON'T BUY HER TAPES - LET'S MOVE ON!!!
It's not about who gets the last word, or who is right or wrong... Did I ever say I was right? You have your right to be upset, I have my right to appologize, you have your right to accept it or not! You have made your choice, there is no need for further hate.
I understand that I may have upset 2 of you over the phone, or was not able to return your calls. If I am busy when you call and have back to back apts I cannot call back. I have a 1 hr call back rule. After that one hr I run the risk of reaching someone's wife, girlfriend, kid, whatever... And discretion if my number one rule, that including reviews.
My add clearly answers all of the questions I am able to talk about in writting and over the phone. As an experienced provider I know what is expected of me.
Ok so here is a scenario...
Guy calls and wants to be a sub. I am in a hotel and cannot verbally abuse as if not allert hotel staff. Sub wants to try to " btm " and usually cannot take it... THAT'S RIGHT BOYS! lol I am not lying, usually you will not be able to handle it and I end up being sub. This in my private life ofcorse lol...
So... if you know how to clean yourself up so you don't paint my snake brown I am game - GROSS!!! That is a complete, nasty, don't even wanna think about it, smells like ass thought!
Any other questions? I am an open book!
But then again you can be a baby and start a hate group as stated above...
Love you all... No... Seriously!!!
WE HATE DANIELLE!!! WE HATE DANIELLE!!! WE HATE DANIELLE!!!
There is so much joy and radiance in your performances, pictures, shows and all. I really do not understand the turmoil in this thread of messages, but then again, there are lots of such anger around.
I have enjoyed, laughed and enjoyed again watching the Maury show and some videos.
Your movements and your smile simply makes me feel that humans are wonderful creatures.
Stop using Jesus as an excuse for being a narrow-minded, bigoted Bitch. Everyone in the TS community past or present all know that Danielle Foxxx is conceited and rude. If you are going to be a provider in this business you need to change your attitude. Customers is alway right...I disagree "Customer isn't always right", to be in business we all must treat each other with respect and courtesy.
We all don't like what we do and the men we all deal with everyday. Sometime we get jerks, asshole, and brainless narrow minded people. In this business if you want people to respect you treat them with the same respect you would like to be treated. With the money your going to spend for your SRS surgery use it wisely and buy yourself some attitude adjustment. Your manners and attitude will only make it more ugly.
Are you sure that's the way you want to talk to her pucca? Calling her a narrow-minded bigoted bitch? You should have ended your message right there. Why read on after saying something like that. Danielle is a person and you're a pissed-off sad-sack.
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